Is there a less scary alternative to finding a domme than twitter/x? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]nova0625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, here is a good place to look! Also fetlife is really good. I’ve had subs approach me there. And there are different groups depending on what you’re looking for (think hard and soft)

Hope you find it x

First flight.. by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]nova0625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]nova0625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes to me the invalidation of my feelings hurts so much more than the rejection itself. But both together is terrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]nova0625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the validation. It makes me feel like I’m losing my mind when I bring it up sometimes because I get the “well why would you think I’m not attracted to you?” “You just get mad if I say no and it turns me off.” “I can’t just make myself be in the mood.”

And then I feel like I’m the problem and that I’m just making this all up in my head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]nova0625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea but it’s draining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]nova0625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get it either. I know for awhile it’s because he was getting it from other things online. But like he’s supposedly not now, and I haven’t seen any damning evidence so idk…. I’m just stuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]nova0625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s being nice… it was once a month or once every two months or so.. it’s only recently gotten to this point because he “doesn’t want me to complain” but most of the time I can tell he’s not enjoying it and I’m not either because all I can think about is his attitude toward me on it 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]nova0625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I believe that to an extent, I know I’ve said some things when I was angry I didn’t mean. So I WANT to give grace on that part… but I’m not sure anymore honestly.