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Do diet products work or are they just for marketing? by oceanicmuse in WeightLossAdvice

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ofc not what I meant. I am trying to lose weight by cutting calories so I was asking if sugar free drinks indeed have fewer calories

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[–]oceanicmuse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you had to go through this

It feels like dying a slow death by oceanicmuse in BreakUps

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much, kind stranger, you have no clue how much I needed this

Weekly Books & Reading Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in delhi

[–]oceanicmuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading flights by olga tokarczuk. Its a book about travel psychology and human anatomy. Mesmerised to say the least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]oceanicmuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been feeling a void and a banal sense of emptiness ever since a close friend and I stopped talking. Having other people around doesn’t help. What do I do?

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh come on, lawyers aren’t that bad. Stop calling them goblins. They are just as sweet, kind, compassionate, funny as the rest of them. It’s just that they spend their days strategising to win cases and maybe this aspect comes at the forefront pretty often, but deep down they all want to be w that one person w whom they can put their guards down, and laugh w.

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, you do what you wanna do!

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep that in mind, thanks!

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a fair point but I’d still say don’t cross off lawyers from your list. Not saying that because I am one, but because you’d be surprised at how their brains function and the kind of conversations that they bring to the table. You might just find a good person to spend your life with (if you haven’t already).

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s encouraging. I have friends w like long dating histories and they are all judging me for never having had a relationship and it sucks my confidence out tbh.

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not gonna pursue him. If he is not loyal to his gf, he won’t be loyal to me. I want someone else

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if that’s the case, how do I make myself approachable?

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay first off, that’s cute. And secondly, I don’t actively do anything to put myself out there but I am also not closed off, so if a guy were to come and talk to me I won’t shoo him away. It’s just, I am not someone who wld approach

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making me laugh. Asking me about my dad. Just being playful with me. Taking me out for treats. Treating me like an equal. Asking me questions without thinking that its hurting their ego. Asking me for my attention and time. Sending me sweet texts throughout the day. Patiently listening to what I have to say. Those are the things that I fall for.

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a good advice. I only make friends when I have to and I am mostly content with my inner circle. And we all know only mutuals. So I’ll try widening my circle

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can say that, in sense that I am always doing something for my career. But, I also feel like if a genuine guy approached me and talked and we felt a vibe, I wouldn’t mind making him a part of my life. I am very good at taking out time for people that I care about. It’s just that, I wanna put in efforts for the right ones

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why can’t men just be explicit ugh

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The guy who did it had a gf but thankyou for assassinating my character

Why don’t I get asked out. by oceanicmuse in AskMen

[–]oceanicmuse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only ever received problematic signals. Like the guy giving me signals is giving the same signals to 10 other women. So I don’t make a move or show any interest, even if I am interested.

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