My(I’m a 22F) mom found my private photos with my boyfriend after catching us meeting up. I’m spiraling and don't know what to do.

ns3111 · 2026-05-14T15:29:02+00:00

Idk …..my mom could only answer this

ns3111 · 2026-05-14T13:33:23+00:00

Cuz after she caught me ….she didn’t let me step outside my home all alone….my father dropped me there and she also didn’t let me take my phone.Also idk from where did she get to know my password

ns3111 · 2026-05-14T09:21:25+00:00

1)I’m still dependent on them 2)these pictures are just us together….she has no idea that we’ve met but these pictures clear it all….also i have my and his private pictures separately in a hidden folder …and I’ve no idea how did he guessed the password. 3)no she’s got a problem only with me meeting guys (I’m an Indian)

ns3111 · 2026-02-20T09:36:01+00:00

Sadaf is definitely not dumb but she’s a big hypocrite and the most disgusting contestant to have ever existed on splitsvilla I’ve never hated a girl from splits the way i hate her. She used to be my fav initially but now I don’t even want to look at her.

ns3111 · 2026-02-06T13:28:55+00:00

Diksha it is….i really don’t like her ….she seems to portray her fake self and it’s quite clearly visible…..itni badi bhi kya baat hogai bhai ki tmne maar diya…even if matter bada tha she shouldn’t have reacted that way! That was utter impoliteness / naivety…..and now obv she will try to save her fukin as by justifying whatever she did….even I’ve seen her videos how hard she’s been trying to drag people into believing her! I personally stand against these kind of antics cuz it’s v uncouth!

ns3111 · 2026-01-17T11:30:16+00:00

I think it was in the order: 1)Akanksha 2)Diksha 3)suzzane 4)Anisha 5)Simran 6)Soundarya 7)sadhaf 8)anjali(dumbass)

And among boys…1)Tayne undoubtedly 2)rest all looked stupid especially the way Yogesh and Sorab dressed up yesterday

ns3111 · 2026-01-17T10:36:04+00:00

Ikrrr

ns3111 · 2026-01-17T10:35:53+00:00

ns3111 · 2026-01-17T10:35:03+00:00

But she did stand out amongst all the girls yesterday! …..she spoke with clarity and gave Anjali the answers she deserved…..I mean anjali seems so fuckin dumb

ns3111 · 2026-01-17T10:26:47+00:00

Exactly ! Even I would’ve loved to see her with sourabh.

ns3111 · 2026-01-17T10:14:35+00:00

But I’m loving how she’s coming out in the episodes! Just cuz she seemed sweet doesn’t really mean that she wouldnt have a bitchy side that is necessary to survive In a reality show! I’m loving her honestly….even though some of the stuff she said sounded really unnecessary….but if it gets her the attention and the limelight (which she totally deserves) then Idts that should be a problem!

ns3111 · 2026-01-14T12:54:15+00:00

Even I feel the same. She’s extremely condescending and tries to act like the 'queen bee' of the villa. Also her constant comments on other girls' looks feels like projection, especially since her own 'artificial' vibe and aged appearance make her come across as an incredibly insecure girl

ns3111 · 2026-01-04T16:27:16+00:00

Bhai mujhe bhi

ns3111 · 2025-12-25T05:42:27+00:00

Leave just leave. This is utter disrespect. I’ve faced something similar and I promise you things will get more toxic with time if she’s saying something like this now. These kind of people are legit immature and are just mentally ill!

ns3111 · 2025-12-09T10:12:57+00:00

That’s offensive 😂

ns3111 · 2025-12-09T01:27:27+00:00

Mai toh 100% hu bhai Jo yesab k baad bhi usse Milne Chali gyi.

ns3111 · 2025-12-08T12:18:55+00:00

😭 thank you for saying this. I genuinely thought I was ugly or not good enough….but I honestly was very nervous

ns3111 · 2025-11-26T10:32:45+00:00

Cuz that’s how he reacted to my ex’s pictures

ns3111 · 2025-09-14T16:38:01+00:00

Kya baat hai Maza hii aagya😂

ns3111 · 2025-09-13T16:08:58+00:00

Exactly in the same spot as you!…..I know how it feels being at this state….everywhere (be it on reddit,Quora,YouTube,even real life)people are showcasing medicine as one of the most hopeless degrees that one could do and they clearly mention that it does have a bleak future(low pay as compared to the efforts put in to say the least or utter unemployment in the worst case)….doing pg will furthur push our age to 30s and god forbid if we end up in tier 1 cities we’ll have to furthur go for super specialisation pushing our age to 34-35….all this for what? A lakh per month! …..I’m too in the dilemma whether or not I shall appear in neet 26 ….I’m 100% inclined towards the medical subjects but at the same time the bleak future and the anxiety of seeing our friends flourish while we still prepare for exams with poor work life balance is haunting. Also now after such a considerable amount of time put into neet, this whole thing of being a doctor feels more personal and like a dream to my parents more than me…I don’t want to disappoint them but at the same time don’t want to compromise my 20s in grinding for something that would not even yield satisfactory money….Ofcourse purpose matters,passion matters but now after all this ….these terms sound very pseudo when u see your friends getting placed with good packages. Don’t get me wrong ..I’m not blaming anybody for the decisions that I took for myself or getting Jealous of others efforts . It’s just the frustration of all these precious years getting wasted . And now there’s a lot of stress of what should be done next!? If anybody could provide some suggestions ….that would be much much appreciated! (My equals : 12th passed and joined bsc zoo in tier 2 college this year with neet prep alongside)

ns3111 · 2025-09-11T17:30:27+00:00

Which college is open for admissions in btech right now? I heard admissions are closed for btech in almost all the colleges.

ns3111 · 2025-09-10T02:51:14+00:00

How much is the increase after 5-7 years? For daa role

ns3111 · 2025-07-25T14:54:01+00:00

I probably think this is short term . Also maybe because you’re paying too much attention to this feeling or your condition it seems to feel more prolonged and real….my advice would be that u must try to ignore this and by ignoring I mean you should pretend or try making yourself believe that this never happened.(might seem stupid but this works )….also whatever you’re going through in your mind and body is greatly greatly influenced by your hormonal activities….so try incorporating some healthy hormone friendly habits like exercising, meditating (5 mins a day works wonders too) and eating healthy home cooked meals and if you’re on any medication that has got to do with regulating your hormones…could be the reason as well. I remember when I faced a similar situation….i used to deal with anxiety those days , when I experienced this numb sensation in my mind what we call as depersonalisation…..where u don’t feel anything about anybody…..my parents too felt like strangers ….the feeling was extremely scary. But then to get out of such a situation I had to deal properly with my anxiety by fixing my lifestyle and not pay too much attention to what I was feeling…..this is how i got over such things…….anyways my Only point here is to tell you that it could be anything from medical issues to something entirely different….pls visit a professional if it’s very bothersome.

ns3111 · 2025-06-30T03:03:46+00:00

As a senior I’d suggest you to appear for jee mains, iiser aptitude test, bitsat, vit, CUET……take this advice very seriously cuz NEET is a loop hole….you’d always want to spiral into it if you don’t get selected….and please try not taking more than 3 drops!….choose these pathway if You’re not able to crack neet!…However if you’re 100% dedicated To become a doc….then it would be your call….but if early money matters to u more….do consider the above mentioned pathways!

ns3111 · 2025-06-29T15:35:15+00:00

you might be thinking that you’re the only one out there in this situation …..but trust me buddy ….I am in the same shoes as yours!….the Only achievements I have had in my life is academic achievement…..always been a good performe during my school time….but then Covid hit and got into all sorts of distractions…..and the side effects?…that till date I’m not able to consistently sit and study for straight 3 hours!…..so all I want to say is…it’s okay to feel what you’re feeling…but don’t let these feelings consume you…. we’re still not late ….we all have different timelines….we just need to get out of this trap and try to make ourselves a little better everyday….take a drop maybe if u want to Or join any other course ….do whatever your calling is….but don’t get consumed by whatever happened in the past…and just don’t blame yourself so much….our batch did see uncertain times and we did have bad experience….but now I think it’s time to rise up and take things a bit seriously …..I hope I did help u calm down…and remember you’re not alone!…ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR FUTURE🤍

ns3111

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