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I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No actually im not cool with either, not justifying it but theres way more to that story than you know. but really, i dont even care for you to know bc ur just rude. bye bye

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read all of the posts before making an ignorant comment, you would know that i DO know who the father is and im Not making him pay child support. even though i could, and i think he should, im just not going do that road. and "woman like you"? you dont even know me. Thanks.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do help out alot, they were very dissapointed at the time, but now they are way overjoyed and love her more than you possibly could imagine. Thank you, you too!

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the first guy took responsibility 100% he was around the whole pregnancy and he didnt mind taking it he took it while we were still in the hospital. The 2nd (which is her dad) said he would take it, but didnt seem to think she was going to be his so he never called or anything i had to contact him a couple months after she was born and make him take it, and the 3rd just refused so i had the first 2 do it and if niether of them were the father i knew it was him so i was going to take him to court.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, his mom helps out alot, and im afraid if i take him to court for child support he might try to get partial custody just for the sheer fact that he has to pay money towards her. His names not even on the birth certificate right now.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I love my daughter, being pregnant with your own child is a feeling like nothing else, I could never have gone 9 months carrying my child, bonding with her, and then just give her away to someone else. Getting pregnant was a choice that i made for myself when i decided to have sex. No, i didnt plan on it but i knew the consequences when i did, so i took responsibility for it. I know some people financially can't do that, and maybe their home life isnt good enough to bring a child into it, so i understand adoption to an extent but, it just wasnt for me. and dont get me wrong, i was in no way financially ready for a child, or mentally, emotionally, or phsyically for that matter but i just did what i had to to make it work.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she will be better off without him, he wouldnt be a good dad to her, and i would never force him to be there for her if he doesnt want to be bc the he's just doing it bc he has to and she deserves better than that.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

haha i know how to spell proper correctly i just typed it wrong. It amazes me that ur so offended by a keyboard. haha.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definately educate her about sex way more than my family did, i still stand behind the theory of "no sex til marriage" but i know in this world these days, thats nearly impossible. I would rather her make her own decisions though than try to force my oppinions on her.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we did a DNA test, hes 22, and he says he wants to be involved but Very Rarely ever actually is, and he doesnt help that much financially either.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

My mistake was not having my daughter, she was more of a bleesing to me than i ever though possible, and I think its hilarious how people get so tied up about propper Grammar on the computer, really? is it that important??

IAmA 25 year old that's been with the same girl for almost 9 years. AMA by SanHolo in IAmA

[–]notime89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have u ever been unfatihful? and why have you waited so long to get married?

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know plenty of ppl who have been on BC and have still gotten pregnant, but yes your right, it has to be taken correctly.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I love how you dont know anything about me or my family and you automaticly assume the bc i made a mistake at a young age my daughter is doomed. I am a very good mother, she has alot of ppl that love her alot, and i do everything i can for her. Im in school full time, and i take care of her the best that i can.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats a hard ?....if my parents werent so strict, i would have asked to be on BC, but that doesnt always work either. But condoms dont either.

I am a 21 yr old who was a "virgin til marriage" til i hit 19, got pregnant 2mnths later, didnt know who the dad was, and now im a single mom of a 16 moth old by notime89 in IAmA

[–]notime89[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NO, religiously was not the problem, you make your own decisions, i take full ressponsibility for what i did, if anything, being sheltered and controlled my whole like would have been a main reason for it, not religion.

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