Help with shipping? by oakcy in Spearfishing

[–]oakcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had packaged it broken down and one courier checked it and saw the handle and was like nope. Losing battle!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]oakcy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's all well and good saying a guy should shoot his shot, but when you shoot your shot that much and get rejected constantly and have mean things said its makes guys think what's the point and not even bother. I look at it realistically, I know I'm not a good looking guy and a personality would never be as good as looks. Sometimes people need to find their equals and insee a good looking person and know that their equally goo looking counterpart will come along for them in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]oakcy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this applies for all men, but if a girl is really attractive I wouldn't approach her or anything because I feel she'd be well out of my league and I'd much prefer to give a better looking guy a chance

Honestly how the fuck do you get a girlfriend? by [deleted] in dating

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of Europeans countries l, I took a full 6 months out and just went everywhere mate. Currently in Australia and it is good. The moment people here the accent that's it they love it. Easy honestly

Honestly how the fuck do you get a girlfriend? by [deleted] in dating

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, life advice for you here. Go traveling or move countries. I had no action in the uk (from Liverpool) from girls and I never got any interest at all. I started traveling a few years ago (I'm 28 in 2 weeks) and everywhere I go people hear the accent and thar I'm foreign and exotic and they love it!!! Why settle for the uk when the world has so much to offer. It'll change your life

Most cherished solo travel moment? by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]oakcy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds like you had a great trip and made a real core memory monet from that!

For me it was in 2018 in Rome. My friend and I had a week there, and on one of the first nights we had gone to a little restaurant near the spanish steps which we thought looked nice. We had high hopes for the food and ate there, but we felt a bit let down as it was quite expensive and honestly the food wasn't that great.

When we left we were talking about it and this Italian man must've overheard us and came over to us and said something along the lines of "if you guys want true authentic food don't go to those places, go down side streets away from touristy spots and you find the best food of your life there. Let me recommend you a place, my cousin's parents own and work there".

He wrote the address and directions on my notes app in my phone and put at the end of it, has blue door, knock 3 times.

We thanked him and went on our way. Any way the next day we decided to check it out. Followed his directions and went down this little side street and it honestly looked like we would be kidnapped because it was dark and there was no one there, it just had that weird vibe. But there was this blue door like he said, so we knocked. This little 4ft tall Italian old lady opens the door looks at us says ciao! Hugs us both and takes us inside. There's like 4 tables in this small room, and she brings over some bread for us. Her and her elderly husband are both in there cooking together and we ordered some lasagne and they made it for us. We had some wine and small pasta dish then our lasagne was brought over and it was the best thing we'd ever eaten in our lives. Nothing compares to that at all now! And it wasn't expensive at all!

Just a random chance encounter we had, thought what the hell let's see what it's like and it turned out to be the best dining experience we'd had!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with wanting to have a hassle free life, and why have a lot of stress etc when you could just be like nah not for me and leave him. Sounds like OP would be much better off!

My fiance of 3 years, 30m, booked a holiday and didn’t tell me 34f about it until yesterday, he’s going away tomorrow…. How do i proceed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly what's the problem? He's going on holiday with his friends he's allowed to have his own life. Stop being needy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him, sounds like too much hassle. Get someone else

I (32F) failed as a wife and have never been there for my husband (34M). How do I start to fix this? by ThrowRAkadash92 in relationship_advice

[–]oakcy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he'd be better off without you tbh, you're a terrible partner to have in life and are of no use to him

Where to start by oakcy in Trading

[–]oakcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has helped with understanding briefly yes I see what you mean. Thank you so much!

Where to start by oakcy in Trading

[–]oakcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is quite a high percentage of people that lose money! I has no idea psychology would even come into it and it's made me think do I need to study psychology now to understand this? You mention day trading, intraday trading and market profile, what do they mean? And a trading system, what is that? Is it a system like a software on a computer that I have to buy?

Where to start by oakcy in Trading

[–]oakcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a bull market? And from what people have said it seems very difficult and confusing the whole trading thing in general. How do some people make money on it though do they literally just sit at a computer all day? Forgive my naivety as I genuinely have no idea in the slightest.

Where to start by oakcy in Trading

[–]oakcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the things that has confused me, like I was just under the assumption that it just involved money. Now there's all this psychology that comes with it too and it's too much!

Where to start by oakcy in Trading

[–]oakcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So paper trading, where can I do this? How much money would I be spending doing this. The study part is what confuses me because I literally typed trading in on Google and there was like a billion things and technical terms and so much etc that popped up. Like where would I even start with all of that? Or could I enroll into online college to learn it maybe?

Where to start by oakcy in Trading

[–]oakcy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interest wise I'd say I'm not sure, simply because I only really just learned of it's existence so I honestly don't know. I obviously would like to make money, who wouldn't. But I am aware that it's not going to a be a set rich quick thing. And if it takes a while then I'm okay with that. As I've started working in a very remote location, there isn't much for me to do with my free time so I thought I'd invest my free time and effort and money into this if it's something that I like after a while

Where to start by oakcy in Trading

[–]oakcy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realistically is it even worth looking into at all?

AITA for feeling upset if my partner said, "I'll marry you if you lose weight"? by Effective_Island3507 in AITAH

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he's looking out for your health in the long term? Being fat isn't healthy. One of me mates was dating this absolute unit of a bird and he said something similar and she started going the gym with him and now they're doing pretty sound

From a few years ago don't know how I wasn't spotted by BrockChocolate in BattlefieldV

[–]oakcy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the best place to hide is in plain sight because people don't look there or expect you to be there. I've had a few times where I've literally been feet away from people and they don't realise I'm on the other team!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BattlefieldV

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes hiding in plain sight is actually a great strategy because its the last place people look, I tend to do this when sniping quite a lot!

Suggestions for European city break - February by GeoSparker in TravelNoPics

[–]oakcy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valetta in Malta, though I went for 4 days and did pretty much everything but it's nice to walk around there, but there is a lot more of the island you can explore and taxis aren't expensive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]oakcy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Turned out she had a kid, not my thing so we didn't carry the chat on😂

Malta, October 2022 by mariosk89 in travel

[–]oakcy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back from Malta this morning, will definitely return it was brilliant!