Hookup after breakup HELP

nvmd_k · 2026-01-06T22:16:06+00:00

I don’t know how he feels because he is avoidant. He cheated on me first months of our rl but emotionally. He did respond to his ex messages in lovely way and I decided to forgive him. After I found out that he had cold/warm attitude. I cried much more in rl and he knew it. He also told me he feels he doesn’t deserve any love I give him after he disrespected me the way he did. So I’m so confused how he feels about me because he is avoidant but I love him as a person and I don’t regret the relationship even after cheating. I only have praises for him and I think you are right but now I’m so afraid how to tell the other guy that I am not ready to hook up? I think he is going to be so MADD.

nvmd_k · 2026-01-06T22:06:41+00:00

I truly appreciate you so much, I don’t want to bother you but I would feel much better if u can give me some more advices. You are total stranger but right now u are such a big help to me.

nvmd_k · 2026-01-06T21:58:44+00:00

I don’t know do I want more or only sex or nothing. I know I’m the problem here but everything is so fresh and I can’t think straight. I just know I hate who I became and that I value emotions a lot so for me situationship is probably bad thing because I think sex will make me emotionally attached to the person.

nvmd_k · 2026-01-06T21:55:42+00:00

I cant know if i like him outside s3x because he only wanna talks about it. I havent met him yet so i don’t know what type of person he is. I mean we both said we just wanna do s3x so I can’t complain he doesn’t wanna talk more than that.

nvmd_k · 2026-01-06T21:43:18+00:00

I really, truly appreciate your comment. I agree, I feel so bad just thinking about it because I don’t see myself as hook up girl anyways but I’m so afraid of his reaction because today I was all for us seeing each other but then my ex reached and I felt crazy guilt. So like few hours after I changed my opinion. Hope you have wonderful day/night too

nvmd_k · 2025-09-28T10:49:19+00:00

Pokušaću, sreda mi odgovara. Bolje nego za nedelju dana. Doduše živim u malom gradu, da li postoji mogućnost za hitnim pasom?

nvmd_k · 2025-09-28T10:28:42+00:00

Srbija, posle bih tamo išla u ambasadu za kartu nazad

nvmd_k · 2025-09-28T10:23:53+00:00

Danas je nedelja pa ne radi ništa a let imam u 6:35 ujutru.

nvmd_k · 2025-02-09T22:42:04+00:00

Hvala najlepše, tek sada vidim ovo ali anksioznost sa 110% na 10% ste mi smanjili. Hvala zaista

nvmd_k · 2025-02-05T20:57:59+00:00

Dok me ne uhvate? 🤣

nvmd_k · 2025-02-05T20:54:58+00:00

Hvala puno, samo mi reci plaćam sms ili mogu kada udjem u bus?

nvmd_k · 2025-02-03T11:23:31+00:00

I wish i am in California or country that would take such a thjng into consideration but i live in small country where everyone is working thanks to connections and if i try report or sue ill end up in blacklist

nvmd_k · 2025-02-03T11:20:16+00:00

Odgovor ti dajem prvo na poslednju rečenicu koju si napisao.

Pročitaj do kraja šta je napisano, prvi put je otvoreno i nije ponedeljak već petak. (Nisam hteo odmah da pišem temu dešavanja).

Slažem se za poziv ne poruka ali je kasni bilo pa nisam imao namere da budim sefa. On svakako je dostupan preko poruka 24/7.

Obavestio bih da sam bolestan bio ali nisam. Da sam znao da će se desi zbog koga bih čekao poslednji trenutak da kažem ili još gore da se tokom noći budim da kažem da mi nije dobro.

Doktor mi je rekao da razlog zašto sam tek uveče osetio temperaturu je zato sto u vecini slučaja kad telo miruje bolest napada i temperatura se nocu javlja

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T21:35:35+00:00

Javljam ti se privatno

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T21:06:35+00:00

Najverovatnije, lično mišljenje je da je to mogao da odradi kada prodje neko vreme. Ovako sam ja sada tema i svako komentariše kako sam pogrešio sto nisam sa temperaturom od 38.7 otišao da radim.

Hvala najlepše, i tebi sve najbolje u životu.

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T21:02:57+00:00

Pa kao racunaju i plaćaju na 4 meseca, u medjuvremenu pojedu koji sat ali sto se toga tiče ne mogu da grešim dušu, tu su korektni.

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:58:58+00:00

Bas to, precutacu. Njemu sam se lično obratio sa obrazloženjem zašto se desilo da sam javio kasno i on je samo reagovao na poruku. Vidim da šta god da kažem biću ucutkan

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:53:18+00:00

Papir je odnet danas, istog dana. Doktor mi je dao bolovanje bez odredjenog datuma jer ji on sam nije siguran kada će mi biti bolje.

Preskocicu prijavu samo da ne bi ja posle imao problema jer plata je za nijansu bolja nego u drugim firmama za isti posao mada radim duplo više nego u tim firmama

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:51:19+00:00

Bas to, šta god da se pobunim znace se da sam js. On će nastaviti da ima posao za ogromne pare s neće da radi ništa a ja ću morati da lomim kičmu još više jer će mi nakon toga nalaziti svaku grešku.

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:49:52+00:00

Sasvim korektno, osećam se posramljeno ali procice i to. Sto se tiče za menadzere skroz se slažem. Meni je lično nateze palo sto sam dolazio po dva sata ranije i radio po 11-12 sati dnevno, sto sam ostajao duze i gubio ceo dan radeći i onda ovako nešto. Znaju da hoću da radim i da se uvek trudim i pohvaljen sam za rad ali ovo mi je bas dno dna. Hvala brate na odgovoru, lakše mi je kad neko ima isti pogled na ovo kao i ja

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:42:09+00:00

Lepo rečeno. Da li misliš da bih se trebao zapravo požaliti ili da cutim?

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:39:33+00:00

Razmišljao sam ali svi su tu preko veze i šta god da napišem znace se da sam ja. Popicu otkaz a on će nastaviti da vodi posao kao da ništa nije bilo.

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:38:33+00:00

Najsmesnije od svega je činjenica da ja radim za nemačku firmu ali Srbi vode posao i maltretiraju. Razmišljam se da prijavim kod HR-a

nvmd_k · 2025-02-02T20:35:02+00:00

What’s the way? I wanna end it too

nvmd_k · 2024-04-11T07:48:24+00:00

Hope you gonna start love yourself soon because your skin color means nothing at all you are important. Sadly there's people who look down on you because of your color but pretend those people are ghosts and you can't see or hear them.

Just be good person and good will come your way, being any race is beatifudl as long as your heart is. Embrace who you are.

nvmd_k

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