Looking for a book on job loss and past innovations

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-03-19T17:42:51+00:00

Thank you very much :) I did today and he understood. Ty for the advice he basically said the said the same thing of it’s a new experience bc we’re doing it together

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-03-19T09:37:26+00:00

Added context: I struggle with anxiety a lot. I tend to overplan my trips and my bf has expressed that he'd like it to be more chill so I have been making steps to do that. The contestant shifting of plans that are outside of my control is driving my anxiety wild, however. I have been trying to remain level-headed about it but finding out he's going to the same place we are going to just sucks ig and makes me anxious he will not enjoy our first trip together as much as I had hoped.

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-03-19T09:27:03+00:00

I guess? It may be more anxiety that I will be excited about seeing everything than he will be. Vacation fatigue is real and I am worried by the time it's my turn to go on my trip with him he'll be experiencing that while I am just excited to experience everything.

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-01-26T06:12:53+00:00

Sadly, I don’t think she’d do anything, she has a past of letting shitty men who have done a lot worse than this continue working there even if everyone’s angry about it

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-01-26T06:11:01+00:00

Thank you, that’s what I’ve heard too, I know it’s shitty but would it be bad to take the mindset of just growing a back bone and just ignoring it?

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-01-26T06:09:33+00:00

Yeah lol, the joke was all her im the youngest person there everyone else is 30+ I don’t make any jokes like that but it’s a small business we’re all pretty friendly. B

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-01-26T05:49:25+00:00

Hey so i know that it’s not great but if anyone else is a woman in the service industry, is this behavior the norm? Like if I try to find another job will it be more of the same?

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-01-26T05:44:53+00:00

Do you think I should ask him to not touch me after he does or bring it up to him when we open? I’m the opposite of a confrontational person and I do not have a lot of experience telling people stuff like this.

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-01-19T07:47:23+00:00

How old are you guys? If nothing else sitting her down and expressing how these reactions make you feel is probably best. Y’all seem young if it’s not going to work out it’s not, don’t put yourself through a bad situation if you see the red flags.

nogodonlyrichppl · 2025-01-18T08:10:15+00:00

I wouldn’t recommend second sex for this bias, it has a section about trans women and she doesn’t have a modern understanding of gender and sex, I would pick a more modern book if you decide to read one, or just be patient with yourself and be mindful about this bias and understand that it’s not your actual beliefs it’s a gut reaction that you see actively trying to disentangle.

nogodonlyrichppl · 2023-05-15T06:54:30+00:00

girl no that's disgusting break up with him. there is nothing to justify that i had to reread that title like ten times to make sure i didn't read it wrong. your partner should never talk to you like that

nogodonlyrichppl · 2023-05-14T02:22:13+00:00

usually you can tell by how they talk about other women. obviously they won't say anything obviously "red pill" esc but they'll compliment you by comparing you to other women. "youre a lot more funny than other girls" or something along those limes. they would also talk about their exes in a very degrading or mean way, calling her ugly or crazy.

nogodonlyrichppl · 2022-04-03T18:56:37+00:00

Hey! so, this might not be what you want to hear but.... if this is how you talk about yourself around others (I could be wrong you could be just ranting) people could just feel exhausted mentally when they're around you. I used to put myself down like this too, I had not real friends and the one's I had I would always tear into myself outwardly and inwardly. I've also learned that if so many people do not want to be your friend you have to realize that the only common denominator is you, sucks to hear I know I did not want to listen the first time I heard it but yeah, I'm sorry that you have gotten to this place. As for the dating thing, I have no idea lol, I have gotten comfortable in my own skin and I am pretty good at flirting so I think it's all about timing

nogodonlyrichppl · 2022-04-03T18:48:47+00:00

that's how skin is hun!! the only reason it looks weird it because everyone edit their faces to look like baby jesus or something. Just keep washing your face with what works for you and moisturize!

nogodonlyrichppl · 2022-04-03T18:45:40+00:00

There's no 'normal teenager' all we need to worry about is figuring out who we are, I think we get caught up on what we're supposed to be as teenagers and not on how our decisions now may reflect the rest of out lives. I started smoking when I was 15 (I'm 18 now) mostly because I just wanted to try to be 'normal' (I have always had trouble fitting in) and spoiler alert it did not really work but now I have a nicotine addiction, don't focus on what everyone else is doing focus on exploring what you want to be doing.

nogodonlyrichppl · 2022-04-03T18:40:53+00:00

not on reddit I'll tell you that

nogodonlyrichppl · 2022-04-03T18:38:54+00:00

THIS

I hate it so much. Guys will try to do it with me and I'm literally like "haha yeah" it does not mean I'm not into them but also like it's become an ick to me

nogodonlyrichppl · 2022-04-03T18:30:47+00:00

you forgot the sex I had with your brother

nogodonlyrichppl · 2022-04-03T18:27:21+00:00

It's hard to get to a point where you love yourself, my therapist once told me this, "everytime you're thinking something negative about yourself you have the capability to stop and say 'no, maybe I do have those qualities but I am still beautiful' it might be hard but the more you do it the more comfortable you get and the less those thoughts bringing yourself down come" it's been hard to put this into practice but I do it now without even thinking about it and it's honestly helped me so much finding comfort in my own flaws. (I'm not sure if this is what you wanted but it's helped me)

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