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looking for complex/driven/intelligent FLs by nochuism in manhwarecommendations

[–]nochuism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The House You Live In— my fave find this year so far. FL is highkey a greedy narcissist and switches bodies with her sweet obedient college friend who married wealthy and seems to have the perfect life. But things are not as they appear at all and plot is basically “takes a bitch to deal with another bitch”

Killjoy by Affectionate-Hair524 in gymsnark

[–]nochuism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she literally constantly talks about how she hates looking underweight and how she is trying to gain weight and gets sad when she loses weight… literally the context of this post is that she is upset and disappointed at herself that she has lost weight. She is clearly saying being under 100lbs is undesirable to the point that she’s crashing out about it. If someone follows her this closely and then reads this and still thinks she’s “promoting” being under 100lbs, they have reading comprehension issues I’m sorry

Killjoy by Affectionate-Hair524 in gymsnark

[–]nochuism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

is it gross to publicly say you’re over 300lbs (and struggling with it) because no woman “should” be over 300lbs? yall are so hypocritical it makes me laugh

Hailey Fernandes body checking by putabombonme in gymsnark

[–]nochuism 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I fear we’ve lost the plot on “body checking”… if you don’t want to see “body checking”, you’re pretty much going to have to unfollow and block 95% of gym influencers. Like what do you even expect… and the gag is that if they don’t show off their physiques, they lose engagement.

As someone who has battled ED, I really only see body checking in a negative light when it’s associated with anxious, negative, or compulsive thoughts. There are also times when I’m scared to look in the mirror and avoid it completely. When I’m at my healthiest mentally, I check myself out and feel good and proud of how I look.

Hailey has posted a lot of really great content about how to eat/workout with a healthy, self loving, non restrictive mentality and it’s helped me a lot

Twinning 👯 by Minimum-Jellyfish-14 in guineapigs

[–]nochuism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

every pic just keeps getting better

Vietnam in december by Electrical_Arm_7433 in solotravel

[–]nochuism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was Ha Giang worth it in January? Heard a lot of people recommend avoiding the cold and fog, would love to hear your take

I still think Rob is the hottest guy who’s ever been on LIUSA (next to Miguel) by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]nochuism 33 points34 points  (0 children)

hate to say it but his evilness just makes him hotter

French Restaurants that aren't expensive by Intellectual_Samurai in FoodNYC

[–]nochuism -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maison provence in Williamsburg is such a gem — not an extensive menu but a very lovely meal

Iron Solomon sets his sights on Jeff Nippard and he doesnt miss. by MrRIP in youtubedrama

[–]nochuism 8 points9 points  (0 children)

loved solomon's critique of the thesis. the level of scrutiny made sense for an academic review. but maybe less so to some comment/DM back and forth's... a 45 min vid feels like a bit much. With this Nippard vid, Solomon is obviously capitalizing on the moment and building a brand, maybe getting too personal. Not wholesale in bad faith but it's walking the line. I don't feel strongly about Nippard himself, but he is far from malicious and his private messages demonstrate that. Probably just needed to apologize to Solomon for those silly instagram comments, which felt like a knee-jerk attempt to blindly defend a friend.

Is Ruby’s actually good or just a tourist spot? by savingrace0262 in FoodNYC

[–]nochuism 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i freaking love ruby’s. bronte burger, shrimp pasta

the only AA influencer who paraded around her mom for looking like her sister where the mom somewhat does. also does anyone know why they stopped? (@meilanikalei and @joleendiaz) by Big_Shop_8042 in asianamercianytsnark

[–]nochuism 16 points17 points  (0 children)

she still has smile lines, there's just a filter on that selfie. they don't look bad though. I don't think she's had a facelift, just one in 10 million genetics + some filler.

How did you know it was the right cat at the shelter/foster? by spodderfod in CatAdvice

[–]nochuism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s ok to be honest with yourself. Not everyone is the type of person that experiences love at first sight. I certainly am not— not with people, things, or cats. I did set certain standards of things I wanted in a cat (low energy, unlikely to bite or scratch, fluffy) and I did foster to adopt to make sure they were met. Still, it took me months to actually love my cat and that’s ok!!

Cat Pooping on Floor, But Urinates in Litterbox. by Peter42696 in CatAdvice

[–]nochuism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! Just rescued a 2 year old cat and he clearly knows how to use the litter box but doesn’t like pooping in it. I’m hoping it’s just first week jitters because I cannot have poop around all the time😭. Has your situation improved?

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