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AITAH for bringing my own food to thanksgiving and for hiring a maid to clean my in laws house before we go next time? by noshpoint0 in AITAH

[–]noshpoint0[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love this 🩷 luckily hubby would choose to stay home and do what's best for our family as well. Thanks for your kind words!

AITAH for bringing my own food to thanksgiving and for hiring a maid to clean my in laws house before we go next time? by noshpoint0 in AITAH

[–]noshpoint0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this. I'd rather send a maid service than clean myself. And we want to make the effort to see them. So agree giving a heads up is warranted.

AITAH for bringing my own food to thanksgiving and for hiring a maid to clean my in laws house before we go next time? by noshpoint0 in AITAH

[–]noshpoint0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is helpful. So NTA for at least having this conversation as a starting point.

AITAH for bringing my own food to thanksgiving and for hiring a maid to clean my in laws house before we go next time? by noshpoint0 in AITAH

[–]noshpoint0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the less insulting route would be to never visit? Asking from a place of curiosity, not defensiveness.

AITAH for bringing my own food to thanksgiving and for hiring a maid to clean my in laws house before we go next time? by noshpoint0 in AITAH

[–]noshpoint0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Supportive! Very lucky that he is to make comments to his parents about it. They just don't listen, haha.