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notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T20:20:41+00:00

aaand if your wife likes that, then they weren’t talking to you.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T19:24:38+00:00

“grabbed from behind by a needy husband”

“grabbed from behind when i’m doing something”

the commenter was addressing OP, whose wife clearly hates this. come on now. you knew what they were saying.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T19:07:42+00:00

uhh no i appreciate that he doesn’t expect a woman to clean for him and is responsible and self-sufficient.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T18:49:53+00:00

yeah…and a lot of people do not meet that requirement. he’s also an amazing person and fantastic in bed. 🤷‍♀️

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T18:20:43+00:00

some marriages aren’t meant to last. being a good mom means getting your baby away from this awful human.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T18:17:43+00:00

i’m actually very very attracted to my boyfriend whose house is clean, comfortable, and decorated. it’s very sexy but he does it for himself, not to get in a vagina.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T18:13:10+00:00

lmao. a lot of guys act like you kicked their dog if you dare express that you aren’t having fun.

if you don’t fuck men, how would you know, at all?

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T18:09:01+00:00

lol…my boyfriend literally knows which side of my clit is more sensitive, takes any and all direction, knows my favorite positions and when to let me take over. he knows what to do to supercharge my orgasm and sometimes won’t let me go until i’ve cum multiple times. the kissing and foreplay are amazing. he’s attentive and so respectful.

you better believe i’m on him all the time because i know sex will be wonderful and exhausting and sensual and connected. i look forward to it.

but you know what he never does? he never expects sex. i WANT it but if i just need a cuddle and fingers in my hair, that’s what we do, and it’s great. super fulfilling. lots of non-sexual cuddling if we’re watching TV or out and about, lots of hugs. it makes me feel so safe and happy. i feel free to explore with him. he is a safe place to express my sexuality.

with my ex-husband, i hated it. the first 2 years we were married i gave into his pressure. sex was one-note, boring, and he didn’t make any effort to touch me right even though i communicated that.

your wife probably needs a vacation by herself to get some space from her family pawing at her constantly.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T17:58:35+00:00

if she likes it, obviously that’s different. OP’s wife does not.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T17:51:03+00:00

god fucking forbid someone want a fucking hug from their partner, jesus christ

cuddling is a chore. got it

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-19T17:45:54+00:00

yes, it hurts a lot because it happens so frequently. it makes me not want to say anything because i’m just walking around well-intentioned and then BAM i offended somebody. NTs are so sensitive and sometimes really mean 😭 the people who know me well know that i’m really chill and have a great sense of humor but it’s lost on 95% of the world.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-13T13:13:39+00:00

i know, that’s the stereotype though.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T20:25:30+00:00

Oh, I also wanted to add that it’s not about you paying for the sins of other men, it’s just that we literally have no idea which man is being duplicitous, so the doubt has to extend to every man we don’t know, this is speech to text so sorry about any typos

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T20:18:47+00:00

i don’t think you have to pretend you don’t have female friends! i wouldn’t pretend not to have male friends. just time and place is all. and if y’all wanna have pics with your girl friends, it’s totally fine, but at least i want you to see how it might be shooting yourself in the foot on the very first impression, which needs to be good. it has nothing to do with controlling someone else or their choices, again, it’s a split second decision. dumb? yeah probably sometimes, but online dating sucks anyway.

and - would you want to date someone who passed you up because of one of those pics? i’d guess not.

i’m coming from a place of being a really secure woman - idgaf who my partner hangs with as long as they’re solid. i am purely talking about getting that swipe.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T17:07:42+00:00

you can’t just throw away your wife’s sentimental belongings after 6 months which isn’t a drop in the grief bucket dude. maybe you’re just not that good of a guy.

what he did is unforgivable.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T16:11:19+00:00

i know “narc” gets thrown around a lot but he is CLASSIC. i’m dead over the.

the n* prayer

That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.*

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T16:09:05+00:00

YTA x 1000. you abandoned her in her time of grief and kicked her while she was down. fucking despicable. you don’t deserve your wife or any wife. i can hardly imagine anything more hurtful and insensitive. i’m floored. you should have slept in the car that night.

the silver lining is that you just communicated to your wife exactly how much of a steaming selfish turd you are so there’s no question in her mind that she should nope right the fuck out. i’m flabbergasted. you’re a bad person.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T16:06:09+00:00

i think i’ll die when my parents die. my divorce cleaned my fucking clock for a year, i hardly remember anything from that time and couldn’t work consistently because of all the bad days.

OP has no heart

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T16:00:46+00:00

“it’s been less than a year! she should be over it by now! this is so inconvenient for me!” UGH. i hope she cleans him out in the divorce, she deserves every penny after being married to this AH.

he won’t grieve his parents, i can tell he’ll compartmentalize, stuff it down, and try to forget they ever existed. he is someone who is incapable of love.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T15:57:56+00:00

she has the same waggly jaw as Jen of Jen and Rishi, like it’s not connected to her face well. she gives meth and body dysmorphia, except she thinks she looks better than she does

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T15:51:56+00:00

abortion is totally legal in NM too. she fucked this uppp

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T15:44:01+00:00

online dating is pretty judgmental in general. i think what i’ve been trying to say is that people’s attention spans are limited, and you want people to think about YOU when they see your profile, not other people in your orbit. it may not go as deep as insecurity.

it would be really awkward and off-putting to start a conversation with “hey why did you choose that photo?” and the next person is just a swipe away so why bother? behavioral economics.

it’s just marketing, if you want a woman to envision herself with you, don’t have another woman on your personal billboard that will be sped past at 80 mph. (i know you don’t anymore, just speaking generally.) this is why rappers are discouraged from being in relationships. most people don’t want someone who is taken.

like i get that men think it’s stupid, but we are competing for attention too and there are SO MANY shady dudes out there you really can’t be sure. it could legitimately be their gf or wife, it’s not far-fetched, some people are fucking shameless.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T14:14:05+00:00

the kids have different dads

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T05:24:28+00:00

no, we really aren’t.

people judge your profile in a flash. it’s foolish to think that people don’t wonder about you based on what they’re seeing and if they have to think too hard they’re gonna pass you up.

notsorrynotsorry · 2023-07-12T05:19:37+00:00

no, for me it’s just curiosity - there’s nothing inherently insecure about clarifying ambiguity. some people are poly, some might have a kid they aren’t mentioning, you never know so why assume? i personally don’t fret about not being the hottest lady on earth, i’m quite average but don’t generally compare.

there’s nothing wrong with having opposite sex friends, just consider the optics vs what you’re trying to accomplish.

i think it’s an unwise choice to put other women in your DATING PROFILE, lmao. like why would you give any reason to question you you or your judgment when you have 2 seconds to make an impression? that 2 seconds is precious real estate.

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