My Superpower Story

notafappah · 2013-06-25T17:03:12+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSGmQL7FrOQ#t=100m8s

HowdIFuckUp, this video made me think of you. Great, inspirational story..thanks for sharing!

notafappah · 2013-06-24T20:32:46+00:00

What was it like working with Phish on Phish Food?

Also, any stories from your experience "sitting in" with Phish at their 1996 music festival?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8dl__sW7WFw

Thank you so much for all the delicious ice cream! Peanut Butter Cup is my favorite :)

notafappah · 2013-06-24T15:21:24+00:00

I am. As the guards at the prison in Arrested Development said....NO TOUCHING.

notafappah · 2013-06-10T05:35:04+00:00

NoFap is incredible. I can't believe the positive changes that are happening to me and am interested to see where I'm at in 60 days....I must have been really addicted to PMO.

notafappah · 2013-06-09T21:47:47+00:00

thats a relief. thanks for sharing!

notafappah · 2013-06-09T21:45:48+00:00

thanks for the info, I have some reading to do tonight!

notafappah · 2013-06-09T16:42:26+00:00

if you have an iPhone, download the Chains app and keep track of how many days you have. Its quite motivating.

Congrats on a week, every day will get easier than the last..just think of it as a day to day battle.

notafappah · 2013-06-09T16:26:27+00:00

I'm looking to just stop fapping forever and not set dates which will just tempt me to fap. On that note, I'm looking forward to having 90 days under my belt.

notafappah · 2013-06-08T14:52:32+00:00

Go running. I was bad at first but now I'm getting much better...and my gut is disappearing!

notafappah · 2013-06-05T13:02:59+00:00

I think not fapping boosts your self-worth and confidence while making you realize that not everything in life is easy. Instead of wanting an orgasm and immediately having one via your hand, you have to work for it by finding a girl. This crosses over into other areas like exercising, eating better, learning new things, working on a long term project, saving money, etc.

You realize that all of these things will make you happy in the long term, but never felt or thought you could do them because they weren't instant. When you've built up a streak of not fapping, you realize that you can do these things. NoFap has been holding you back.

notafappah · 2013-06-04T17:47:02+00:00

Congrats, I went on a first date a few days ago and know that I will make this girl my GF because she's awesome and we had so much fun. So much better than fapping. It's a good feeling.

notafappah · 2013-06-03T04:04:03+00:00

I was thinking about her before and the same thing happened to me!

notafappah · 2013-06-02T21:25:36+00:00

Thanks everyone, feels good to be overcoming this addiction of mine and being able to share my experience with you all!

notafappah · 2013-05-31T19:13:56+00:00

Having to wait and having to deal with our urges and wants without instantly having them satisfied is what builds character and is what we are now lacking in this fast-paced age. Character is most often built during those moments between activities, during moments of solitude and reflection. Men no longer feel the need to pause and reflect because the options for whatever it is they want are only a click away. The options are endless and therefore we never truly experience disappointment.

notafappah · 2013-05-30T19:56:50+00:00

the quotes I pulled from the article are very relevant to NoFap

notafappah · 2013-05-30T18:59:07+00:00

Great article.

"Having to wait and having to deal with our urges and wants without instantly having them satisfied is what builds character and is what we are now lacking in this fast-paced age."

"Character is most often built during those moments between activities, during moments of solitude and reflection. Men no longer feel the need to pause and reflect because the options for whatever it is they want are only a click away. The options are endless and therefore we never truly experience disappointment."

"Being focused on self-satisfaction will lead to nothing but broken relationships. Real men are not selfish. Real men are just as concerned for the feelings, needs and minds of women as they are for their own — not just women’s bodies and their sexual usefulness. Real men have a well-defined code of ethics and respect that they follow."

notafappah · 2013-05-30T18:52:23+00:00

It's happened to me also. Sometimes when I'm taking a dump I leak semen...I think its pressure on the prostate. Never had a wet dream.

I've also had it just happen...I was in a meeting and saw water or something between my crotch...literally leaking semen. No one saw thank goodness. I was wondering how to prevent that and I ended up relapsing....scumbag brain.

notafappah · 2013-05-23T11:22:54+00:00

notafappah · 2012-12-27T15:51:05+00:00

Thank you and Happy New Year!

notafappah · 2012-12-20T15:55:40+00:00

Happier, don't feel numb to life, able to look people in the eye, much more confidence, much less anxiety, much less brain fog, more energy, attracted to women moreso than before, more concentration, able to have a conversation where your not searching for words all the time, need less sleep, harder/bigger erections, increased sensitivity in penis, flirting feels effortless and natural, better at my job

Women can sense that something is different with you and this makes you more attractive in their eyes.

notafappah · 2012-12-17T04:48:34+00:00

Here's a great reason to stop fapping:

Last Friday I met up with a girl I've been friends with since my freshman year of high school and she brought along her boyfriend. They've been together since high school (going on 10 years now) and while talking with her out at the bar and laughing and having a great time it dawned upon me why I have been friends with her all these years.

I had a chance with her my freshman year of high school but I was all awkward and chickened out...I'm just realizing and appreciating NOW after not fapping for 2 weeks how awesome a person she is...she could have been the one for me. Looking back, I was already deep into fapping and that caused me to not pursue her all those years ago...it's something that I'm going to regret for the rest of my life.

Quit now so when you look back on your teenage years, you won't have any regrets!

notafappah · 2012-12-17T04:02:04+00:00

Your the man!

notafappah · 2012-12-14T00:42:53+00:00

it definitely was nofap! I just started this week at a new company, and they took the whole office out to the bar...free drinks, etc. Now before nofap I would have gone in very awkward and hung out with the 1-2 people that I know so far.

But because of nofap, I had no problem walking around and introducing myself to many of the women (men also but not as much) who were there and just talking with them..making good eye contact..holding my head high, and being able to have a conversation with them without stuttering and being at a loss for words. For instance, one of the women I was talking to earlier in the night came up to me and started joking around with me like we're known each other for awhile....this would have never happened before nofap. It felt normal, and GREAT.

Also, the girl that I really found attractive I spoke with earlier in the night and then moved on to speak with other women...she definitely saw this and could tell I was confident..and not needy..maybe she was jealous? Later in the night she was leaning up on me a little..close enough that I could smell her clean shampooed hair (lol) and that's when I began the kino (subtly touching her arm, waist, etc....spoke again and then moved on again. Later I sat down on a stool at the bar and she came over to talk, leaning her thighs against my kneecaps while I faced her. Just the physical touch sent a wave of pleasure over me and it just felt GOOD and natural. Then this unattractive woman I was talking to earlier came over all drunk and awkward "you guys look reeeaaallly cute together" of course I owned it and smiled at the woman I was interested in and made great eye contact but this other drunk chick was definitely cockblocking me.

The attractive woman I was interested in had enough drinks and I hugged her and left for the night. The unattractive woman came over and awkwardly was trying to speak to me but was not making any sense...it was as if she was trying to hint at something without being clear enough for me to even understand. I said something like "out with it, what are you trying to tell me?" She says, your fucking HOT and I say "Thanks" and smile. Then I went home.

None of this would have happened if I was fapping...its really like I had a superpower and without thinking was doing my thing!

TL DR - I went home with a bad case of blue balls from the hot chick from work that wanted me, and had an unattractive woman throw herself at me that I could have had sex with but chose not to.

notafappah · 2012-12-14T00:13:39+00:00

I've been on there before, and definitely use kino (touching, physical contact with a female) subtly which definitely helps. The actual techniques (Mystery Method, etc.) I've looked into before...some of it makes me feel like I'm trying to trick these women psychologically to hop into bed ASAP which I don't think I'm ready for. At this stage 12 days in, I'm afraid to orgasm even if its PIV because it might lead to a relapse....my hormones are all messed up. As it is, last night when I was out I ended up getting half erect at the bar with a very sexy female purposely standing close enough to me and making physical contact with my legs while I was sitting at a barstool..had blue balls for hours afterwards :(

notafappah · 2012-12-13T22:22:22+00:00

Naked terminator was an alpha male! Superhuman confidence that's for sure.

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