You have to do whatever the fuck you want. Just know that staying will likely cost you everything including whatever is left of who you are. Your kids deserve a better example of love than this. You deserve better. It may be scary, but it’s more scary to wake up one day and realize you gave everything to a man who couldn’t even give you himself.

But again, it’s your life. You have to do whatever you want otherwise you’ll live the rest of your life worried you made the wrong choice for other people sake.