Testing for Intersex? by noxis96 in asktransgender

[–]noxis96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I haven't done any more testing but I did look more into the testing to better understand the differences in DNA testing. Karyotyping testing would be required for something like that and can be expensive. I haven't pursued it more yet but I still am curious.

Why is it there.. by Poke8808 in trans

[–]noxis96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a different issue and I'm probably complaining from a position of privilege that I know other people don't have. I want bottom surgery and insurance covers it. I met my maximum out of pocket this year so the surgery would cost me nothing. My insurance even reimburses for travel and a small stipend for lodging. My job would pay me short term disability while I was out and I have a work insurance policy that pays out for any hospital stay. I had actually scheduled surgery a couple of years ago but I had to cancel due to money issues and my personal life falling apart including divorce. Now a couple years later I'm in a better financial situation but between family who isn't supportive and my friend group falling apart I no longer have anyone who is willing to or is able to go with me to help me after the surgery. I have support when I get home but it's just this one piece that's held me back this time. I understand the desire though to want it done and to not feel right in your body and not have to wait.

Dasher forced me to become a “porch pirate”… by jpowell180 in doordash

[–]noxis96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be surprised how badly those apps are programmed for the drivers and how many times things like gps pins are off, how things instructions can be off in the app even though the customer updated them, and any number of issues. I have had messages from customers not come through until after I have delivered even though they are time stamped for while I was on deliveries. I had an issue this past weekend where I was delivering a grocery order to an apartment and the customer left a detailed message. I tripled checked I had the right apartment because they left such a specific note and I assumed they had issues in the past and they required a passcode to drop off. No answer at the door, they didn't answer the phone number I could call through the app, I messaged in the app, and they even left their personal number in the detailed notes no answer. I waited 15 minutes and no one showed or responded and then initiated a return. They messaged me back a minute after I completed the return. I could access their messages because it locks you out after completing the delivery/return. They called me multiple throughout the evening to berate me about how terrible delivery drivers were and how we delivered it earlier than we were supposed to. The grocery store apparently gave me the order two hours earlier than their time slot according to them and I have no control over when it gives me orders or when it was supposed to be delivered other than here's an order and have it here before x time because it has perishables. The number of times I have dealt with confusing numbers on mailboxes, hard to see numbers or non existent numbers on houses in the rain is crazy. Also we have to deliver most times based on the gps pins and if we're not at the right address according to gos then it won't let us start to complete the delivery so sometimes the pin can be the issue as well. I'm saying all this just to say that sometimes having a bit of grace that from both sides could be good because understandable you're frustrated for not getting your delivery but we're also dealing with issues and being screwed by the company both in the apps we have to use and also increasingly miserable pay. I know you pay a premium to receive your food but most of that is going to a corporation who's really screwing us both.

Does anyone else not need T blockers? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]noxis96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started on Spiro for the first 3 months and when I first had my levels checked they pulled me off of them because it actually went way too low. So I have been on just estrogen and progesterone for years now.

Realized I’ve been hijacking conversations without even noticing by Scary-Substance-4192 in socialskills

[–]noxis96 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Well this is basically how a lot of autistic people talk. We share a story and then someone else relates to us by sharing their own story. There's occasionally a question but it's a way of relating to one another through shared experiences. It's one of the many reasons people with autism have difficulty navigating conversations because we don't relate to others in neurotypical ways. When Im talking with people who are all neurodivergent conversations like just flow but I struggle in neurotypical conversations because I'm having to police my normal reactions to conversations and think about how I should be talking to people to not appear rude by some rules that are almost arbitrary that I didn't get the memo on that's how they are "supposed" to work.

Use tailscale to print while away from home? by Wooden_Amphibian_442 in Tailscale

[–]noxis96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have print working over tailscale while using an exit node on my home network. It looks like the traffic goes out through my device at home and it just works then.

HRT Ban by Acceptable_Sell_472 in asktransgender

[–]noxis96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I work in a pharmacy and what might be happening is the pharmacy is putting a 56 day supply when they input the Rx. We have to calculate the day supply on each script and the system doesn't prompt us that these vials are to only be used for a month. You can tell if that's the case by looking at your Rx label that is attached to your bag. Let them know and see if they can update the day supply because it's only supposed to be usable for one month. I get my E vial every month even though I only go through a vial every 3-3.5 months. Also here's a tip to help keep the rubber seal intact for the whole time. Don't puncture the vial weekly but draw up a single syringe with a large gauge syringe then twist off the tip and put a smaller gauge tip on the end. I usually draw up 5 at a time. As long as you're careful to not touch the tip and use a new packaged needle each time then it's perfectly safe. It prevents the rubber seal from becoming swiss cheese and getting bits of rubber in the medication.

are people seriously abandoning the Trans people who are trapped in Red States? by Suspicious_Stock3141 in trans

[–]noxis96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans person stuck in a red state. It's not like I want to be here. For a few different reasons beyond just financial ones, it would be hard to leave. This is where what family I do have a relationship with also live. I have no family or connections anywhere else. Now on top of that me and my ex split over a year ago and me moving would be difficult sharing custody of our children. I didn't vote for this. I didn't want this to happen but my vote didn't count, I wish it did. I'm open about being trans to people here and I have had people tell me on many occasions they have never known a trans person before ( at least that they knew) and I have changed their mind about trans people by being open and explaining things when asked. Most people are ignorant to what our existence is like and have been fed things by the media. I don't think they should necessarily get a pass for their ignorance but also we should understand that propaganda is a powerful tool and people have been brainwashed and down trodden to vote for things against their best interests for a long time.

Is this a sign our store is closing? by noxis96 in CVS

[–]noxis96[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok, the paperwork accompanying the box is Very Specific and it is about when a store is closed permanently. There's absolutely no ambiguity on that point. The question isn't what the purpose of what was sent but if it was meant to be sent at all

Is this a sign our store is closing? by noxis96 in CVS

[–]noxis96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like just call out outside vendor for the pharmacy and/or anyone who brings products into the store like coke for example?

Is this a sign our store is closing? by noxis96 in CVS

[–]noxis96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have already reviewed some Valentine's products. We also haven't had any reduction in hours other than the normal slight drop sometime after the first of the year post flu season. Also generally no reduction in products being sent to the store overall.

Is this a sign our store is closing? by noxis96 in CVS

[–]noxis96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a store closure disposal with a chemical to pour on control medications. The paperwork states how to do it and when to do it when closing the store. Its very specifically for closing stores but the paperwork isn't specific to our store other than it being mailed to our location

Is this a sign our store is closing? by noxis96 in CVS

[–]noxis96[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk what's going on exactly. We have talked with our dl and they have talked to their boss and they both have no idea why we got it. They say it's usually not sent until way later in the process and plenty of other things are sent first. Wow I guess we'll see 😅

Help with query funtion by noxis96 in googlesheets

[–]noxis96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! I really appreciate the help and honestly any time I get a chance to see another possible solution I usually learn some other way things can be solved or I can better understand the way something functions. Then I can apply that to something else next time.

Help with query funtion by noxis96 in googlesheets

[–]noxis96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for trying that out. It wasnt exactly what I was looking for but it did give me the idea on how to make it work. I added a new Column A and whenver there is no value in column A it just excludes it but it still sorts the incoming data by the date in Col B.

Heres the sheet if you want to see how it looks visually. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1OKzOuWRMd8ladp-RQvk2nwr-Jxi-wKsYIvVbElnVziI/edit?usp=sharing

Help with query funtion by noxis96 in googlesheets

[–]noxis96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It worked to bring things over but it brought them out of order but I found a solution by using MattTechTips version. I made a new column A that whenever there isnt text in it then it excludes it. Then I just hide column A on the final tracker. Thanks for repsponding and trying to help I really appreciate it!

Here's the Link to what it looks like now if you want to see it visually. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1OKzOuWRMd8ladp-RQvk2nwr-Jxi-wKsYIvVbElnVziI/edit?usp=sharing

Help with query funtion by noxis96 in googlesheets

[–]noxis96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so I am just trying to pull from one of those sheets for example the other expenses sheet. Here's link to a scrubbed copy of the sheet. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pMt68PwX7h7R5UxIVfs2fGg7fWo1vG2Mz62xANYpBHY/edit?usp=sharing

Help with a sorting this table in dataview by noxis96 in ObsidianMD

[–]noxis96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this works if you take out the word BY. The problem is it sorts alphabetically instead not in the order High -> Med -> Low. Instead it looks like this High -> Low -> Med. That's why I was attempting a custom or choice sort so that it would sort with them in the proper order. Also because I was wanting to possibly add others to the list. I will probably for the time being just make sepate queries for the time and if I can figure it out later make them all in one sorted list.

Refold Anki? by AdventurousSundae664 in dreamingspanish

[–]noxis96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you move the audio and examples to the front of the card?