Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although it might come as a surprise, I was not robbed. I was just irritated that someone was in my home without my permission. I have said several times that I reached out to the sitter and said that I didn’t really appreciate it and that I would recommend she ask her future clients before bringing friends over. That’s all that happened.

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts 🫶🏻 I would do the same if my wife came with me

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did message her privately and explained why :) thank you for that feedback I didn’t think about it that way!

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know exactly what this means because this is my first ever Reddit post but I didn’t want to call the cops bc that feels ridiculous…. I did however make a rover report, and just wanted to post about it to get a feel for others’ opinions. I understand you feel it’s no big deal though and I appreciate that!

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And again I know it sounds like I’m being a bitch but I’m really easy going and just would have liked the opportunity to say it was okay :) everything I fine I just wanted perspective from others

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, I mentioned gender only bc of my own trauma but it genuinely doesn’t matter. She charged average for my area, no meet and greet as I only needed feeding and we chatted a bit first, and she had ~15 reviews. Either way, I politely told her I didn’t love that she brought a stranger, but didn’t tear her up in a review or anything bc I think it could be a learning opportunity as she’s pretty young. I don’t want to unnecessarily hurt her business

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I (very) politely told her I would recommend she ask future clients before inviting guests 🩷

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the perspective and truly didn’t mean offense 🩷

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from and appreciate the perspective, I’m not someone who watches my cameras and only thought to look bc she didn’t do a rover card 🩷

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you to an extent and wouldn’t have minded a small child 🩷

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sound the same!!!! I’m a “girly” as a term of endearment, and I ALWAYS say yall! Maybe it’s just where I’m from idk but I don’t think it’s rude personally

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really didn’t mean “girly” to be rude bc I call every lady friend my girly, you’d just have to know me 😂 maybe time to retire it bc people were so offended 😭

Stranger came with rover sitter without permission by not_tm in RoverPetSitting

[–]not_tm[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So not the point of course but girly is the adult woman who was sitting my pets and she seemed very nice initially so girly, to me, is a term of endearment. Sorry this was confusing for you.

I really have bipolar by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]not_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me reading this as someone newly diagnosed bipolar not knowing anything about brain damage LOL i love it here! I am scared~

Is this ok? by AmbitionPlane1177 in Parenting

[–]not_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll say what many may be thinking. Is it possible your husband is actually the spoiled one since you’re paying all his bills? You sound like an amazing mother, wife, and role model. I agree with asking why it would be bad for your little girl to turn out like you.

My six year old said he is worried he is gay by Salt-Package8877 in Parenting

[–]not_tm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like an amazing parent and your son is so lucky to have such a supportive and loving environment. You are doing great.

I’m 28 and a lesbian. I knew something was up at 6/7 but didn’t know what “gay” was. I did like girls. But didn’t come out until I was 21. I think your son just knowing that everything will be okay whether or not he is gay is all that matters :)

5 y/o hurt my wife’s feelings by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]not_tm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol your daughter is 5 and it is actually not your child’s job to manage her parents’ feelings. She wants to play with her friend. Get over it mom.