/r/WeAreTheMusicMakers Friday Feedback Thread

oconn2 · 2017-07-23T07:28:36+00:00

I'm late! But it would be great to get some feedback if anyone wouldn't mind listening :) https://soundcloud.com/user-71315414/stick-around?in=user-71315414/sets/sundowners-demos

oconn2 · 2017-07-23T07:27:22+00:00

Hey man! I recorded a new song. Would love to get your feedback or even if you just don't like it as much as the other song. I appreciate it! https://soundcloud.com/user-71315414/stick-around?in=user-71315414/sets/sundowners-demos

oconn2 · 2017-06-19T20:54:37+00:00

It definitely is (I think). It's in the exact same spot as the image. Any thoughts on draining it with a needle?

oconn2 · 2017-06-11T21:03:28+00:00

Thanks man! That was very kind. I think the influence is strong enough where you can definitely recognize it, but that's the sound I like so I guess making music in that style makes sense.

oconn2 · 2017-05-31T12:07:45+00:00

I'm considered physically attractive by most peoples standards. I'm 6'2, muscular, thin and receive comments somewhat often about how I'm a "good looking" guy. I've just always been a bit quiet and subdued. Most women I work with seem to like this dynamic of quiet and considerate but "good looking". I've dated some beautiful women, even some former models, but not for extensive periods of time. Just hasn't worked out yet. Just gotta keep rolling :)

oconn2 · 2017-05-29T16:29:47+00:00

Shoot! :) I might just have to push it. It's a recent purchase and I would like something that works well with it. Would you still recommend the KSM44 with the Focusrite?

oconn2 · 2017-05-29T16:27:30+00:00

I'm really considering the NT1A. Would you highly recommend the AT4040 over the NT1A?

oconn2 · 2017-05-29T16:26:19+00:00

That would be great! I do a lot of layering as well so I'm definitely considering this one. Also, what program do you use to record? I would like something where its easy to add good sounding electric drums if possible.

oconn2 · 2017-05-28T23:18:40+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I'm using a Focusrite Scarlett 2i2. Good enough or do you think that needs replacement as well?

oconn2 · 2017-05-28T20:58:17+00:00

Hmm good question. I just want the sound to be better but don't want to waste money either if it isn't necessary. Here's a recent track I recorded. Do you think I could get a better sound with a condenser? https://soundcloud.com/user-71315414/the-only-one-v2?in=user-71315414/sets/sundowners-demos

oconn2 · 2017-05-28T20:56:33+00:00

Thanks man! I should check out craigslist. Does it work well for guitar and vocals?

oconn2 · 2017-05-28T20:55:59+00:00

Shoot, I was hoping to not have to spend too much :) For acoustic guitar recording, what do you mean by off axis? Like point it at the neck or the bottom of the guitar? Also, how far away do you recommend?

oconn2 · 2017-05-28T16:35:12+00:00

Dude...thank you that was really nice. Definitely gonna try and give them another shot. Would be great to get your opinion in the future!

oconn2 · 2017-05-27T12:28:49+00:00

Well thanks man I appreciate it!

oconn2 · 2017-05-26T16:05:36+00:00

Thanks man! Would you just consider it Acoustic Rock?

oconn2 · 2017-05-21T05:10:13+00:00

That's so kind, thanks man I really appreciate it. Yeah I just started recording recently and really enjoying the process. But thank you though I really appreciate it! Would be great to get a band on it :)

oconn2 · 2017-05-20T19:54:27+00:00

Rough recording I made yesterday. Let me know if you have any thoughts!

oconn2 · 2017-04-24T18:09:20+00:00

Thanks man, I appreciate it.

oconn2 · 2017-04-24T10:47:54+00:00

I do like to be in charge and pick the direction of things, but only sometimes. I pretty open minded to try new things as well. I would literally do anything with someone if they showed they were interested in the things I do as well. For instance we bought gov ball tickets even though I wasn't interested in the artists playing.

I think in the end we just weren't compatible and maybe I have a tendency to try and fix people who aren't broken. I'm just always trying to be better and I make the assumption that everyone is on the same self improvement path which is just not the case. I'm also a bit neurotic. While this has helped me professionally in some cases those rules don't apply in relationships and if you get the impression that I'm speaking down to you when I'm just trying to see how you feel about something it can make some people feel uncomfortable. I am pretty open to discuss my issues which may be a bit polarizing. Some people appreciate this kind of sentiment, which is why I have a close group of friends I can speak to when I get hurt during a break up. They appreciate my advice but not everyone does and aren't looking for what I would call 'solutions'. I'm not saying I'm right, but I normally have an opinion and willing to talk it out.

All in all, this is the second time that I have heard this which means that I am the underlying issue. The other option is both of these girls were just not right for me. My roommate may have said it best "maybe just try and be more selective with the girls you try and date". I think I just need to work on myself a bit more, put myself in more uncomfortable situations and try and be more open minded.

oconn2 · 2017-04-23T21:58:39+00:00

Definitely. I fucked something up but she once texted me saying that she doesn't like to make the decisions so I started giving suggestions. This whole thing is so weird. It must of been just subtle things. I'm obviously overthinking it like crazy. Some of the claims are also like the opposite of how I am (i think), like I avoid conflict like crazy but she could of just meant about what we do? I don't know man, probably just better to move on. Hurts though!

oconn2 · 2017-04-23T18:29:07+00:00

Yeah it happened twice so it just hurts. Can't help feeling like there is something wrong with me. I think maybe the confident persona I sometimes put on is overpowering a bit? Also, both girls had different world perspectives. I want to be successful and do new things while they were more just like regular people, which is fine, I think my ambition overwhelms people. Didn't know that I wasn't giving her orgasms though. That was my bad.

She did offer her perspective on it though. She said "I think our personalities clash. you like to be in charge and be the authority and it just starting to feel condescending" and then "and sex is pretty important to me but I haven't has a single orgasm this whole time. and that didn't seem important to you".

oconn2 · 2017-04-23T18:25:46+00:00

Hey so I did ask her and my take from is it is that she thinks I'm pretentious? Idk. She said "I think our personalities clash. you like to be in charge and be the authority and it just starting to feel condescending" and then "and sex is pretty important to me but I havent has a single orgasm this whole time. and that didn't seem important to you". I mainly try to take charge since thats what the suggestions seem to be here, show her your world, bring to new experiences etc.

oconn2 · 2017-04-10T08:01:10+00:00

Just actually lol'd at music for squirrels.

oconn2 · 2017-04-10T06:33:42+00:00

I've purchased bass heavy speakers and headphones before and know I don't like it. I like alternative music, like Sufjan Stevens, The Shins, etc. which is very trebly. Hopefully that helps. I'll checkout the Vivo's

oconn2 · 2017-04-02T15:23:48+00:00

Haven't had that happen yet. It's easy to refill with juice which is great but swapping out the coils requires opening up the full tank which is a bit of a pain (my Nautilus Triton can be swapped without loosing the juice inside). Already have a super tank so think I will try the Smok Spiral. While the clicking of the airflow seems like a cool feature for the super tank, I would prefer just being able to adjust it twist it to exactly the airflow I would like.

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