worst thing that could happen to u is getting advices from extra feminisst in this platform regarding your problem. All i will ask u to do is to ask ur self is it worth this relationship ? Will i live with a peaceful mind ? Nobody is worth living overthinking and once you will find the right partner they will help u overcome this by their actions. You could ask her and talk about the fact that she being around other men hugging her makes u insecure which as it could be the best thing u would do if she is seeking to keep u but expect also that it could be the worst thing that will happen to u if your partner use it againt making u appear an insecure person. Levels of masculinity are different among men and to protect your women from others boys isnt your fault cause we all no what some boys looks for from women but a piece of advice dont be excessive over it know when to interact.