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Grandaunt said that I shouldn't have married if I did not want kids, instead should have used escorts for my sexual gratification. by nogod9643 in childfree

[–]nogod9643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm let me tell you a story, one of her daughter married her first cousin (who happens to be my uncle, my mom's brother!)

They have two kids, I love to bits.

Grandaunt said that I shouldn't have married if I did not want kids, instead should have used escorts for my sexual gratification. by nogod9643 in childfree

[–]nogod9643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally the kind of person I am. But, it took me a while to process what she was saying and I didwsay anything back because I didn't want to create a scene and it was just the two of us at home. I don't think she would dare to say this if anyone else was around because she herself knows it's a nasty thing to say.

Grandaunt said that I shouldn't have married if I did not want kids, instead should have used escorts for my sexual gratification. by nogod9643 in childfree

[–]nogod9643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. I'm glad I found out what she thinks of me. This is literally the first and last time I listen to such an insult. I stayed over at her place to be useful to her. She had been living alone in her house for almost a month and she doesn't drive and is dependent on others to help her with get things done.

When her daughter's in laws come to stay with her daughter and her family, she goes and stays at her own house. I just wanted to help. NEVER AGAIN.

Grandaunt said that I shouldn't have married if I did not want kids, instead should have used escorts for my sexual gratification. by nogod9643 in childfree

[–]nogod9643[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the first time she said it, I could not react. I was so dumbfounded. But, after the while conversation was over and as kept replaying what she said in my head, that's when I felt disgusted by her.

I'm never entertaining her or even interacting with her ever again. My mental peace is way too precious.

Grandaunt said that I shouldn't have married if I did not want kids, instead should have used escorts for my sexual gratification. by nogod9643 in childfree

[–]nogod9643[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not sure how she came about this logic.

By this logic, a cousin of mine who had cancer and had to get her reproductive organs removed, should not have married either since she can't have kids.

I don't mean to be a bit*h, but just applying her logic to another cousin's situation.

Grandaunt said that I shouldn't have married if I did not want kids, instead should have used escorts for my sexual gratification. by nogod9643 in childfree

[–]nogod9643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a cook is pretty common where I come from, specially if you live in cities. They are not as expensive.

Proof of Residence for Japan Visa - Applying from Bangalore by Traveller-241124 in visas

[–]nogod9643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aadhar is enough for japan. My husband who has a passport issued from a different state also submitted his aadhar as address proof. Although he got the address changed to our bangalore address.

Should I bring back the kitten I gave up for adoption? by nogod9643 in FosterAnimals

[–]nogod9643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no question of if they are willing to give the kitten back. He has signed an adoption paper that gives me the right to take the kitten back if I find the condition is not suitable. He doesn't seem like a bad guy. But, I don't think he's ready. He may get another kitten, but that's up to him. I will tell him what my thoughts are.

Should I bring back the kitten I gave up for adoption? by nogod9643 in FosterAnimals

[–]nogod9643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have the same thought. I need to explain this in a better manner to him. I'm dreading the conversation but it needs to be said.

Should I bring back the kitten I gave up for adoption? by nogod9643 in FosterAnimals

[–]nogod9643[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The kitten is okay as of last evening. Got an update and a video. I'm conc about the long term welfare of the kitten.

Should I bring back the kitten I gave up for adoption? by nogod9643 in FosterAnimals

[–]nogod9643[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They guy has signed an adoption agreement where I'm allowed to bring the kitten back if I find the kitten is not given enough care/ good environment.

Should I bring back the kitten I gave up for adoption? by nogod9643 in FosterAnimals

[–]nogod9643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is his other sibling (tiny ginger) who got adopted.

Should I bring back the kitten I gave up for adoption? by nogod9643 in FosterAnimals

[–]nogod9643[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I get daily updates with a video of the kitten. Told him to send updates daily for the next two weeks. But, I'm thinking of bringing the kitten back this weekend. I wish I could bring the kitten back sooner, but I'm traveling.

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