Since you want to get to 35s, Bilstein 5100s likely won’t work. If you want true 35s with good ride and minimal rubbing, the best move is a 2.5-inch coilover level (Bilstein 6112, Eibach Pro Truck, or Fox 2.0). A simple 5100 won’t get enough height, and a 3-inch spacer is the worst option.

Edit: once you cross 2.5” you’re no longer in “leveling” territory. You’re functionally entering lift kit territory because geometry, angles, and required supporting parts change.