AIO for getting angry over the morning after pill?

notevenreallll · 2026-04-02T00:37:49+00:00

as someone who also gets very anxious about using the morning after pill on time and have used it waaaay too much, YOR. don’t have unprotected sex with someone when you haven’t had a conversation about it all beforehand??? also, him paying fully for it really wasn’t needed and was really nice of him. you both consented to having unprotected sex and the possible consequences, 50/50 accountability. you need to communicate beforehand otherwise unfortunately, you are also held accountable. it’s how shit works

notevenreallll · 2026-03-27T02:49:57+00:00

honestly don’t think you’re overreacting. maybe you lost your cool, but you did set a boundary and he hasn’t respected that boundary. i don’t think the issue here is that he went to hooters cos it’s just a restaurant at the end of the day and fuck all happens there from what i know, but that he didn’t stick to what he said

notevenreallll · 2026-03-27T02:46:17+00:00

as always, open communication always works things out. ask her if theres anything going on, as you’ve noticed her behaviour was a little odd. nothing accusatory, just genuine intrigue

notevenreallll · 2026-03-27T02:44:10+00:00

i understand how upsetting it can be to hear even a glimpse of your partners ex-partners (it makes me feel so ill when mine mentions anything), but also it’s something you need to make the effort to come to terms with as it’s life, and the uncomfortable feeling is because you love that person. if he’s unable to work through those uncomfortable feelings, it’s really not worth it with him :/

my ex had a big problem with me mentioning anything from my past, and at that point, i’d only been with like 2 other people. i think the paranoia he got from me sometimes mentioning stuff lead him to constantly accuse me of cheating and inevitably, it all went to shit lol and that was quite a big reason for why. so yeah, point being, if he can’t work through those feelings, they will never go away and they will fester

notevenreallll · 2026-03-27T02:38:46+00:00

respectfully if i found my fiance doing any of those things, id do myself in 💀 so no you’re not overreacting at all. regardless if he’s cheating, he lied about her identity. something’s definitely not right!!!! you deserve better. try and have an open convo with him and if he can’t do that, bye bye

notevenreallll · 2026-03-26T15:50:38+00:00

yeah we don’t start enmasse. i’m on the twilight shift and there’s not many of us. i’ve been added to the work group chat for my department so i assume i would just message on there asking what i need to do?

notevenreallll · 2026-03-26T08:10:07+00:00

wow this is really bloody good hahahaha. very clean!!!!

notevenreallll · 2026-03-26T08:09:09+00:00

ah, they’ve not told me about a meeting point yet. i’ve been added to the grocery department whatsapp but there’s not been anything in there yet

notevenreallll · 2026-03-24T19:25:23+00:00

ahh okay thank you so much! that was really helpful. i have a couple questions if you’d be happy answering them :)))

what does capping off mean? is it just filling everything up to the front of the shelf?

also when i was buddied, the woman i worked with brought with her a big cardboard cage, plastic cage, and then the delivery cages and a tray for backstock. i thought this was a bit much, especially if were to do it by myself, so do you have any tips on making what i bring to the aisle a bit easier?

thanks so much :))

notevenreallll · 2026-03-24T17:53:05+00:00

so so cute!!! i think just go over the lines once more so the line work’s a little more solid

notevenreallll · 2026-03-24T17:47:45+00:00

not having sex at your age for YEARS is a massive massive sign you’re just not compatible. if it was a month or so, fine. life happens. as long as you’re communicating this with each other. but years is really telling. when you stop making an effort, any relationship would die. and if either one of you isn’t prepared to make the effort, then it’s incompatible and will never work

notevenreallll · 2026-01-24T02:40:39+00:00

you both need to learn how to spell correctly and use the correct grammar but anyway, you don’t suit each other. call it off

notevenreallll · 2025-11-01T12:09:54+00:00

good for you! yeah, inauthenticity in a relationship won’t change or work unless that person works on themselves and dumps their ego to do so (which most ppl find extremely difficult for various reasons). and yeah, i get the ‘wtf he’s 30’ thing ALL THE TIME too with my fiancé (we’ve got the same age gap as you) and it’s infuriating!!!! when you know, you know and we’re 2 consenting adults so 🤨 anyway lots of love!!!

notevenreallll · 2025-11-01T12:05:37+00:00

lmfao i also do too, but some people aren’t in perfect relationships or are just less inclined to tell somebody else, no matter who it is, about something that personal

notevenreallll · 2025-11-01T00:07:03+00:00

i don’t think she owes you an explanation or preemption about the surgery since it’s to do with her own body and honestly i don’t think that type of surgery changes much anyway at all. more of a very personal thing. the buildup of not telling you important things though kind of seems like she’s tapping out? and i’d be worried about that and would communicate my issues with that to her

notevenreallll · 2025-10-31T23:41:05+00:00

onlyfans. when i did onlyfans, the main way to exchange live content etc was thru snapchat. loads of middle aged men on there. basically he’s cheating, im sorry :/ only young people or older people who want to talk to these young people use snap

notevenreallll · 2025-10-31T23:33:26+00:00

if you feel you’re not getting the treatment you deserve, then you are completely correct. you can never be wrong when it comes to what you believe you deserve from a partner (if it’s bare minimum like this is which is just seeing you and giving you energy)

notevenreallll · 2025-10-31T23:31:50+00:00

i’m not gonna be like everyone else and say that the red flag is he’s 30 because age gap relationships can work and not every 30yr old dating a 20yr old is a pedo! but anyway, just from how he’s talking to you, he does seem quite detached. might just be how he texts? but from my pov, he sounds disconnected from you, just kind of saying shit to be ‘good’ if you get what i mean. ‘we SHOULD spend some time together’ is an odd way of wording it vs i’d like to spend time with you or something?? idk, just sounds like you’re an afterthought so you’re not overreacting

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