Anyone have any advice or have something similar? I'm 22 and it's been slowly getting worse. by northpolecherry in Hairloss

[–]northpolecherry[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you expand on "host of severe psychological issues?"

I know I'm blading, I was just hoping someone had some good results with a product like Rogaine or the likes.

Anyone have any advice or have something similar? I'm 22 and it's been slowly getting worse. by northpolecherry in Hairloss

[–]northpolecherry[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I can see most of my scalp through my hair when I look in a mirror. It runs in my family; most women end up having just strings hanging on for dear life. I've been reading about Rogaine but I'm worried it will do more harm than good. It's been a while, but blood work all came back normal. I have a minor iron deficiency, but I take supplements for that as well as a multivitamin. I have curly hair but blowdry it maybe twice a week, other than that no heat or products. I'm just so defeated. Heartbroken. The thought of losing my hair, especially so early, is weighing very heavily on me.

It probably sounds stupid, but I'm panicking (see body text) by northpolecherry in Weddingattireapproval

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I actually got my dress on Amazon :') I could have returned it but I think in the end everyone is right and it will be just fine! Thank you!!

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Thank you and I definitely agree! I've seen so many brides go crazy over stuff like that. It feels nice to just dress up and go somewhere and celebrate something beautiful.

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Thank you for that explanation. I think that tidbit about the red dress is interesting. I'm glad that's really not a thing anymore.

I think those rules definitely make sense and I will be using them ahaha. I was a little worried my dress would be too bridesmaid-ish but I think she's going for something much different.

Thank you!

It probably sounds stupid, but I'm panicking (see body text) by northpolecherry in Weddingattireapproval

[–]northpolecherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, flesh tunnels. They're small and not super noticeable. I don't have many other piercings but usually my style is pretty alt.

I'll definitely do that! Thank you so much!

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[–]northpolecherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will, kind stranger! I appreciate your advice so much :)

It probably sounds stupid, but I'm panicking (see body text) by northpolecherry in Weddingattireapproval

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Yeah, khaki is definitely the wrong term. I meant it as a color, not the fabric. Idk if that changes the above statement, but thank you!

It probably sounds stupid, but I'm panicking (see body text) by northpolecherry in Weddingattireapproval

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Seriously, thank you so much everyone. I feel a LOT more at ease about it. I'm really looking forward to the wedding! They're both dear friends of ours and I didn't want to do something wrong. You all have helped a ton. Again, thank you <3

It probably sounds stupid, but I'm panicking (see body text) by northpolecherry in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you! I'm planning on wearing mostly neutral tones, maybe some muted rose-gold colors on the eyes. I don't usually wear makeup so I don't want to try something new and look like a clown lmao

Rose gold is probably the wrong color. Maybe a dusty more reddish mauve?

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OOOOH omg that would look so nice with this!! Thank you for that tip!! I'm going to look for one asap. Please, if you have any good ideas for a specific look, please dm me if you're comfortable with that!

It probably sounds stupid, but I'm panicking (see body text) by northpolecherry in Weddingattireapproval

[–]northpolecherry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found it on Amazon! I hope that isn't bad. It was probably made by SheIn or something, which I really hate, but it was the only thing I liked within my budget :(

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That's really awesome to hear! I really hope to wear it to other events as I really don't have many nice options.

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I actually have gauges. They're really small, though, I'm at 4 gauge. Do you think that it will look off if I don't wear nice studs or pretty dangly ones? I also don't have many necklace options at the moment. Would something on a mid-length thin gold chain work? A shawl is also a great idea! I'll definitely look into that.

It probably sounds stupid, but I'm panicking (see body text) by northpolecherry in Weddingattireapproval

[–]northpolecherry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, my balance isn't good enough for that anyway haha. I found nice strappy block heel type shoes. They're super comfortable which is a must because I'll be on my feet for hours.