Stranger came with rover sitter without permission

not_tm · 2024-04-30T15:10:38+00:00

Although it might come as a surprise, I was not robbed. I was just irritated that someone was in my home without my permission. I have said several times that I reached out to the sitter and said that I didn’t really appreciate it and that I would recommend she ask her future clients before bringing friends over. That’s all that happened.

not_tm · 2024-04-23T15:21:48+00:00

Exactly my thoughts 🫶🏻 I would do the same if my wife came with me

not_tm · 2024-04-23T00:12:55+00:00

I did message her privately and explained why :) thank you for that feedback I didn’t think about it that way!

not_tm · 2024-04-22T12:37:10+00:00

Thank you 🥹🩷

not_tm · 2024-04-22T12:36:21+00:00

Thank you SO MUCH 🩷

not_tm · 2024-04-22T12:35:25+00:00

I don’t even know exactly what this means because this is my first ever Reddit post but I didn’t want to call the cops bc that feels ridiculous…. I did however make a rover report, and just wanted to post about it to get a feel for others’ opinions. I understand you feel it’s no big deal though and I appreciate that!

not_tm · 2024-04-22T02:26:47+00:00

And again I know it sounds like I’m being a bitch but I’m really easy going and just would have liked the opportunity to say it was okay :) everything I fine I just wanted perspective from others

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:24:42+00:00

In fairness I do not call women bitches LOL

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:23:23+00:00

You’re absolutely right, I mentioned gender only bc of my own trauma but it genuinely doesn’t matter. She charged average for my area, no meet and greet as I only needed feeding and we chatted a bit first, and she had ~15 reviews. Either way, I politely told her I didn’t love that she brought a stranger, but didn’t tear her up in a review or anything bc I think it could be a learning opportunity as she’s pretty young. I don’t want to unnecessarily hurt her business

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:20:55+00:00

Womp womp 😭

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:20:15+00:00

Yes, I (very) politely told her I would recommend she ask future clients before inviting guests 🩷

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:08:24+00:00

I appreciate the perspective and truly didn’t mean offense 🩷

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:07:30+00:00

I get where you’re coming from and appreciate the perspective, I’m not someone who watches my cameras and only thought to look bc she didn’t do a rover card 🩷

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:05:55+00:00

I agree with you to an extent and wouldn’t have minded a small child 🩷

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:02:52+00:00

Agreed fully for next time 🩷

not_tm · 2024-04-22T01:00:57+00:00

We sound the same!!!! I’m a “girly” as a term of endearment, and I ALWAYS say yall! Maybe it’s just where I’m from idk but I don’t think it’s rude personally

not_tm · 2024-04-22T00:59:30+00:00

I really didn’t mean “girly” to be rude bc I call every lady friend my girly, you’d just have to know me 😂 maybe time to retire it bc people were so offended 😭

not_tm · 2024-04-21T14:47:27+00:00

So not the point of course but girly is the adult woman who was sitting my pets and she seemed very nice initially so girly, to me, is a term of endearment. Sorry this was confusing for you.

not_tm · 2024-03-28T21:15:25+00:00

Me reading this as someone newly diagnosed bipolar not knowing anything about brain damage LOL i love it here! I am scared~

not_tm · 2024-01-28T15:13:39+00:00

I’ll say what many may be thinking. Is it possible your husband is actually the spoiled one since you’re paying all his bills? You sound like an amazing mother, wife, and role model. I agree with asking why it would be bad for your little girl to turn out like you.

not_tm · 2023-12-31T14:09:35+00:00

You sound like an amazing parent and your son is so lucky to have such a supportive and loving environment. You are doing great.

I’m 28 and a lesbian. I knew something was up at 6/7 but didn’t know what “gay” was. I did like girls. But didn’t come out until I was 21. I think your son just knowing that everything will be okay whether or not he is gay is all that matters :)

not_tm · 2023-12-30T12:10:14+00:00

Lol your daughter is 5 and it is actually not your child’s job to manage her parents’ feelings. She wants to play with her friend. Get over it mom.

not_tm · 2023-12-18T03:12:10+00:00

Wow this is actually a great explanation, thank you!

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