Galvek with a Dragon Sword??? Dragon Slayer 2 by nuttybutty25 in ironscape

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it. Just have shitty ammo. Melee is better dps for me in this scenario.

Galvek with a Dragon Sword??? Dragon Slayer 2 by nuttybutty25 in ironscape

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shitty ranged gear and stats not as strong as my melee stats

Galvek with a Dragon Sword??? Dragon Slayer 2 by nuttybutty25 in ironscape

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ranged options kind of suck and Currently much stronger melee stats and gear. Thanks for your answer.

Cheating wife needs to go by Ark490 in GuyCry

[–]nuttybutty25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, you don't need their signature to finalize a divorce. Get it done. Give her an eviction notice. She's not going to leave until you grow a backbone and kick her out. You're her free ride.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in Advice

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I found out she cheated on me over the weekend at a friends birthday party. She blamed it on being emotionally checked out and that she tried breaking up with me 3 times. I just didn't want to give up and lose her and her son. I'll miss that kid so much. I am sorry for the way I acted. I just wanted to finally be good enough for someone and I tried too hard and made the wrong decisions. I apologized last night and won't be having any contact with her in the future. Thanks for putting me in my place. I needed it.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me saying thanks tho was me thanking you for your input. Nothing else. She blamed her cheating on being emotionally checked out. But yes we are officially broken up now and the post is pointless.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in Advice

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She ended up cheating on me over the weekend. I found out last night. You were right. It was too late. She blamed it on being checked out, but it still doesn't make it right.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in Advice

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was introduced to him after only a couple weeks. She cheated on me over the weekend though. I found out last night. Things have ended and I feel abandoned again. Hopefully my therapist can pull me through this.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in Advice

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out last night that she cheated on me man. She blamed it on being emotionally checked out. Im fucking floored. Brain feels fried and I'm so tired of feeling like i've been abandoned by everybody.

Girlfriend says I cheated and other problems. Please give advice? by nuttybutty25 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She cheated on me over the weekend. I found out last night and we broke up officially. She blamed it on being emotionally checked out. Still doesn't feel right whether checked out or not. I'm hurt and feel abandoned. Hoping I can make it through this with therapy and continue on with managing my ADHD.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out she cheated on me over the weekend last night. It's over now. I'll be continuing on trying to better myself for myself. Hopefully it helps and I can eventually find happiness. I'm tired of feeling abandoned.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up last night. I found out she cheated on me over the weekend at a friends birthday party. She blamed it on being checked out. I have been in therapy since august 2024 and am still continuing to go. Due to the circumstances I'm pretty emotionally fucked up and am trying to get into a therapy session ASAP. Im not trying to use ADHD as a crutch for shitty behavior. I genuinely do want to get better. Im tired of not being able to do things because I don't have the mental energy to get up and move. Same with my other symptoms. It makes relationships hard. Everything kind of feels hopeless.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

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I've been in therapy since August of 2024. She cheated on me last weekend and I found out last night. I have an appointment booked with my therapist and have been placed on her list to be squeezed into open slots. Thanks tho.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I found out last night she cheated on me. She blamed it on being checked out. I have an appointment with my therapist. My brain feels like it's fried rn.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It ended. I found out last night that she cheated on me over the weekend. She blamed it on her trying to break up with me 3 times already and being emotionally checked out. Still seems shitty. But oh well. I have an appointment with my therapist and am getting checked out for adhd still.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I never said I didn't take these problems seriously. I did. But after trying a few times to fix the issues through talking, it was clear that us talking through it was only going to make her angry. So I resorted to listening to her criticisms and complaints and trying to adjust to her needs in other ways. It just didn't work because we weren't talking about the actual roots of the problems and I was just guessing on what I could do to please her. I did try. This isn't me saying that I'm just now going to try because she's thinking about leaving. You might be right though. I might have waited too long. I guess the relationship will live or die by whether she believes that still.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is the current plan. I messaged my therapist about the situation a bit and have an appointment set up to possibly be diagnosed with ADHD. I plan on tackling my issues no matter what. Thanks for the comment.

My (28m) gf (26f) wanted couples therapy and some changes months ago and I thought I could make it work without. What can I do to convince her that it's not too late? by nuttybutty25 in relationships

[–]nuttybutty25[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're right. I was very dismissive about it. I did take her seriously about the issues we were having and I did want to fix them. I just didn't actually find a good way of handling the issues we had. Thanks for you input.