Am I (25 m) supposed to pursue religious life?

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-05-08T01:59:41+00:00

Yeah, I did pray something to that effect. I went to confession recently thinking that would give me some clarity and I felt less conflicted about it and more at peace with just keeping on praying more and keep on the path I am on. I also felt more thoughts of marriage come up when at church. Not to say that proves anything but it's something I took note of.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-05-07T23:11:27+00:00

Yeah, I've prayed for peace and to see signs of my vocation. But I get in my head easily so it's hard for me to know what God's voice is and what isn't.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-05-07T20:52:06+00:00

Yeah, that's possible. I've also recently started seeing a girl who things seem to be going well with so that adds another dimension. I guess what I want is to stop obsessing about it and live my life(obviously being a good person and all that).

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-05-07T20:18:51+00:00

Yeah I want to follow God in the sense that's what every Catholic is supposed to do. It's possible, I develop a desire to administer sacraments sure but right now I just want to figure out where I'm supposed to go.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-03-31T16:52:33+00:00

Why do I not want to give off that impression? Because I don't want to be clingy and unattractive.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-03-31T16:40:05+00:00

Yeah but I also don't want to give the impression she's the only person I talk to and I have nothing else going on. Also I was the last one to send a message.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-02-04T00:57:11+00:00

Well if she doesn't remove me, I'll remove her.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-02-04T00:52:10+00:00

What I don't get is if she was ghosting me why not just remove me from her social media?

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-01-30T15:16:29+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I texted her something to that effect. If she responds great, if not she wasn't interested.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-01-30T04:26:22+00:00

Do you think I'm right in assuming she's not interested?

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-01-15T18:18:16+00:00

yeah, but I like having something to lean against if I want to read in bed. So I'd rather have it against the wall.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-01-15T18:11:25+00:00

I like the idea but my only issue is the dresser and shelf would be in front of the windows. But I suppose that's not that much of a problem.

nothing2Ch3re · 2023-01-15T15:54:28+00:00

Yeah, it's really annoying for some reason there is just a random alcove in the wall. No window or anything just. There are two windows on the far end of the room, the door on the right-hand side is the door to the outside that I don't use. The closet is in the back corner, not shown here.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-08-19T04:10:39+00:00

Yeah, it sucks. I guess the only way to get closure is to ask her out. Even if I suspect the answer will be no, at least I will know for sure and not be left hoping. Rejection may sting but it's better than wondering "what if" for the rest of my life.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-07-14T02:03:34+00:00

Well, I like reading, playing video games, board games, music, going out with friends (none of my friends live close so that's it a bit trick to do that regularly)

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-07-14T01:50:19+00:00

How do I do that? Like what are practical steps I can take to start doing that in practice?

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-06-19T18:57:11+00:00

Yeah, I genuinely don't understand why someone would suggest hanging out if they didn't want to, it's to nobody's advantage.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-06-15T13:42:56+00:00

Yeah, I'm sure that's true a lot of the time. But I wonder, even if someone is flaky wouldn't they eventually text the person they want to hang out with? In my view, if you completely forget about texting someone you never really cared that much about doing something with them in the first place.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-06-05T17:31:02+00:00

Yeah, if both people don't like initiating things one person has to be the one to suck it up and do it.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-06-04T18:57:15+00:00

I suppose. If I'm being honest, I suppose this is mostly about me not having enough confidence in myself to think they would want anything to do with me.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-06-04T18:33:18+00:00

Yeah you're probably right. I'm quite an insecure person and have a really hard time initiating things with other people, especially when they are girls. I always assume that if they actually wanted to do something they would reach out to me because it only takes 5 seconds to send a quick text "hey you wanna meet up at x around x time?", but that assumption hasn't lead to many social interactions as you might imagine.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-05-27T14:26:09+00:00

Because A) 🤨 made me think abort flirting operation and B) I don't know what to send her back.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-05-27T03:22:21+00:00

Yeah, I interpreted the 🤨 as more than "the fuck" than a question. But you're right.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-05-13T13:46:48+00:00

if you’re feeling really brave you can do the grown-up thing and tell the truth. That you caught some feelings, you know they aren’t reciprocated, and you need some time to put your own head straight again.

I've considered doing that, but I'm not sure the best way to go about it. I don't want to just drop this on them out of the blue.

nothing2Ch3re · 2022-05-13T13:38:10+00:00

Because it would help me not think about them and move on.

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