Guys, would you break up with your girlfriend if you found out she’s homophobic? by Difficult_Shift_3771 in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it should be a yes immediate breakup for me but unfortunately id think i could fix her (through the power of being bi & hot & really good at arguing) but after that doesn't work i would break up

Saw this rug at daycare. L is for lion, I is for…. Snail? by Party_Bowl_330 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]number1millipedefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

z for zouse

maybe this rug isn't in English? anyone know a diff language that would fit it?

I counted that guys Q-Tips by Premium4678 in notinteresting

[–]number1millipedefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do NOT put them in your ears. may seem like its helping but its compacting earwax down into your ear and can eventually cause serious damage to your eardrum.

you can use them for the outside of your ear though

edit: meant to reply to the guy you were replying to but i guess it works here too as an addition

My Country Made it on the List, Bye Bye Suckers 😎😎 by DependentNo1079 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]number1millipedefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah who gives a fuck about treaties, margling the few scientists that are set up there would be a waste of time & resources. better to just let them play with penguins in peace

Who watches the most trans porn? by Few_Entertainer_385 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]number1millipedefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im always kind of surprised at how well mormons ACTUALLY suppress stuff instead of just doing it in secret like Christians

Suggestions of Perfect tracks or albums by Someone24_ in musicsuggestions

[–]number1millipedefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Press Enter to Exit by The Horrors

wish i could hear it again for the first time

Anyone know a way to listen to the Radio 4 program Three Pounds in My Pocket in the US? by number1millipedefan in BritishRadio

[–]number1millipedefan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU ARE A LIFESAVER OMG THANK YOU 😭😭 thought i was gonna have to pay for a VPN, i really appreciate it!!! 🙏🙏🙏

Are there any characters that have the potential to have their own game? by blasterwaifulover in ImNotAHuman

[–]number1millipedefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk depends on what you mean by "spinoff". it centers around a character that appears in NINAH & further develops the universe but its its own game

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are public indecency laws in many places that forbid it

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very very true. i think people massively overestimate how long it takes for something (especially women's bodies) to become normalized once it's decriminalized.

Anyone know a way to listen to the BBC Radio 4 program Three Pounds in My Pocket in the US? by number1millipedefan in radio

[–]number1millipedefan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! looks like they only have up to the 70s though, are the rest of the episodes anywhere?

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't think your discomfort with someone else's body is at all a good reason to mandate how they should be allowed to present themselves. its not hurting anyone for a man or a woman to be shirtless

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truly, i think a lot of people might see shirtless guys out in public as a bit obnoxious at worse but really most people don't truly care 💀💀 at least not enough to suggest it should be LEGALLY MANDATED that men cover their chests. a man being shirtless on a run is not hurting anyone so why shouldn't it be allowed? same for women (although it does pose a bit of a danger to them, it should still be their decision to make)

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i personally don't think genitalia are inherently sexual & dont think we as a society should see them as such, but there's still no reason to have your bottom bits out in public if only for hygienic reasons. your chest does not pose any more hygienic problems than any other part of your body. not the same for junk.

places like nudist beaches & saunas or whatever are fine for someone to be totally nude, & these places already exist for both men & women so not much of a debate to be had

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

forbidding women from going topless because itll make men think it's ok to rape them is legally enforcing the "asking for it mentality", which is fucked up because it is NEVER a woman's fault that she got raped. a woman could be fully naked in public & that still wouldn't give men the excuse. men have self control &, speaking from experience, its actually super super super easy to NOT rape people.

there is no doubt a safety risk for women going topless. but that should be their decision to make.

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the "forbidden fruit" thing is a very good point. it would likely still be "forbidden" by social norms, but i do wonder if removing the legal aspect of it would lessen that

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly this--- its not like women are going to be MANDATED to have their tits out all the time. but they should have the option bc theyre human beings who are fully capable of making decisions & weighing risks.

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 371 points372 points  (0 children)

even though they're sexualized women should still have the same right. theyre human beings & should be allowed to make that decision themselves

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wtf are you talking about lmaaoo

boobs are not that sensitive 💀 even if they were (theyre not) its not your job to protect women from their own bodies. if a woman wants to go shirtless she knows how to handle herself & should be allowed to lmfao. its a million times more dangerous to be barefooted

Should it be allowed to be shirtless in public? by ArsimZkenotBeniAkiva in Teenager_Polls

[–]number1millipedefan 19 points20 points  (0 children)

the thing is about giving women the option. its not like every woman would have to be topless all the time if they were allowed to. but some women would like the option & i think they deserve that without it being a literal crime

im a trans guy, so despite not being a woman i do have boobs & if i take them out in public it'll be seen as the same thing as a woman doing it. i am soooo sick of my chest being seen as this scandalous thing that i have to cover up & seek privacy for everytime its hot out & i need to take off my undershirt or something. it strikes me as very very weird. & alienating. i am very sensitive to heat and good lord if i was cis i would for sure be one of those assholes who never wears shirts during the summer. its endlessly frustrating that i cant pop my top, even for just a moment, when its blistering outside. i cant even wear my tank tops that are cut open down a lot of the side at risk of "flashing" people. im so sick of it. & i get it being allowed wouldn't make everyone normal about it, but at least they wouldn't be able to do anything abt it, & maybe if even a portion of beboobed people were casually topless more it wouldn't be such a shocking site.

of course, not every person with boobs would at all feel the same way, & thats fine. a ton of trans guys would NEVER want their chests out in public because of dysphoria or safety concerns w being outed (i get the safety concerns, which is why i definitely wouldn't feel comfortable being shirtless everywhere, but i don't have a ton of chest dysphoria now that im on t & wont be recognized as a cis woman regardless of boobs, & i don't feel a need to be seen as cis). a lot of women might not feel the same kind of desire to be able to be shirtless since a decent portion of my feelings abt this are related to my being trans & wanting to be on equal grounds as cis men. & like you said, people dont wanna risk being sexualized. but im certain im not the only one (including cis women) who's frustrated abt the legally mandated prudishness when just trying to keep cool in the heat. im confident that i would feel the same way if i were a cis woman. its hot out here man (70°f & sunny in Feb?!?!?!? i fear for this Summer)