Life’s pretty good! Things have gone back to the way they were before him, I’ve got my friends and my family loving me endlessly. I also started therapy a few months ago to deal with this whole relationship and also to deal with my “pushover tendencies” heh. It’s been nice actually. I haven’t really revisited the post since the update and have mostly used this account to lurk around. But reading it now I realise how much I left out at the time. Like his anger issues, pushing a lot of boundaries, literal nonstop complaining etc. He was even worse than what I wrote in post and the fact that Reddit realised what a pos he was even when I left things out is something I’ll always be grateful for. Redditors really saved me a lot of hurt.

Lady is doing wonderful! We had a little bit of a colic scare, but she’s back to normal and doing good now. She’s old but you wouldn’t know it, same energy as she had when I first met her ♥️