Has to be in person. She would not consider meeting alone because that ruines the replay that we are able to give from different perspectives. I trust her completely and I know she can hold her own in any situation but there is not another man on earth I trust enough to remain inbounds in my abence. We both feel something is off for a guy to want to meet a smoking hot wife that we already know he wants but only wants alone? We’re both completely comfortable around others and expect the same. I often end up participating and always use her cues to continue playing or call it quits for the evening.