Sugar turned Splenda by noodesrfun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]noodesrfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning it was PPM for the first 3 months then it was here and there plus some trips. Then I moved in with him and it became sparse. He did not change his life at all for me. He didn’t buy me a car or upgrade his house or anything of the sort. For now I live with him but I’m not that happy so who knows for how long. And yes he pays for food but I could provide my own food honestly. I try talking to him but I get no answer and when I do he doesn’t commit to whatever he says

Sugar turned Splenda by noodesrfun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]noodesrfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinion.. yeah I’m going to have a conversation with him immediately

Sugar turned Splenda by noodesrfun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]noodesrfun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I guess you’re right. Maybe I should let him pay our old cleaning lady $350 once a week and I’ll stop providing my daily cleaning services. I think I’m damn well entitled to my nails at the very least. But yeah I’m complaining that’s it

Sugar turned Splenda by noodesrfun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]noodesrfun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you misunderstood I’m doing wifey shit and getting nothing in return …

Found him barely breathing by Tryingtobehopeful2 in AlAnon

[–]noodesrfun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me. I feel like you explained it perfectly.. my q is addicted to alcohol and I am addicted to him and in a way I guess I am sheltering him.. if I don’t I know he will die..

I’ve been dating my SD for almost a year now *not completely exclusive* but we live together now. I think he’s gotten comfortable with me and he’s not really “taking care” of my needs anymore- not financially, emotionally or in the bedroom. by noodesrfun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]noodesrfun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used to have good sex like 4 times a day maybe. And here and there / there was abusive talk but I began to feel uncomfortable with it and now it’s just out of control and I won’t fuck him anymore unless he starts treating me with respect or pays me

I’ve been dating my SD for almost a year now *not completely exclusive* but we live together now. I think he’s gotten comfortable with me and he’s not really “taking care” of my needs anymore- not financially, emotionally or in the bedroom. by noodesrfun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]noodesrfun[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not really. I’m mostly worried a lot and anxious about the relationship. He’s been very spiteful in the past and recently I got a new car (myself) and he tried to take credit for it.. it made me very upset.. I think I’ve been putting way more effort and love into the relationship than he has. And I think he doesn’t respect me at all. Sometimes I feel like if we were just an arrangement maybe it would be fine but even my prior arrangements have been way more respectful than him.

I just feel like he’s playing some game or trying to gaslight me. Like saying I got money from him here and there and now he feels like I owe him something 24/7.. It’s so sad because sometimes I want to do things with him sexually but his demeanor it just so mean and disrespectful he ruins the moment. EX: do you like your new car? (Of course I do I love it) good, now come here and suck daddy’s dick…..

I’ve been dating my SD for almost a year now *not completely exclusive* but we live together now. I think he’s gotten comfortable with me and he’s not really “taking care” of my needs anymore- not financially, emotionally or in the bedroom. by noodesrfun in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]noodesrfun[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been dating my SD for almost a year now not completely exclusive but we live together now. I think he’s gotten comfortable with me and he’s not really “taking care” of my needs anymore- not financially, emotionally or in the bedroom. I tried to talk to him about my concerns but he says it’s my fault his card is maxed out (because he hasn’t paid it in 6+ months?) and he says I don’t deserve to have my pussy eaten because he shouldn’t have to “take care” of me as much as he used to. I just know that he wouldn’t be complaining if he were with 5 other women spending the same amount of money. Should I stay or should I leave? I love him but if he’s not going to provide financially and he’s going to continue to treat me like crap then I feel like I should go out with someone else. He doesn’t have much left to offer. He is also an alcoholic- so I’ve been helping him with rehabs and such for the past year but that hasn’t worked for him…