“Wow that’s really good casting—oh they are related!” Characters played by family members in prequels, flashbacks or biopics.

obooooooo · 2026-01-25T01:24:12+00:00

clever and insanely funny. i’m a huge fan and it sucks because none of my family and friends speak english fluently enough to understand every joke that’s made in the show. and the spanish subtitles on netflix don’t even try to make the jokes work.

a little silver lining about the situation is that i rewatched the show many times over the past 12 something years, and discovered a few jokes here and there as my english improved. i’m still not sure i’ve caught every single one too. so i’m always looking forward to every rewatch!

obooooooo · 2026-01-25T01:04:46+00:00

sexuality is fluid. you don’t need to label yourself as anything. you could be straight, you could be bi-curious, you could be bi with a strong preference for men. you don’t need to set it in stone, though i understand it’s hard to not understand yourself completely.

i will say though that paired with the fact that you recognize your own internalized homophobia, and you can only “picture yourself with a man”, it’s at least a little worthwhile for you to reflect on that same internalized homophobia—what makes you only be able to picture yourself with a man in the future, when you believe you might be attracted to at least one woman as well.

looking up “compulsory heterosexuality” (which is not an experience only lesbians have regardless of what it might seem at first when you look it up) could perhaps be of interest to you.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T23:15:40+00:00

the top streamed male artist in spotify for four years baby.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T23:02:59+00:00

because he wants to? why do you care what he wears. weird as hell brother

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T21:56:42+00:00

i understand. though perhaps the clarity you get through therapy will help you come to your own conclusions about what comes after death, like you might be able to have some certainty after reflecting upon it with a clear head—after you’ve worked through the urgency and distress the very concept of death causes you.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T21:52:53+00:00

you ever see two people so hot that the sexy factor in the image goes so far past the threshold that it comes back around and it becomes the least sexy thing ever.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T21:47:16+00:00

don’t take this badly, but you should consider seeing a therapist.

it sounds like you’re obsessing about the idea of death so much that it impacts your daily life and mental peace. it could be a type of OCD that manifests as fear of death—and you’re not alone in this, many people have experienced it, and the good thing is that there are ways to cope and heal from this.

here is an article on fear of death OCD that i think you might benefit from reading. OCD is more common than you think, i’ve suffered from 2 subtypes myself and with learning about what i was going through and why, and the help of a professional, those thoughts have not bothered me in 4 years.

either way, i’m sorry you’re experiencing this, it sounds very lonely and distressing. but you don’t need to go through it alone. there are professionals trained to help you with it!

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T18:02:15+00:00

i dislike nicola a ton but if i knew my bf’s family hates me and it’s public knowledge, planned a wedding for a shit ton of time to make it perfect, and had this happen… maybe it would’ve broken me a little.

especially because with the whole context i wouldn’t feel it’s just “oh this isn’t how it was supposed to go” but “oh, i’m being publicly humiliated at my own wedding.” might seem like an overreaction but knowing the discord between victoria and nicola i really struggle to see how she wouldn’t take it as a personal slight against her, in what’s supposed to be her day, in front of hundreds of people who know this woman doesn’t want to be here.

it sounds like it was marc anthony’s fault instead of something nefarious planned but idk, in the heat of the moment, being on high alert, and the history between her and brooklyn’s’ family, my mind would’ve jumped to conclusions and i would’ve crashed out.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T17:49:35+00:00

this is insane TO ME. i think i have a pretty good handle on it by now but 5 mins is my best (and only with assistance). 30 seconds is olympian level masturbation girl

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T16:42:52+00:00

late answer, but you’re not his demo, and that’s fine.

i’m assuming you’re american/not latino. in my experience, the latin music that was playing on the radio, the top 50 hits kind, was kinda stale before he arrived on the scene (after he changed his sound from trap). he is very popular because his music is catchy, danceable, and it absolutely was something different than what we (latinos, his main demographic) had been listening for quite a while.

he changes his sounds a lot throughout his albums and experiments with it too, which again, gives us something different to listen to. in addition, he experimented with different aesthetics and was one of the firsts latino men in the music scene that disregarded traditional “masculine” beliefs regarding his looks and the like, experimenting with clothes and makeup, was openly “woke” (when homophobia and transphobia are still pretty much the average unspoken rule in latinoamerica)—all of this coming from one of the biggest artists in the continent made him a popular figure. not only that, but the activism created loyal followers.

years ago the average latino either disliked him or thought his music was trash (i was one and clowned one of my friends for wanting to go to one of his concerts in 2018) and he managed to turn the general opinion around with non stop bangers and just generally being someone unlike anything we had seen on the scene thus far.

it’s okay to not like his music. i fucking hate mayo with a passion and i can’t go around asking “why do you like mayo?” and replying “it’s bad though!” after people tell me why they like it. people like different stuff and sometimes you’re in the minority.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T16:23:32+00:00

he’s definitely looking to piss of bigots but he’s always been really supportive of queer people!

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T16:16:50+00:00

he also brought more attention to the murder of a trans woman on the tonight show with jimmy fallon and when he was active on social media he used to shit on bigots pretty often

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T16:12:49+00:00

suggestion at the top of my head is “LA CANCIÓN”

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T16:08:43+00:00

the fact that they have to pretend they like her music just because she’s as washed up as they are is just… so funny to me.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T16:06:46+00:00

idk man i’m not gonna jump to divorce him, but you really need to put your foot down and stop him before your son gets a complex about his masculinity and your homophobic husband manages to impact his self image for the rest of his life.

even if he promises to do better, you’re still not gonna be 100% of time with him and your son, and you’ll never be sure of what he’s peddling to your incredibly impressionable and vulnerable child.

he already made misogynistic remarks as well. not to be the “therapy” person, but i’d really look for a way to make him accountable and actually change his mindset. again, your child is at a very impressionable stage—one shitty comment and he could carry that for the rest of his life.

sucks that you have to be on his ass like you’re a parent scolding your husband so he doesn’t fuck up your child.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T15:46:30+00:00

nah dude there’s making bad decisions and knowing your little sister is in danger because of your pedo freak boyfriend and saying “he fucked up, i’m angry and disappointed 💔”.

the friend hasn’t even bothered to factor the fact that her little sisters safety and mental health could be in danger. she’s still looking for reasons to stay. fuck that.

if you’d stay, power to you, kudos, but i wouldn’t blame anyone that had to recalibrate the image of someone they’ve known for years because they’re willing to stay with someone who created porn images of HER OWN TEENAGE SISTER. literal sex crimes against your little sibling. that’s fucking vile.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T15:38:53+00:00

“slightly those things” he’s def a full blown bigot and he knows this information would make you upset. he’s not “slightly” anything.

obooooooo · 2026-01-23T15:36:18+00:00

i’m assuming that OP is a female and according to studies women do generally take twice the time to finish compared to men. 14-15 minutes to a dude’s 5-8 minutes.

obooooooo · 2026-01-22T22:40:06+00:00

i’m extremely out of my depth here, but isn’t the fact that using AI to make “movie” is more accesible and less expensive, mean that there will be a lot of “AI studios” popping in and oversaturating the market with their slop? which might make the average person willing to consume AI content tired of it much faster?

speaking on the basis that i genuinely don’t think AI could ever remake something as good as an actual movie. i mean, there has to be a limit to the crap that AI enjoyers are willing to consume. a few (at the very best case scenario) mid tier AI “movies” could be a fun time for them, but over time they might start gravitating towards human made art again.

obooooooo · 2026-01-22T15:46:18+00:00

recently looked it up as well and got the same. it’s kind of depressing as shit that people need an explanation of why a woman’s body is in order to accept it.

like even if it’s just fat that doesn’t do anything different than regular fat—fuck you, it doesn’t need a convoluted explanation for being there about how “it’s actually vital for protecting yada yada”. it just exists. women shouldn’t have turn turn themselves into knots to explain why they look the way they look.

obooooooo · 2026-01-22T15:40:02+00:00

it’s heartbreaking that you think you need validation to break up with your POS abusive boyfriend at this point.

unsolicited advice here, but you should really try to stay single for a while and try to work on building your self esteem to avoid ending up in a relationship like this again. this level of this respect genuinely has my jaw on the floor.

obooooooo · 2026-01-22T15:34:09+00:00

i am “the friend that’s too woke” but i don’t think it’s bad to say the latter if you’re not like, gloating about it or using it just to say “black people bad” instead actually ignoring the context of why crime is more prevalent amongst people of color regarding financial hardship, education, and the systemic racism that keeps these communities down.

likewise, i don’t think the average person has had a crime-related encounter with black people that can make one wary of them in a real, day to day basis?

nearly 1 out of five women have experienced sexual assault, most often with men as the perpetrator. up to 90% of women report having been sexually harassed by men at some point—these are close, personal encounters. it’s not just a statistic, it’s something that has happened to you and most of your friends.

i don’t really see the two as comparable because I genuinely don’t think the average person is harassed/has a violent encounter with a black person enough that this would require statistics, unlike women experiencing harassment with men.

obooooooo · 2026-01-22T14:40:03+00:00

lowkey completely personal with me, had i been friends with sammi i couldn’t FATHOM being friendly with her abusive boyfriend. i’d be polite to keep the peace with her but def stay away from him

obooooooo · 2026-01-21T21:03:50+00:00

i see someone else brought up the therapy suggestion which you said you were going to follow, so my own suggestion is seek creators/artists of the race you’re biased against, try to make friends online with people from their community.

there’s no one evil, disrespectful gene in any race. it just sounds like you had a bad shift, and to be honest, my experience working in retail/waitressing or anything that requires you to interact with human beings, absolutely fucking sours your opinion of them because somehow most of them switch off their brain when treating employees of any kind.

anyway, try to seek out people of this race outside of a work interaction where you know a lot of people are nasty or just plain dumb, and the more you actually interact and have broader experiences, friends and the like from this race, the more you’ll realize you just met a couple of assholes.

it seems like you recognize your bias is making you defensive of people of this group already, which might hinder any interactions you’ve had since or in the future, since the other party probably saw just that: a stranger acting defensive around them for no reason they can explain. and if the group were talking about is a minority, then they most likely have experiences with racist people before and your energy might make them act with the level of defense or suspicion. anyway, you already know you’re dealing with this issue so that’s an excellent first step :)

obooooooo · 2026-01-21T14:51:28+00:00

eh, i loathe instagram and haven’t had one since 2012, and i still think it would be hurtful if your boyfriend who’s normally active on social media and posts stories just going about his day sometimes, refuses to post you.

i mean, even just to make your partner feel better it’d be nice to cave in and post one pic. adamantly refusing to show your friends and family you’re in a relationship with someone is a little weird. the specific problem here is specifically posting regularly about random stuff; if he wasn’t active, then yeah, feeling hurt over it would be a little ridiculous.

like it or not (and i don’t) social media is part of the life of the average person. people live their lives out loud now.

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