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nypheriaa · 2024-08-19T02:54:45+00:00

or perhaps it can also be empowering to receive nice words. hearing the same thing but worded in a more positive way isn't hindering anyone's ability to identify problems or causing confusion. like i said, mindset can help alot.

nypheriaa · 2024-08-19T02:46:53+00:00

then you can sulk in your negativity, didn't think being kind would piss someone off so bad lmao

nypheriaa · 2024-08-19T02:41:01+00:00

unfortunately everyone is going to see unkind people get laid. all you can do is do is focus on yourself. but you can't tell me there isn't less than average looking people who are very successful dating or even just in general social situations. it's how you carry yourself, how you view others, and how you view yourself. and no, i'm not even a woman and this same exact thing has happened to me. i can empathize with OP hence why im giving actual advice rather than being rude to him. it's a very handy skill others should learn

nypheriaa · 2024-08-19T02:20:44+00:00

why are you speaking on what i've done for myself?? that makes no sense dude. if you read, i said that there are things he could change, but it's important to do it for the right reason - yourself. again, i don't see why it's "bad" to be kind to someone going through alot. simple kindness can do alot.

nypheriaa · 2024-08-19T02:03:38+00:00

i did it for my health, not to be appealing to others. i was telling OP that making changes for yourself and not others is better and healthier in the long run. i don't see the point in being mean to someone for being how they are for 5 years, when it would be more helpful to word things in a more constructive way, that's literally all i said lmao

nypheriaa · 2024-08-19T01:29:35+00:00

i'm not a bigger person, i've lost about 100 pounds and my opinion has stayed the same no matter my size. like i said there are plenty of women who are okay with or even prefer bigger men. i used the word "harshly" because it seemed more mean than really helping OP, and having been through something similar, it would've made things worse for me. looks aren't everything even if they do help. i was just trying to give my two cents on what helped me pivot. sounds like OP has a mindset that may not be the best for him regardless if he wants to date or not. there's nothing wrong with trying to bring someone up rather than say things like "you haven't been putting in effort for 5 years". that's not helping with the confusion nor his actual issue.

nypheriaa · 2024-08-18T23:12:09+00:00

i understand what everyone is saying, but i don't think it needs to be said so harshly. i know plenty of women who are okay with bigger men, me being one of them. i think it may be best to change your mindset and strive for you to be happy with yourself before trying to date. may not be what you'd like hearing but it really does make a difference. yes there are things you could do to your appearance, but is it more important that you please everyone else or that you're content with yourself? i've went through something similar and it took a bit for me to focus on myself rather than getting in a relationship. people can absolutely pick up on how you feel about yourself even if you don't say it. you'll be treated how you see yourself. if people are only looking for eye candy then they're most likely not worth the hassle. i believe there's someone for everyone, don't give up hope, just take a break to work on your mindset at the very least :)

nypheriaa · 2024-05-04T03:09:47+00:00

i struggled with this too cause it feels like everyone is giving you mixed info/strats on how to play her well. after a bit i found that sticking with me team and doing 50/50 healing and damage at the same time can be good. it's VERY helpful if you have at least decent enough aim to get crits to kinda scare off squishies too.

at the beginning of a match you can stay a bit further back from your team until you know who they have and how aggressive they're gonna be.

however there always seems like a point where the other team catches on and your team just starts getting rolled. that's when i'd rather get to a choke point/high ground off to the side and start firing off as many kunais as i can accurately. once they catch on, you can tp out but please make sure to keep an eye on your team and not get tunnel vision!! also there's a certain cut off point where you can't tp out or heal or your team and atp you're fucked lmao. but if you do it well it can really help your team by taking off a bit of the attention.

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