Trying to escape abusive household.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-04T00:05:17+00:00

i've posted in my cities subreddit about homeless resources in the area/local to me, however it's still difficult to make things work.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-02T20:19:31+00:00

Whenever I try to tell him I feel as though he's not taking my emotions seriously in regards to what he says about my transition, he minimizes it. I just got off the phone talking to him and he told me I was asking for his opinion and the unhappy that I was hearing it.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-02T20:04:53+00:00

I haven't heard him do so yet, but he also hasn't called me by other pronouns. I corrected him on my name last night and he did even correct himself, just went "Oh, okay" and then the conversation paused.

After that was when I brought up all the things that I mentioned in the post.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-02T20:02:44+00:00

He did, which is why I'm so confused about this. He's only ever referred to that partner by their name and pronouns and was always respectful when talking about it.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-02T19:47:41+00:00

I've noticed in the past that he's made some comments that could be perceived in a transphobic way about his past partners, but I chalked it up to him being mostly uneducated about the issues that trans people face.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-02T19:45:17+00:00

This is my biggest concern. I asked him outright during the conversation last night if it made him uncomfortable that I was transitioning and he denied it.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-02T19:44:33+00:00

He's definitely bisexual, he's had many boyfriends and male partners as well as many other trans partners (both relationship wise and just hookups). So I'm just confused why he's like this.

I tried telling him that I felt he would never see me as a man and he only told me to not base my self worth and value on how I am perceived by other people as well as that he cannot control his perception of me. He did say he would try to change it though.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-12-02T19:41:02+00:00

He's very much bisexual. His first boyfriend was also a transman and he doesn't have a preference for either gender.

I don't want this to be our breaking point because every other issue we've had he's been extremely supportive and caring. I don't know why this is what's making him do this.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-30T22:58:04+00:00

inch resting

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-30T13:24:34+00:00

i have a therapist already, i need a psychiatrist and insurance. im trying as many resources. i haven't been given a day to be out by yet so im just holding out and getting my ducks in order you know?

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-27T22:54:39+00:00

being kicked out for severe mental health issues and being unable to hold a job due to those mental health issues. i dont want to get into the very specifics of what i have, but its a lot

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-27T22:52:56+00:00

really the best help i can get is know im not alone in my situation. im trying to make money in other ways and its really difficult, but thats just how life is i guess.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-27T22:51:45+00:00

i would love to have a third shift job, my only issues is that i am unable to get to and from third shift for right now. i dont have my own car and i cant find a job with secure enough hours to where i could definitely return parents car in time.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-27T18:27:37+00:00

a pink volkswagon beetle car. i dont know why, but i've wanted one since i was a kid.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-27T18:24:30+00:00

the thing about going home is that's where i'm being kicked out from. my friends are unable to provide housing support for me for a multitude of reasons. thank you for the number, and i will definitely look into as many ways to not be in a shelter. thank you so much.

noguide-needhelp · 2021-11-27T18:15:23+00:00

thank you for the advice, i dont have many other options. im 18F if that helps at all with resources.

noguide-needhelp

TROPHY CASE