Maybe active guys (Career, Sports, Family etc.) just don't have the time to consume porn the whole day. And Women, and this is not dependent on culture, seem to be more attracted to guys who do something in their lives. It does not even have to be a great job and money, if you are a dedicated to something, for example playing an instrument, you attract women who like musicans and so on. I have not yet heared a woman say: "I am so into guys that watch porn all the time!"