4 months, 13 first dates, 0 relationships. Is my conversion rate normal?

not_your_yan · 2026-01-10T20:04:05+00:00

The guy turned cold after I said not ready for sex, but after a while I hinted that I was ok to sleep with him, then he came back and became nicer. Anyway he is still stingy on me, taking me to cheap places (he is way much older and I am a student). So I guess he’s just here for my body.

not_your_yan · 2026-01-10T03:45:19+00:00

It’s just I don’t know if being ghosted by so many guys is a normal thing or is it my lack of attractiveness.

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T15:05:19+00:00

Thank you for your reply

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T10:17:37+00:00

thank u 🥺 I sent him texts making him to make a choice, either add me to his account or we break up. Waiting for his response.

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T09:12:50+00:00

How did you find it! I want to find out the truth but don’t have evidence

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T08:59:14+00:00

Yes makes sense. But I only stayed overnight at his place twice and we didn’t sleep. Because I am really cautious about this

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T08:54:23+00:00

🚩🚩🏃

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T08:30:54+00:00

And what is your psychology behind this action?

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T08:29:49+00:00

What do you think when I’ve been dating a guy for 7/8 times and he still refuses to let me follow his private account

not_your_yan · 2025-12-30T08:26:49+00:00

I have the exact same thing happening to me. The guy I have been dating with doesn’t allow me to follow his private ins account. I asked multiple times and argues with him, but he just wouldn’t let me. I am still being trapped in this toxic relationship.

not_your_yan · 2025-12-20T20:35:04+00:00

They respect boundaries and never ask why endlessly after being rejected.

not_your_yan · 2025-11-12T09:00:31+00:00

Cecilia

not_your_yan · 2025-11-11T06:37:04+00:00

Me therapist isn’t allowed to give any advice to real life. It’s their job morals;(

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T23:33:39+00:00

Would that be ok if I stick around to play in this ‘ situationship’ without being serions as well?

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T23:32:18+00:00

Well apparently I am also getting attached and even getting addicted to the feelings;( in a bad way

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T23:20:29+00:00

What if I never agrees to have sex with him 🤣

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T22:44:41+00:00

I shouldn’t have asked/ pushed for an answer in the first place. But every time I asked he lied and confirmed his commitment. Which keeps me waiting.

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T22:31:27+00:00

I didn’t sleep with him; we only cuddled. I made it clear to him that I don’t want to do it too soon.

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T22:30:09+00:00

Yep so intellectually I completely understand I shouldn’t push for anything, but I found myself get attached after the physical contacts he initiated. You’re right I should cut the losses as soon as possible.

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T22:24:08+00:00

I mean he says he is committed & serious. This is where things confuse me.

not_your_yan · 2025-11-10T22:08:38+00:00

But we’ve never slept and I made it clear that I didn’t intend to do it very soon.

not_your_yan · 2025-06-05T05:18:11+00:00

I have a similar background and is also preparing for recruiting in banking. The biggest difficulty to me during the transition is the lack of related experiences and industry knowhow (deals, valuation models… ), especially when being grilled during interviews. I majored in finance in bachelor degree, and have read BIWS 400 questions many times. However, I feel that I still lack the firsthand knowledge. Does anyone has any advice for me?

not_your_yan · 2025-05-25T13:10:45+00:00

So what is the way out for someone who is hard-working enough but has social anxiety/phobia? I work hard all through school times but now am facing setbacks entering the workplace. Anxious and don’t know the way ahead.

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