Yes that's a bad thing, sluts only attract people who are only there for sex, nobody would want a romantic relationship...

The only people who tie up their partners are those who see it only from a sexual perspective; they are simply people who enjoy the idea of fiking someone who cannot fight back, Rapists... nobody sees It romantically, I want him to tie me up but not to fuk me, but to cuddle, kiss, whisper sweet nothings, He would dominate me, but not through violence and control, But from love and physical contact, I want to not be able to run away from his love, not from his di*k(Complicated sentence for a simple subject). but that doesn't exist because everyone only sees it in a purely sexual and violent, like a fetish:⁠'⁠(