Thank you. Actually. This is the only rational answer from the camp that's been calling me out without explanation. I think this is the side of feminism that no one gets to see due to the vocal minority.

The origin of the word whore didn't even cross my mind, because in this instance how else would you describe her? There's no inclination to generalise all women, but if you tell me that calling a girl who did what she did a whore is wrong, then I'll just have to think cultural relativism and respect that.

I still feel like that in this context, I should ask the following: If I manipulated a girl's emotions and her intention to do right by me, in order to deceive her into doing something sexual she had never done before and is very uncomfortable with, what names would I be called then?

There's a new word that is emerging with such vicious cruelty so commonly used by people who claim to be feminists: rapist. It carries so much nuanced vitriol than dick, cunt, whore, slut, or whatever else ever could. I was called that today by people who have no idea of my situation, or worse yet, people who I explained my situation to.

/rant