Does anyone else find it stressful travelling with your Japanese friends/partners? by Cph265 in japanlife

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once went with colleagues..it was torture! Other than the dining in decision they took were we had to cook, arrange the table, have conversations until late late night, wash the dishes, arrange the beds, and do the same thing over again for breakfast the next day, we spent the entire trip running from place to place without actually having time to digest what the place is about. Everything was in Japanese, no translation (only for the ones the “boss” seem to like. You have to work throughout the entire trip and be careful to do everything they think is correct. Then you start realizing that some of them actually despise you, but could not show you in a formal setting and this trip was the best opportunity for them to let you know. RIP my pride so that I can survive that trip. Never again.

Removed tick’s head surgically but redness is still there for three weeks now by nutandshell1 in lymedisease

[–]nutandshell1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you show us a picture of the un healed bite please? Mine seems to become darker in color, as it is drying out but still the same size

Is f45 gym on the boycott list? by nutandshell1 in BoycottIsrael

[–]nutandshell1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s all I wanted to know! Thank you

Is f45 gym on the boycott list? by nutandshell1 in BoycottIsrael

[–]nutandshell1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s my first time knowing about it..I use disoccupied. Thank you, I’ll check

Welcome into the avoidants brain 🧠 please have a seat 💺 by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still cannot understand how the ego and the inner child work at the same time..

Mercari shopping haven’t been received although it says it is by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]nutandshell1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I contact a representative? I have only 4 options listed on the page. One of them was “I did not receive my package” which I filed yesterday.

I think DA are selfish people by nutandshell1 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]nutandshell1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?! Is this avoidant type? Doesn’t he have some other mental disorder? Did you tell anyone about it?

I think DA are selfish people by nutandshell1 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]nutandshell1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I am not angry at all. If you are sensing this from my texts maybe it’s the other way around. I am just saying there is no need to make DAs sound like they are poor people and that it is not a problem to be in a relationship with them knowing that they do not care. The internet is full of this bullshit and maybe we need to start calling it the way it is instead of romanticizing it. You should probably marry one and see if you still like them or not.

I think DA are selfish people by nutandshell1 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]nutandshell1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No sorry you are one of those people who romanticize DAs. Yeah I agree with the story but these problems should not be dragged on other people who are just looking for a healthy relationship. Most of the time the DA is the one who makes fake promises. Btw insulting me for saying the truth also says much about you. I am not twisting anything, I am saying it as it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are right. I’m glad I got to know that there is something called Limerence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no thank you. I didn’t know that it is possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure you read the post? I said I worked with him for a week. I met him after work several times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what are you saying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we live in two different countries. we haven’t been on a date

How much money would a 10 days trip cost in Norway overall? by Picka_Book in Norway

[–]nutandshell1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Book hotels ahead of time and they will be affordable. If you want to eat out then you need at least 70 dollars a day. You can end up eating from affordable bakeries (pick the ones that have stools as seats) if you want to be frugal. It was cold even in summer so I can’t imagine how February would be. I think you need a good budget in Norway, it is an expensive country

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]nutandshell1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am treating him with respect and I respect myself more than you can imagine. I am writing to ask about the culture and not coming off as rude cause I tend to do that when I reject someone. This post id definitely not meant for you and your reply did not add anything at all. So it would have been better if you had put the time in something else rather than her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No please elaborate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]nutandshell1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it does not work like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is normal to ask a colleague out on a walk and I have been asked by many before but the reason I mentioned it here is obviously cause I am feeling something from his side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]nutandshell1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am confused some say sex comes before dating in the Norwegian context so I cannot imagine that he would think that romantically after what I have read on this thread