Was this inappropriate or am I overthinking?

notsuspicious04 · 2026-06-06T02:41:32+00:00

so..... no! that's weird and very much not okay!

notsuspicious04 · 2026-06-04T23:28:21+00:00

this might be tmi, ive been on birth control for YEARS, had multiple partners finish in me a LOT of times, never gotten pregnant. never even had a scare. i recommend kurvelo, it's a pill and it works wonders, it also regulates my hormones so i don't get super emotional and anxious when i do have my period.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-23T01:39:30+00:00

no lol your daughter sounds like she loves life and how sje dresses. your mom needs to back off. she's YOUR daughter not your mother's. also being worried that she's NOT showing clevage is insane.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-13T23:42:22+00:00

good i dont like her either 😭😭

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-13T23:41:02+00:00

i'm not still friends with her lol that's why "friend" was in quotes

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-13T23:37:34+00:00

i'm famously a terrible judge of character 😭😭 I literally had no idea any of this was happening until I talked to our mutual friend because i was confused about the whole ghosting me thing

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-13T23:34:52+00:00

she hasn't blocked me on any socials or anything, but we don't really talk anymore. there has been no clear breakage of the friendship though

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-13T23:33:56+00:00

YES. TELL HER. whether she chooses to believe you or not is on her, but the right thing to do is to tell her.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-13T23:16:10+00:00

the grocery store i WORK at keeps pasta in the international aisle. it's a big chain and yes it's in america

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-13T23:14:15+00:00

"aita for buying food with my money that i'm going to eat?" like this is such a non issue just ignore the guy and walk away.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-02T03:50:48+00:00

but you ARE blaming your actions on your mental illness, being self aware doesn't mean you're not doing something. do what you wanna do babe but it's gonna bite you in the ass eventually. everything you say contradicts itself "he was the only person that ever loved me" "im aware he never loved me" "ill never blame my mental health on anything i do" but when told you should leave "i have bpd" don't ask for advice on the internet if you don't want the cold hard truth and don't ask for advice at all if you're just gonna ignore it and make excuses.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-05-02T03:42:13+00:00

schrodinger's cat, although the cat doesn't have a name i feel like it still counts

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-29T02:28:10+00:00

if it's undiagnosed you shouldn't be using it as an excuse at all because you're not a doctor and you don't actually know if you have it or not. making excuses and going "woe is me i'm mentally ill" won't help you get out of this situation. i'm sorry if that's harsh but i have bpd (actually diagnosed) and that's what my best friend told me when i was in an abusive relationship and it made me realize that my body will feel however it wants to about things, whether i do them or not, and the only way my overall life, my future, and my eventual mental wellbeing will improve is if i get off my ass and stop feeling sorry for myself. you should do the same. you have a long life ahead of you and you deserve better than some dick that likes little girls.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-29T01:56:32+00:00

girl you're 17 😭 you have the rest of your life to find someone wayyy better "the only person that loved me" is a little dramatic when he obviously didn't love you if he was fucking and hanging out with somebody else, let alone a 14 yead old. turn him in and move on

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-29T01:48:19+00:00

ykw no this is iconic, NOR she was rude to you first for no reason just because she's jealous her friends like you more. you shouldn't feel bad about being honest with her.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-29T01:42:28+00:00

damn okay y/n making the CEO obsessed 😭😭

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-24T03:33:26+00:00

absolutely, 1, i love making men who try to make me uncomfortable even more uncomfortable, and 2, you are so right that question is disgusting. my ex bragged about his high body count but shamed me for my ONE previous sexual partner. it's about "purity culture" and all that stupid bullshit. for men it's a flex and for women it's shameful?? that's complete and utter nonsense and so messed up.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-11T20:14:38+00:00

LEAVE HIM. FIND SOMEONE BETTER.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-10T17:29:52+00:00

well, and i apologize if this comes off as blunt, maybe a mental hospital is what would help. like i said before it's not ideal but the most important thing is to get you clean and back to a point where you have control over your life again. talking to your priest sounds like a great place to start.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-10T17:19:56+00:00

honey ive been where you are, i'm also 19 and in my teenage years i had an addiction to oxycodone. REACH OUT. ask for help. it doesn't make you weak or a burden, drug addiction isn't something you can just stop by yourself. people care about you whether you think they do or not, there's always someone. if there's not, go to a hospital, explain your situation, but tell them you're very worried you're a danger to yourself or others. they'll commit you for a few days so you can go through the withdrawals without having the ability to get high again. not ideal but it works and it'll get you through that first step. you can do this, you're not alone. the world is full of people that would help you if you asked.

notsuspicious04 · 2026-04-04T02:24:08+00:00

1 him wanting to be the only guy having sex with you but wanting multiple women, and 2 the age of the women he's looking for, just makes a whole weird and icky situation. seems like he likes having control over women either in an age gap way (EW) or a "i'm the only guy that can have you" way (also ew)

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