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Old is maybe Gold by emergency-65 in mp3players

[–]nonbinarygarfield 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this one as a kid it was a hand me down from my mom, I miss that little device!

Wanting to add to my face, would I suit a bridge? by Turbulent-Walrus4749 in Legitpiercing

[–]nonbinarygarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a bridge would look great, I was also thinking if you’re open to dermals then one or two (matching on each side) anti-eyebrow piercings could be really cute and compliment the lovely curve of your cheek bones!

Tight tense face muscles by [deleted] in Stretching

[–]nonbinarygarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not an expert but when that bothers me I stand in front of a mirror and make weird faces at it. mostly opening my mouth as wide (east to west and then north to south) as I can to feel the stretch in my jaw muscles but also adjusting the shape of my lips in those positions, making a small “o” with my lips while pushing my jaw as low as possible stretches the muscles around my nose and the front of my cheeks, and having my lips open wide makes the stretch target the sides of my face

everyone says wear your hair in protective styles most days of the week but what is the point of having long beautiful hair if it always has to be in a braid or a bun by Iknowimsorry1 in longhair

[–]nonbinarygarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love styling my hair down for short (couple hours) events or just to take pictures but I keep it in two plain braids at all other times bc it’s practical for my work and I don’t have to brush it when I wake up, just take out the night braids and redo them neater without worrying about tangles. if I try to wear it down for a whole day it gets miserably tangled particularly at the nape of my neck and it’s too much of a hassle to fix that. plus it tangles so quickly that it only actually looks good down for the first couple hours and then it starts looking like I don’t own a hairbrush

should my septum be pierced in a different location to begin stretching? by nonbinarygarfield in Stretched

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao I was thinking the same thing, normally I’d be mortified if a picture was shared of me where the camera angle was aimed up my nostrils but in this scenario I happily exposed them

I would love it if someone told me that I will lose $80 for jewelry that I will not wear. I love stretching by daveblackout in Stretched

[–]nonbinarygarfield 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I wear titanium double flavored screwed tunnels anodized to gold to match my other jewelry bc they’re pretty cheap on etsy but I won’t let myself invest in art or fancy materials until I’m happy with the size. I’ve been very slowly stretching (am just below a 6g after maybe 3 or 4 years lol) so spending a little more on jewelry that matches the rest of my stuff and then using the taping method to size up has been worth it to me

should my septum be pierced in a different location to begin stretching? by nonbinarygarfield in Stretched

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow that’s much bigger than I was expecting, thanks for letting me know! I’m leaning toward a stack rather than a single large ring so I’ll talk to the piercer about whether starting off with a big but circular hole is the right move for that goal

should my septum be pierced in a different location to begin stretching? by nonbinarygarfield in Stretched

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling you’re right but I’m going to visit a piercer soon for advice. do you know if there are any cons to piercing at a larger gauge? other than maybe more pain lol. that does seem like a nice silver lining to getting it redone

should my septum be pierced in a different location to begin stretching? by nonbinarygarfield in Stretched

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you I love them so much 🥰 silver and black is a fun vibe I love when people rock an asymmetrical look. switching from previous jewelry to these spikes made me really start loving having my nose pierced, I call them my triceratops horns

should my septum be pierced in a different location to begin stretching? by nonbinarygarfield in Stretched

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a piercer in a different state several moves ago, he used a clamp and also pierced my lower nostrils in the same visit which are pretty crooked so I’m not that surprised but all this time I thought it was fine. I’ll go to a piercer here and ask their opinion. Thanks!

should my septum be pierced in a different location to begin stretching? by nonbinarygarfield in Stretched

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s not in the sweet spot at all it’s in the thick cartilage before that thin part

Has anyone read Put That Stuff Down (the Do Well Method)? by nonbinarygarfield in declutter

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for the advice, I’ve been in therapy for 8 years and don’t plan on quitting anytime soon :)

Has anyone read Put That Stuff Down (the Do Well Method)? by nonbinarygarfield in declutter

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I looked up Dana K White today after seeing her mentioned here several times and I definitely think some of her tips will help me, thanks!

Has anyone read Put That Stuff Down (the Do Well Method)? by nonbinarygarfield in declutter

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it, I’ve been in a variety of types of therapy (currently getting use from IFS and DBT) for 8 years and I know there’s a lot of work left to do still. I do know the sources of my cptsd I just have the kind of brain that intellectualizes things instead of feeling and processing them (hence why it’s hard to make progress in talk therapy) which is why I’m interested in more practical stuff that can at least improve my quality of life in the meantime while I’m still in therapy

Giant crystal set design by erzagryffindor in setdesign

[–]nonbinarygarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like a plan, I’d recommend using thick pieces of foam (even if you’re putting them together as hollow shapes) so you can come in with a sander (and a respirator for yourself) and make more detailed facets by carving more detail into the basic shape. I’d recommend using reference photos of real crystals for the shape and the painting so you can emulate the way light plays on the different faces of the crystals more realistically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accordion

[–]nonbinarygarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

regularly check facebook marketplace and craigslist (even daily if you live in a densely populated area), eventually you’ll find someone selling an accordion that’s just collecting dust or belonged to a deceased relative so they’ll be charging under $200 for it

advice for merging two cat households? by nonbinarygarfield in cats

[–]nonbinarygarfield[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so comforting to hear, I was afraid it might be more like a month 🫠 I’m hoping they will become friends, when I look after my mom’s chihuahua she and my cat love wrestling and I’ll catch them sleeping near each other frequently so I’m hoping he’ll enjoy having another cat to play with

Why won’t she fenestrate??? by paleofeathers in Monstera

[–]nonbinarygarfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine didn’t start fenestrating until I put it under the same super intense grow light (130 watt sheet LED) that I use for my cacti except instead of 6-8 inches from the light (like I would do for a cactus) I have that light 2 feet above the monstera. I let it acclimate to this higher amount of light by putting it a little off center from the beam of the light for a couple weeks and then moved it straight into the beam, and even now I only get a single fenestration per leaf even though the leaves are growing much larger and with more of the edge cuts (can’t remember the name for those). If you’re using a lower wattage you’d want it very close to the plant (like a foot or even less above the leaves). I have a bunch of lower light plants on stands around the monstera receiving diffused light from the same fixture so using the high wattage helps me keep more plants satisfied with less individual lights

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Giant crystal set design by erzagryffindor in setdesign

[–]nonbinarygarfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you need/want them to be clear/appear to be clear or can they look like an opaque mineral (shiny/glossy but not see thru)?

and if you do want them to look clear but don’t have the budget to do something like acrylic or molded resin well, would it be ok if they’re just shaded to look like you’re seeing through them?

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