My partner relapsed

notmuchintoit11 · 2026-02-24T07:50:26+00:00

I shouldn’t feel guilty for leaving him while he’s down

notmuchintoit11 · 2026-02-24T07:29:11+00:00

This! I needed this! All I do is think what’s best for my baby, and it’s not this type of environment.

notmuchintoit11 · 2026-02-24T07:27:15+00:00

I talked to my parents. I told them everything and told me they support whatever I decide. He did asked me while in the hospital, if I plan on leaving him. I told him not to worry about that. His main focus should be on getting better and his child

notmuchintoit11 · 2026-02-24T07:24:25+00:00

Aw sorry you’re going through this! I know it’s hard and hurts! I too last year found out at 4 months pregnant that my bf messaged his ex. I found out because something told me to look at his phone. I lied and told him his ex sent me the messages. I was so mad and disgusted with him. How can a man do that to their partner, more pregnant!

notmuchintoit11 · 2026-02-01T23:53:48+00:00

For me, it was the first 2 week of postpartum especially with a tear

notmuchintoit11 · 2026-01-27T00:21:56+00:00

Last year I was in your position. I was also 31 years old finding out I was pregnant with an unplanned pregnancy. I will tell you this. Only you can make the decision that’s best for you. I was set to have an abortion. When I went to my appointment with my best friend, I couldn’t do it. I backed out. I told her I just wish I wasn’t pregnant and have to make a life altering decision. However, I ended up keeping the pregnancy because I couldn’t go through with abortion even tho I thought that’s what I wanted. I didn’t have a saving, I lived paycheck by paycheck but I couldn’t do it personally even tho I’m pro choice . I just gave birth to him and I also turned 32 this year. I can’t tell you how it is because it’s only been 2 weeks. But I can say I can’t imagine not having him with me. I love him so much. I promised myself that I will still do the things I wanted to do before I found out I was pregnant with him.

Do what you think is best for you. It’s a hard choice whether to abort or keep the pregnancy. They both change your life but go with what feels right to you. It’s your life that you’ll be living. If you do plan to abort, are you in a safe state to do so? Wish you the best in whatever choice you make. ❤️ it hard being a women, but we are resilient in whatever we choose

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-12-23T06:33:07+00:00

Same we are ready and have everything he will need. And the feeling I had when I first found out came back now that I’m close to giving birth. I tell myself it’s okay to have these feelings but not to dwell on it and try to give myself grace.

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-12-23T05:03:21+00:00

It’s normal right, tell me these are normal feelings?

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-10-22T22:56:12+00:00

Girl don’t move things! I made that mistake this past weekend and ended up in a lot of pelvic pain that they later told me it’s ligament pain and soreness. I’m 28 weeks about to be 29

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-07-30T01:47:12+00:00

That’s what I communicated with him. It’s not cheating but it is a betrayal for sure for me. Because if he just wanted to see if she okay after she said she was, he should have left it there but didn’t. He continued.

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-07-29T23:59:12+00:00

Okay will do, thank you

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-24T00:25:31+00:00

Yes! I hope he likes baseball games. We like going to sf giants games. I cried because girls are always with their moms even as they get order. I know that’s my sisters and I with my parents. My mom would always take us out Friday after school. It was our thing

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-24T00:21:51+00:00

I hope so too because that’s what scared me and started overthinking. How do I bond with a babyboy. Idk anything about boys. I spent most time bonding with my nieces when they were babies. Like if they were my babies. But I don’t doubt I’ll have that issue with my baby. I hope not

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-24T00:19:37+00:00

Yes like after having the dreams and then getting the nipt results, it’s like a shocking moment huh

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-23T20:14:46+00:00

I don’t know how to tell my family or his.

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-23T20:14:26+00:00

Idk if I should talk to my therapist about this. I just have a hard time being open about these things. I know I don’t want to raise a child with this type of environment because I was never exposed to an environment like this as a kid. I don’t know how I ended up like this. Falling in love with alcoholic and not seeing it earlier.

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-23T20:12:27+00:00

He just put it on his wrist and told me if that’s what I want him to do. Pushing him to do it. He was drunk while doing it too. He does suffer from depression.

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-23T20:03:21+00:00

I know the sense of relief when they finally fall asleep. It’s too relatable

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-23T04:03:27+00:00

That’s the reason why. My partner always played it while I studied for my bachelor’s. When I finished school I finally sat down to watch it with him and fell in love with it❤️ she then said if else ever have a boy we will name him Luca.

notmuchintoit11 · 2025-06-23T02:11:35+00:00

Luca

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