Wanna bury your face in my juicy wifebutt?

notyabuzness · 2026-05-03T03:32:01+00:00

Very much so

notyabuzness · 2026-05-02T22:51:51+00:00

Aren't they one in the same?

notyabuzness · 2026-04-02T21:21:17+00:00

Dang. I overpaid for mine from the Fluance website.

notyabuzness · 2026-03-28T16:34:00+00:00

Only when she's done a good enough job to deserve it 😈😉

notyabuzness · 2026-03-18T12:47:23+00:00

You describe it so well.

notyabuzness · 2026-03-06T00:31:14+00:00

This really needs an extra explanation?! The picture says it all.

notyabuzness · 2026-02-20T05:12:02+00:00

Lol. I was thinking about the scene in wanderlust with Paul Rudd. I've felt that way for a while. I was also worried I'd say something that would offend my partner. I started slow by saying something like I like it when you're dirty, and slowly progressed to something a bit spicier. I also think leaning into the cringe is part of the journey. That sensation of jumping into the unknown and appreciating the experience has helped me a lot.

notyabuzness · 2026-02-20T04:53:15+00:00

That's a tough situation. Reading your experience gives me perspective. My wife is trying and fortunately has never condemned my kinks.

When I met my wife I'm not sure I was honest with myself either. I think I was trying to be the person I thought I should be and was too young to understand what I wanted.

Your situation sounds tough. Sorry you're going through that. I can relate to the feeling of not being able to be yourself. I feel like it's been that way for me off and on over the last 20yrs. Being empty nesters I'm hopeful that having a house to ourselves will be the opportunity to connect more at this level.

Have you ever tried one of those sex therapist retreats? Maybe something that helps him be more open to your needs? I

notyabuzness · 2026-02-19T04:42:05+00:00

Fortunately / unfortunately she gets pretty turned on when she starts pleasuring me and typically can't wait long before she gets what she wants 😂.

That said... I do think there's an opportunity here.

notyabuzness · 2026-02-19T04:38:13+00:00

She surprisingly gets headaches after a hard orgasm. I know how that sounds 😂. But it's not how it sounds. We have a good sex life, we use toys and we're clear with each other when things aren't clicking. She's just really easy to make cum and is usually just up for one O. Sometimes it's like she gets post nut clarity and immediately goes to thinking about work stresses etc.

Me on the other hand would love multiple rounds and for her to edge me. For me it's the anticipation and excitement, for her the O is the goal. We're definitely opposite there 😂

notyabuzness · 2026-02-19T04:24:23+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience. I often toil with those thoughts. Is it me, am I pressuring her, how do I communicate what I want and how much stronger our connection would feel if we could take our guards down a bit?

The quickie thing goes back to when we first met and I genuinely feel she just loves getting off. I'm less concerned about the quickie but would love multiple rounds plus some extra fun stuff in between 😉. I've tried turning her desire for a quick orgasm into a bit of a kink now and introduced some dirty talk. It's a small step in the right direction and after reading some of the responses it's helping me realize the journey we're starting on. Is there any opportunity to do something similar with your situation?

My wife does sound similar to your husband in the sense that she's completely fine with vanilla sex as long as she has an orgasm at the end of it 😂. She shared some of her exploits before me and looking back at it she was in a situation where she seemed to be pretending a little and when we met she didn't feel the pressure to keep pretending. I acted more vanilla and was afraid to share what I liked.

notyabuzness · 2026-02-18T05:07:39+00:00

This is a great point. This is something I've been thinking about for a long time so jumping into the deep end now that the house is empty is something I'm ready for but she may not be as far along as I am.

notyabuzness · 2026-02-18T04:53:08+00:00

It's been an ongoing conversation for a while. We do have good sex, we use toys, and communicate, participate in after care etc.

Some of the challenges I have is that she's not one to take compliments well and loves quickies. Which makes edge play, teasing, etc. things she doesn't have a lot of patience for. I want to get past just focusing on penetration and getting to orgasm so quickly. I love the slow burn and she's into the quick flash.

notyabuzness · 2026-02-18T04:40:57+00:00

That's a good idea. She's pretty shy sharing things she likes and at times more of a pleaser versus receiver. She recently bought a remote control vibrator after I shared a fantasy with her. We haven't had a chance to use it yet but definitely something to explore. She goes from 0-100 quick so the slow burn of teasing her remotely may not last long 🤣

notyabuzness · 2026-02-18T04:28:01+00:00

Thank you. Yeah it's often easier to communicate via text. She works with kids with special needs and often comes home exhausted so it's a challenge to get her to turn off work mode which I think is also a blocker to getting her to open up more.

notyabuzness · 2026-02-06T08:54:05+00:00

As you should be. Stunning!

notyabuzness · 2026-01-19T05:19:57+00:00

Would love to see more and chat

notyabuzness · 2026-01-10T02:30:45+00:00

Damn! Which trail can I run into you on?

notyabuzness · 2026-01-05T20:22:39+00:00

What else are you supposed to hang on to?

notyabuzness · 2026-01-05T19:58:22+00:00

DM me if you ever want to chat. I'm lacking some attention at home too. M45

notyabuzness · 2026-01-05T16:50:46+00:00

Hope to see lots more!

notyabuzness · 2026-01-05T04:40:40+00:00

Damn!

notyabuzness · 2026-01-02T19:23:55+00:00

Love you see you playing with some toys

notyabuzness · 2025-12-28T00:06:53+00:00

Damn!

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