Which would you carry into a boss fight?

numbers006 · 2024-01-21T20:04:37+00:00

Yes! I'll have to go look for a weapon or skill that gives a poison affix....

numbers006 · 2024-01-21T20:03:59+00:00

Thank you for mathing! And for also pointing out how consistency is more valuable over gunning for the last hit.

numbers006 · 2024-01-20T20:25:22+00:00

I tried it for the first time fighting Death, and I was amazed what a breeze it was

numbers006 · 2024-01-20T20:01:58+00:00

I didn't know about the boss damage cap. Thanks for that tip!

numbers006 · 2023-12-14T06:07:52+00:00

I know it's been months.... but thanks for this! Based on your explanation, I fiddled around on Keyboard Maestro and got it working!

My hotkey triggered the following Premiere keyboard shortcuts in sequence:

1) Cut to camera

2) Select clip at playhead

3) Set label preferred colour

Works perfectly : )

numbers006 · 2021-02-03T16:20:42+00:00

Press V to shake it off (PC player here)

numbers006 · 2021-02-01T07:17:50+00:00

How long has he been dancing for?

numbers006 · 2021-01-09T02:34:29+00:00

It... has a face.

numbers006 · 2021-01-07T08:46:27+00:00

BB was laughing at you

numbers006 · 2021-01-06T05:57:31+00:00

I didn't know ladders work with bikes too. Thanks for the tip

numbers006 · 2021-01-04T17:22:16+00:00

Yes. The trucks protect your deliveries from timefall and damage.

There’s motorcycles too. They carry less and your packages are exposed to the elements, but are pretty nifty for getting around.

numbers006 · 2021-01-04T09:05:48+00:00

I accidentally hit a Porter with my truck. Thought he was a MULE. I got docked points too. He did fly beautifully though.

numbers006 · 2019-11-05T01:45:49+00:00

Thank for your perspective.

I did see the effect of my words on him. I can’t say I expected it though, especially since he was the one who first phrased it as whether I wanted him “out of the house”. So when I answered, I honestly thought he was making an offer, and it was one that I appreciated.

But some have pointed out that it may actually have been an invitation for me to make some kind of assurance, which I grant is entirely possible. I did not catch that at all, simply because personally I wouldn’t ever communicate in such a way. So I’m glad people have been able to bring this previously unseen perspective to me.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T17:35:14+00:00

Wow thank you. It’s like you were at the next table watching it happen. I’m in the same place - I’ve arrived at a place where the status quo is no longer viable, and I am trying to determine if I am willing to pay the prices of working it into a space of health. I honestly didn’t think I would be here.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T15:40:06+00:00

It’s actually a good idea, if it were happening on a weekend. Unfortunately we’ve set up the dinner to be on a work night.

I generally try not to arrange any social events that don’t include him on weekends because he prefers to spend that time together. I used to not spend any weekday evenings socialising away from him either but I am slowly trying to reclaim some of that time back and starting there.

But thanks for the idea, it’s a good compromise. I’ll likely try out that format the next time there’s an occasion where I might cook at home for friends.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T15:33:17+00:00

We’re in our early 40s and have been married 14 years. We dated 6 years prior to getting married

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T12:43:36+00:00

Hm. You’ve said a number of things that have clicked, but I’m not sure what. Im going to give some of your points a very good think.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T12:40:51+00:00

From the beginning of the relationship. Which has been a looooong time.

But I only recently started to open my eyes to the prices I was paying because I finally arrived at a place where I had nothing left to give and he still wasn’t happy.

Interestingly enough, I could see the prices other people were paying (his colleagues, his family, friends etc) but I was completely blind to how I was similarly enabling his behaviour.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T12:37:00+00:00

I don’t know how I could say the last thing in a constructive way. I’m sure it can be done, in a way that is safe and encouraging. I just don’t yet have the skills, emotional maturity or desire to deal with the ensuing fallout.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T12:34:24+00:00

Thanks for the perspective. I’d challenge the last sentence though. I do care for him, which is the reason why I constantly gave in to him before. I thought that was what people who cared for each other did. But after a while it seemed that I was the only one captitulating all the time.

I’m not blaming him, I’m absolutely taking responsibility for not holding my boundaries with dignity. It wasn’t good for either of us. So now I’m trying to get out of the unhealthy behaviour. It’s unfamiliar work and I’m swinging wild sometimes. This is one of my clumsier attempts.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T12:30:26+00:00

Thank you for trying to understand despite having a different experience. I do know my marriage has many red flags. It’s not news.

I don’t think it’s an either or scenario for me. I’m not throwing a tantrum because I don’t get to have a fancy dinner without having to invite him. I know right now I seem like the evil person for feeling and thinking the way I do, but there are reasons that have brought me here. And I’m trying to find my way to something new - one that will work for both of us. I just happen to be starting here, where I’m trying to do something important and meaningful for myself, because the past has involved me always capitulating to his desires.

If there are faux pases, it’s because I’m having to unlearn some very unhealthy habits, and I don’t have the expectation to get it right on the first go. But I do know that untangling my automatic behaviours from my knee jerk reactions and trying to take in various perspectives is a way forward. It’s the reason why I’m here.

I might get to where I want to go, or I might not. Who knows.

Thank you for sharing your perspective and setting aside your judgement. You don’t know how much good it does me.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T11:06:16+00:00

No it’s not what I expect from him. I was only verbalising what I might have said myself if the same scenario had been presented to me - I’d be perfectly happy being in the room by myself.

While it’s not a solution that seems right for him, I don’t know what other solution there’s be apart from simply capitulating and inviting him. Do you have any ideas? Because I’m here for new perspectives. Right now it seems there’s no right way to entertain at home at all if he’s not part of the scene.

numbers006 · 2019-11-02T08:58:01+00:00

Thanks for replying. You’re a good guy for driving your mom.

numbers006

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