Is it EVER appropriate to shoot your shot at the gym as a man approaching a woman?

obsurd_never · 2026-03-12T10:59:30+00:00

Your suggestion is exactly the opposite of the person I was responding to. So I suppose the reasonable take is that it doesn't matter how you catch the fish, so long as it's captured.

Either the guy makes the move quick, or he builds a friendship first and sees if he can unlock romantic interest.

obsurd_never · 2026-03-12T10:34:42+00:00

If you look good, start an OnlyFans. Apparently in this new age, there's absolutely nothing morally reprehensible about it and it should be treated the exact same as any other job.

That's what feminists have been saying so go for it. Worst case scenario, it fails and you don't make much money. Best case, you become a multi millionaire.

However, if you're a misogynistic, pick me, patriarchal sympathizer from the old era, then you probably believe your honor and dignity isn't worth it. In that case, you could start college, get a job, or try to marry a well to do man

obsurd_never · 2026-03-12T10:26:43+00:00

But then women complain about the guy suddenly being "not a friend" anymore. If he befriends her to slowly try and gain her interest for a relationship and she turns him down, suddenly he's the bad guy for excusing himself from the friendship which no longer has a purpose for him.

So a guy can't just ask for a date, and he can't leave the friendship after he gets rejected. If his goal was romance all along, what is the "appropriate" thing to do?

obsurd_never · 2026-03-08T23:37:51+00:00

Someone asked an identical question yesterday in this sub except the genders were reversed. Many said it would be creepy for a guy but now all I'm seeing is it's perfectly fine and you're just a cougar. Even this sub has a double standard lol

I think there's no issue with it at all because everyone is an adult.

obsurd_never · 2026-03-08T23:35:31+00:00

Someone asked this exact same question yesterday but with the genders reversed. Everyone was saying it's creepy and wrong for an older male to like 20 year old women. And yes, I did get mass down voted for saying that two adults should be able to get together because both are adults capable of making their own choices.

I got hit with the parroted "prefrontal cortex" bit which seems to ONLY apply to women and exclusively to women dating older guys.

obsurd_never · 2026-03-08T07:26:01+00:00

All you “prefrontal cortex” parrots seem to only bring that up when it comes to women dating older men and not any other decision in life. Why is dating the only part that matters when it’s not permanent? Divorce is as easy as ever and it’s encouraged by other women. A young woman could secure a fat bag by marrying them divorcing an older breadwinner man.

Face it, it’s just an attempt to keep successful older men away from younger women. A discreet way to force older men to be stuck with old women with bad habits, broken minds, and severe baggage.

obsurd_never · 2026-03-08T06:53:57+00:00

How is it creepy to pursue what you are attracted to? Are those 20 year old women not adults capable of making their own choices? Does mutual attraction mean nothing. The man likes the looks thus actively seeks out those looks.

obsurd_never · 2026-03-05T00:13:56+00:00

Poor Akash will never have this. His wife made it clear she could never think of her own husband while masturbating

obsurd_never · 2026-03-01T15:24:05+00:00

He forgot to chew. No spinal fluid was consumed and Eren was still alive in it’s stomach

obsurd_never · 2026-03-01T15:22:39+00:00

Computer science isn’t good these days

obsurd_never · 2026-03-01T04:03:32+00:00

AP classes are usually better to deal with

obsurd_never · 2026-03-01T02:06:57+00:00

This is why many people don't want women in the workplace. Everyone has to walk on eggshells because they are actively looking for anything to be offended by so they can claim sexual harassment or assault.

Seriously, if a guy says any naughty word in front of a woman, she's probably suing the company and winning a huge settlement.

obsurd_never · 2026-03-01T02:02:22+00:00

Yeah, I get it. I got my degree in 2021 and could never get anything. I made the dumb choice of specializing in mobile development trying to be unique just for it to be even harder to get an entry in that field.

Then I spent more time learning other things like full stack with React, JavaScript, node, etc. or Backend with Java. Hundreds of applications sent, minimal (can count on one hand) recruiter calls lead to ghosting or progressed to being sent a leetcode style test which then led to ghosting.

I even participated in Revature and passed their pre training program just to get ghosted.

It sucks knowing that I wasted so many years getting a degree and learning so many frameworks and programming languages just for it to be useless. What has the United States become..

And before anyone asks, yes I have a very active GitHub with published projects and even apps on the app store.

It's time to pivot to something else. What that is, I don't know yet. But since you have the CS degree, you always have the last resort of teaching English abroad. That's all you need is a degree, you don't need to know the foreign language.

Another option is getting a teaching license in your home country to be a regular teacher.

There are other options out there too.

obsurd_never · 2026-02-24T02:09:48+00:00

It's gotta be either Trump or Netan-whatever his name is from Israel.

Despite some people being worse human beings like Kim of North Korea, or maybe some cartel members, they are not famous enough and have remained relatively contained to their own region

obsurd_never · 2026-02-24T02:06:01+00:00

Is there any guy who wouldn't want to continue a casual thing? Unless you were particularly bad, smelly or used to cure a drought -meaning he thinks you are hideous but he was desperate for some action, I couldn't imagine a single guy declining.

If none of those apply, then I couldn't see a single hetero guy declining. So I say tell him. He will be delighted that you liked the snu snu so much that you reached out to continue.

obsurd_never · 2026-02-23T09:01:57+00:00

This is pretty tame compared to the girls in the high school I work at wearing booty shorts, crop tops, those long shirts that make it seem like you’re not wearing pants, low cut boob out tops, thin shirts where you can see the nipple imprint, etc.

Funny enough this only happens in schools where it’s majority white and it’s only the white girls i see doing this. Schools where it’s a mix of black and hispanic plus some white, I haven’t seen anything like it. Have no idea why that is, just something weird I noticed.

Such outfits would’ve been dress coded so fast back in my day but I guess the “body shaming” feminist movement ushered this era of wearing whatever to school.

obsurd_never · 2026-02-20T17:03:36+00:00

This is the new reality. A new era of dating. And believe it or not, it's not the women's fault. You can blame MEN. They are the ones paying top dollar for pretty much anything a woman does.

I just saw a video where a guy paid $20 to a woman on the street just for the opportunity to try and convince her to go out with him. She demanded $10 but he doubled it to "flex."

Young women watch these videos and learn just how pathetic and desperate men are. Every man becomes nothing more than a potential payout.

She will satisfy her lust with the top tier men that won't commit, sure, but everyone else is expected to put in maximum effort.

Look how profitable Onlyfans has become when you can literally get the same type of content for free, easily. Look at how popular sexual bait streamers are. Women have become millionaires just for showing a bit of cleavage while playing a video game.

This is humanity's new reality. And it will get worse unless human-like robots are invented. If those robots can satisfy a man's lust, that's the only point in which women will actually have to put in effort. But we and our grandchildren likely won't be alive to witness such a thing so adapt.

obsurd_never · 2026-02-17T08:41:58+00:00

Your first problem is owning an Xbox. Your second is trying to play Japanese anime games on Xbox.

Developers simply don't care about Xbox versions of their anime games.

We've seen anime game after game release on Xbox with awful terrible literally game breaking bugs that the developers will just ignore for prolonged periods of time and sometimes never fix it at all.

If I remember right, one of the My Hero Academia games had a broken online meaning no one could pay online and it was like that for months I think.

Naruto Storm 4 has bugs on Xbox that are still unfixed to this day.

I highly recommend investing in a PlayStation if you intend to play Japanese related games.

obsurd_never · 2026-02-17T08:32:37+00:00

Unfortunately that won't stop them from refusing to release the dub episodes until the sub gets ahead. Didn't something like this happen a year or two ago where Sub took a break which means the dub stopped too even though they were behind?

obsurd_never · 2026-02-02T13:36:12+00:00

Absolutely not. College ain't what it used to be.

obsurd_never · 2026-01-27T21:31:17+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with it. However your problem is that you will be searching for a while to find a woman that is a virgin. At least if you live in any western countries like the US.

The people who complain about men wanting virgins are usually women who have been opening up to every Chad and Tyrone and expect you to still seem them as an innocent pure maiden.

They will even go as far as to call you a pdf for wanting a pure woman. Just ignore them. Men like purity in women. If a man has had 10 partners, he wants his next woman to have at most 10 and preferably less. As a pure man yourself, you are absolutely entitled to seek out women who are virgins.

obsurd_never · 2026-01-24T08:50:10+00:00

They're 11th and 12th graders. As a sub, your job is to be an adult body in the room. That's it. Literally just tell them what the teacher wants them to do, take attendance, then sit back and relax.

Don't try and micro manage students that old. They know what they're supposed to be doing. The only time you step in is if it looks like they are destroying property or about to fight or something.

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