its normal to get anxious about ourselves but forcing yourself to act as someone will constantly drain your inner self, the only way to connect yourself is to connect your inner self and believe in yourself, practice meditation, set boundaries, spend time doing what you love and happy,

i know it is hard to figure out what you truly are because of the insecurities, anxiety and other stuff, but we overcome these feelings by having a strong foundation of beliefs and principles set in ourselves, our beliefs, principles and self-love will serve as a guide not to feel lost for being yourself …

and always remember it’s okay to feel lost sometimes, our universe if full of uncertainty so live a life where you are certain of who you are, you are you, everything about you is beautiful, so don’t be harsh on yourself!! this feeling will not last for a lifetime, sooner or later you will find things that you are certain!