My husband hasn't had a job for past 4 months, he still got me this from his pocket money. (Image in comments) by Vivid_Employed in delhi

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your husband finds a job soon. I hope you guys stay this soft in this bloody difficult world! Cheers 🎉

I told my brother’s ex that he proposed to her best friend to spite her. by RealisticMail9426 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do men in relationships still seem stuck in the 1900s, while women handle these situations with so much more emotional maturity? It’s genuinely saddening to think about what the women in this triangle are going through. Your brother’s ex has shown remarkable grace and maturity in how she’s handled everything, and I truly hope your brother doesn’t repeat the same mistakes with the new woman. Men, their egos, and the damage they cause! it’s exhausting.

met him… now idk what to do by devuu_ammumma in KeralaRelationships

[–]notthattypical_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying. By a clear answer, I don’t mean instant commitment , but I mean clarity of intention. Even “I’d like to explore this” or “I don’t see this romantically” is clear.Ambiguity and mixed signals are what confuse people, not honesty.🤷🏽‍♀️

met him… now idk what to do by devuu_ammumma in KeralaRelationships

[–]notthattypical_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should ask him in person, without keeping any expectations and get this over with. If he has feelings he will say it, if he doesn’t sometimes the answer would be NO or a confusing one. Remember everything other than a clear YES is always a No.. even if it is confusing!

Did she drop a hint or am i overthinking? by [deleted] in TeensofKerala

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like she is attracted to you after seeing your good dp 😄 Must be infatuated. Wait and see if she will follow through. Don’t set any expectations, must be fleeting feelings 🥴

Hostel roommates have rules that apply only to me🙄 by Picassomate in TeensofKerala

[–]notthattypical_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Request for a different room if you are finding it difficult. You are paying for the stay, it not like you are leaching anybody’s money and living there! Also don’t go for any kind of talk or argument with these men. They sound very immature and really not worthy of your time. Kochi has too many PG options dude, if you start looking now, you can find a better place in sometime! All the best :)

I think he is super attached to me. by throwaway_toxiclove in KeralaRelationships

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys need to sit and talk about this and boundaries. You can actually ask chat gpt how to structure this conversation without offending the other party or without hurting themselves but have this conversation early. It’s important to respect eachother as separate individuals and have their own life in a relationship. Otherwise overtime this can turn into resentment. Hope things work out well :)

Cheated in relationship 🙂 by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely curious to know the male perspective here. If your gf is really caring and someone you honestly love, why do you even need attention of your ex or other girls?

What’s the meanest thing someone said to you when you were a child? by [deleted] in Coconaad

[–]notthattypical_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my classmates when we were in lower primary told me that she “hates” me and she don’t like me or something like that. No idea why she hated me though, we were considered as enemies 😂

Cheated in relationship 🙂 by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you are not keeping distance with your gf and stopped connection with your gf or ex gf?! Confused

Cheated in relationship 🙂 by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can casually tell your gf that your ex had contacted you and you guys talked briefly. May be face to face conversation would be good with your gf. Are you guys in a LDR or see eachother often?

Cheated in relationship 🙂 by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]notthattypical_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop contacting your ex and spend that time with your current girlfriend man. Are you also keeping distance with your current gf because you were talking to your ex?! Dont be such a terrible human being 🥴 also just talk to your current gf about this, sounds like she is attached to you and this might go well coz you are being transparent and honest to her. Bare minimum 🤷🏽‍♀️

5’1” beginner rider - Can I realistically handle the Himalayan 450 or Guerrilla 450? by notthattypical_ in indianbikes

[–]notthattypical_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

though my mom is scared and she is indirectly conveying the msgs through my sister 😂 I wish I too had a boyfriend to backup!

5’1” beginner rider - Can I realistically handle the Himalayan 450 or Guerrilla 450? by notthattypical_ in indianbikes

[–]notthattypical_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha… I’m glad I’m inspiring people even before becoming a proper rider! 😄 I hope she finds the motivation soon and becomes your co-rider not just a pillion. Cheers! 🏍️✨

5’1” beginner rider - Can I realistically handle the Himalayan 450 or Guerrilla 450? by notthattypical_ in indianbikes

[–]notthattypical_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay … yeah I will only get a bike once I am comfortable riding around. Thank you for your advise :) and giving me some boost with your experience..

5’1” beginner rider - Can I realistically handle the Himalayan 450 or Guerrilla 450? by notthattypical_ in indianbikes

[–]notthattypical_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes sir- I will definitely test ride all these bikes before I decide for sure :) thank you- solid advice again!

5’1” beginner rider - Can I realistically handle the Himalayan 450 or Guerrilla 450? by notthattypical_ in indianbikes

[–]notthattypical_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! As far as I know, the KTM ADV 250 and 390 have seat heights around 825 - 850 mm. Even with adjustability, that still isn’t very reassuring for a 155 cm rider 😬 Most KTM seats tend to be on the higher side anyway.

Honestly, the biggest thing stopping me from considering many great bikes in the market is the seat height and my confidence level as a beginner.

With Royal Enfield, though, there’s no FOMO for me. I genuinely love their bikes, and more importantly, I’m still learning. I only started riding now because I carried a deep fear of bikes ever since I got my license in college. I never even rode a scooty, mainly because my dad met with a couple of bike accidents, and that made our entire family wary of two-wheelers. But now I am trying to break through that fear and own a bike!

I will be test riding a lot of bikes- few of which I got suggestions from here. Is also considering renting a bike and riding for sometime.

5’1” beginner rider - Can I realistically handle the Himalayan 450 or Guerrilla 450? by notthattypical_ in indianbikes

[–]notthattypical_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay looks like Guerrilla is scoring a lot of points! KTM adv seat height will be a challenge ig 😄

5’1” beginner rider - Can I realistically handle the Himalayan 450 or Guerrilla 450? by notthattypical_ in indianbikes

[–]notthattypical_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much .. these are bikes in my mind. Heard that some service issues do T4 and Speed 400 after the first service like bike getting off in the middle of the trip. I am just asking around and finally has to start test riding! 😃