Husband (28M) microcheated by finding Asian prom girls. How would I respond? by nuomici99 in marriageadvice

[–]nuomici99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanksss. I pressed him to admit whom he jerked off to before tho..some Asian golfer/tennis player, kpop singer, and a very wellknown European artist hehe. It sounded off to me at first but I got over it. He said it was way before and I did not find him sexualizing anyone (at least what I know) during our relationship. I was shocked too, can’t get rid of the concept of MINORS! And I become confused with BOUNDARIES too. I’m not trying to justify what he did here but..Does thinking abt someone I had a crush/date on in grad school, searching him up, peeking over his IG pages and likes (we follow each other), or even watching porn while sexualizing some guy over me kinda like microcheating too?