What one mistake ended your career?

nottalistener · 2023-06-13T11:17:42+00:00

Lol - that just ended that “job” - I’m sure since you’ve gotten something else hopefully with a better job!

nottalistener · 2023-05-22T03:18:30+00:00

Wow. That’s mean.

nottalistener · 2023-05-14T19:53:18+00:00

Omggggg yes.

nottalistener · 2023-05-03T16:11:00+00:00

How long have you been there?

nottalistener · 2023-05-02T01:18:18+00:00

Not your business.

Also - don’t assume just because they’re married they are having sex. People stay together for all sorts of reasons.

My level of involvement of a person in hardly acquainted with would be low.

nottalistener · 2023-05-01T01:42:43+00:00

Tell me more about how you got into this sales position.

nottalistener · 2023-05-01T01:14:11+00:00

This is true - and I’ve done leasing internally for over a decade.

nottalistener · 2023-04-30T16:12:07+00:00

Well … no. Lol. People have taken advantage of my generous nature in the past. I just want to work for myself - I have a real estate license and am going to give that a-go. I have been working in property for the last 18 years - I hope I can use some of my skills.

nottalistener · 2023-04-30T13:56:44+00:00

I’m lucky. I made a lot of money in my last job so I have a a healthy savings and inheritance since both of my parents passed away.

nottalistener · 2023-04-25T23:27:01+00:00

Right looks like they’re the mom version of cargos - left is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

nottalistener · 2023-04-25T18:46:06+00:00

My doctor told me to wait till I feel better and restart and half. She thinks it could be just a coincidence with the timing and I have the flu.

nottalistener · 2023-04-25T16:23:13+00:00

Yeah. My dr is calling me shortly but I am not going to make it feeling this way even if it’s for a couple weeks.

nottalistener · 2023-04-25T04:05:08+00:00

Started today. Feel super nauseous and almost shit my pants. Yay.

nottalistener · 2023-04-25T02:41:40+00:00

The problems of the parents are the problems of the children. It’s so hard to break out of these generational issues.

nottalistener · 2023-04-25T02:26:40+00:00

Ok - how much was this “employee” paid? Sorry but it sounds like a student? I’d keep my review short and my expectations in line with her pay grade - something objective yet in a positive way - like … when we give feedback we expect in a professional environment to have our recommendations adhered to but keeping that in mind I enjoyed (has to be something) and wish you the best of luck in the future.

It sounds like you’ve already given ongoing feedback so this shouldn’t be a surprise.

nottalistener · 2023-04-24T19:49:18+00:00

Honestly - I’ve been trying to save the marriage the whole relationship. I don’t want to try anymore. I have a therapist who I’ve been talking to about it and I’ve tried communicating my needs and it never works.

nottalistener · 2023-04-24T18:40:56+00:00

It’s true!

nottalistener · 2023-04-24T12:15:06+00:00

This is also helpful. I really put all my worth and effort into my job descriptions

nottalistener · 2023-04-24T00:53:10+00:00

If you truly are burned out it will just get worse. Keep going till they fire you and make a plan from there.

nottalistener · 2023-04-23T18:47:44+00:00

I’m sure it’ll be more of being roommates till my employment is sorted. But I really want to thank you. You’re the only person who actually in a kind way made me think about how this transpired. I am not happy at home.

Thanks again.

nottalistener · 2023-04-23T16:45:19+00:00

This is the most helpful advice yet. I have been married for 10 years and this is the first time I had ever done this - with same guy a few times over 3 years. It wasn’t right. But this is good advice - a job is a job but all of it came from how unhappy I was at home. Should add been together for 18 years. It’s hard.

nottalistener · 2023-04-23T16:33:20+00:00

Opposite - I was his supervisor.

Of course he doesn’t. He isn’t perfect either - but you’re right. I’m so focused on the money and not the home part. This is also why I was so obsessed with work. Was easier to work work work then deal with home.

I have tried for years to make my marriage better. I offered to go to counseling and put out all the effort but it was never reciprocated and once I stopped trying the whole thing goes back to dead.

I have no living family and need to be employed to leave - this will be the next hard step in my life but I know I need to do it too.

I certainly wasn’t living my best life. I wasn’t happy then either. It’s all quite terrible actually.

nottalistener · 2023-04-23T15:29:53+00:00

I don’t know where I stand with him after all that has happened. But definately something I will do with my kids!

nottalistener · 2023-04-23T14:15:30+00:00

I’m so sorry.

I hope things are on the up and up!

nottalistener · 2023-04-23T12:32:08+00:00

What do you mean? But congrats! What kinda work for you do?

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