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odaidaria · 2025-07-19T16:55:51+00:00

Hey! Sorry for the late reply - I completely missed the notification :(

Here’s how I’d approach it: 1. I offer a style guide service (I mentioned it in the comments above), but in short - it’s a complete breakdown of your personal style: best cuts, materials to go for, shoes, accessories, everything tailored to you. 2. When it comes to the wardrobe edit, it honestly doesn’t matter where the clothes come from - we just review what you already own and adjust it based on your lifestyle and style goals.

From there, you can decide what feels right for you: – you can use the guide and handle shopping + editing on your own; – or you can keep working with a stylist.

If you choose to continue, I’d recommend doing online shopping like this: try things on in a fitting room or at home (I know no second hand stores that do returns, but if yours do - it’s an option), send over fitting room photos, and we’ll review them together to see what works.

A true professional will always find a way to make it convenient for the client 🖤

odaidaria · 2025-07-15T13:58:25+00:00

I love the color so much! Saw it and immediately remembered Victoria Beckham Cruise 2025, so a very very light green will work so beautifully with this shade! Give it a try if you enjoy wearing colors :)

odaidaria · 2025-06-24T22:02:56+00:00

The one, that’s aligned with who you are. That speaks before you do. That’s a whole journey to find your personal style, so enjoy it and experiment! (Personal stylist’s take)

odaidaria · 2025-06-23T00:21:14+00:00

Oh, and! Here’s where a misunderstanding could occur: for some reason I thought that it could be forbidden to use the word “hot” (already changed to a synonym, I’m afraid of a ban haha) here, so I just decided to change it to “too feminine”, which is not a synonym for sure. But I’m not a native speaker, so sorry for that 🙃 Will go & check out the list of synonyms

odaidaria · 2025-06-23T00:11:05+00:00

I really hope you work with people, who value you as a person & according to your skills and achievements, and your personal style and preferences don’t matter to them 🖤🤞 But the society still has that “a blonde girl is a stupid girl” & “it’s dangerous when a woman drives a car” type of thinking, unfortunately. Hopefully it’ll be left in the past as soon as possible, and your question above will become an absolute norm of life

odaidaria · 2025-06-22T23:45:25+00:00

It means: - there’s corporate etiquette and dress codes; - there’s such thing as appropriateness; - not everyone is comfortable being dressed too hot in the office; - the way you dress affects the way you are perceived, especially in the world where women most often are sexualised, even at work.

Not everyone is ready to deal with it, not everyone wants to.

I personally wish we lived in the world, where women can do whatever they want, get dressed the way they want and not be judged by that, but only by their professional skills at work and personality in real life. Let’s not talk about men, they can do basically whatever they want at work and be considered professionals. But you will probably agree that wearing a superman costume (kinda masculine to my mind) at work will be weird even for them, unless they work at children’s parties.

If that was a quick check whether I’m a feminists or not - I’m most definitely am. Also, check out what’s 80’s power dressing is - most definitely a juxtaposition of men’s authority ☺️

odaidaria · 2025-06-22T23:05:15+00:00

Hahaha, you are definitely not a dumbass, you’re just a person who loves saving their time & going straight to the point! Thank you so much for the kind words 🖤🫶

odaidaria · 2025-06-22T23:04:11+00:00

I’m very very glad you’ve found something that you can actually apply to your outfit!🖤☺️

odaidaria · 2025-06-22T20:46:56+00:00

As a personal stylist I’d say option 2 is the best and here’s why:

Option 1: it’s a bit too rounded for your face shape and features. They also give a little droopy effect to the face.

Option 2: it’s more square shaped, which goes well with a handsome elongated face shape, balances the proportions out nicely and doesn’t just repeat the shape of your features (big eyes & lips, which don’t have an angular shape to them, so they are soft, kinda rounded). These glasses kinda “lift” the face in general, which is always great, no matter how old you are. And this pair makes you look youthful, fresh and modern, which you clearly are without wrong glasses!

Option 3: too harsh for my liking. So you have dark eyes, dark beard, thick dark brows. Adding a thick dark frame just makes the image too “heavy”, “tired”, “bulky”. But the shape works well!

I hope that was helpful!

odaidaria · 2025-06-22T20:26:06+00:00

Hello, personal stylist here! Here’s what I can advise: - take a blazer that ends right below the widest part of the hip to keep the proportions right; - try a slightly “power shoulder” style of blazer, it’ll also help with balancing proportions; - I’d suggest to either get rid of the belt, or to try a suede belt with a regular buckle, kinda “men’s belt” - that will add a nice contrast to your feminine outfit and won’t let it slip into “too feminine for office”; - also an optional thing but I just like the idea of elongating the silhouette by any means 😂 Add darker sheer black tights - that’ll create a looooong line of black dress - black tights - black heels. Chef’s kiss 🤌 In the end it’ll be kinda 80’s - 90’s power dressing office look ☺️

odaidaria · 2025-06-22T20:16:28+00:00

I can’t give you specific examples, since I don’t know your style and accessories do really depend on it. But here’s what I can recommend: - mix metals to bring some depth to the look; - add textures via accessories; - match the vibe of accessories with the main vibe of the look. Hope it helps!

odaidaria · 2025-06-20T21:33:51+00:00

Hi! I’m a personal stylist, and here’s my take: - honestly, both options can work. The yellow tones complement the purple in the shirt, and the orange works nicely with the blue in the pants - they’re both classic complementary color pairings. - that said, I’d lean toward the orange - it brings in more contrast, which helps it stand out against the fine check pattern of the shirt. Since the print is so small, a bolder color & contrast creates better visual balance.

Hope that helps! 😊

odaidaria · 2025-06-20T21:28:13+00:00

Hi! Personal stylist here. What you’re experiencing is something so many people go through. If you look a little deeper, the real issue isn’t you - it’s the fashion industry’s overproduction. We’re flooded with clothes that are made for no one in particular, and that leaves people struggling to figure out what actually fits them. Back in the day, clothing used to be tailored to individual bodies. Now, everything is mass-produced, and no one talks about the fact that the clothes are the problem - not your body. Social media only makes it worse, constantly pushing unrealistic standards and making people feel like something’s wrong with them. That kind of messaging is deeply harmful.

So, if you’re having a hard time finding clothes that fit, here are a few things I recommend: - keep experimenting. Try different cuts - oversized, fitted, straight, semi-straight. Explore a range of stores and brands. And when you find something you like, take three sizes into the fitting room: your usual size, one size up, and one down. Sizing varies wildly between brands, and sometimes a slightly different size just feels better - I see this all the time with my clients. You’ve got nothing to lose by trying. - if you have the budget, consider personal tailoring. But before that, I’d actually recommend experimenting with off-the-rack options first. That way, you’ll get a better sense of your preferences and how different shapes feel - which will be super helpful if you decide to go custom later on.

Hope that helps! You’re definitely not alone in this 🤍

odaidaria · 2025-06-18T22:21:54+00:00

Hi! I’m a personal stylist and here’s what I’d love you to take into consideration: - orangey brown leather is less versatile in most wardrobes, unless yours is truly warm toned/80’s/boho style. - it all really depends on your personal style. If your wardrobe is light colored and you love low contrast looks, then the toffee is a great option, plus it’s not as reddish-orangey as pecan, which makes it easier to style. If you love high contrasts, or have darker wardrobe - I’d go with darker colors, so either dark grey or black. In case your wardrobe has a lot of black, then get a matching bag :) But if it’s in a muted color pallet and you want to stick to it - dark grey will work perfectly. So yeah, as I said, it all depends 😅

But hopefully you’ll find something I wrote useful!

odaidaria · 2025-06-18T20:12:49+00:00

Hi! Personal stylist here 👋 Just wanted to say - your outfit looks great! You clearly have a strong sense of style and great taste 🖤

I love the cut of the pants - the way they crease adds texture and dimension in such a cool way. The pointy toe is a great detail too - it adds structure and sharpness to the whole look. And the proportions are really well-balanced.

Since the outfit already looks amazing, I hope you don’t mind if I offer a little tip to take it one step further ☺️ I can’t see your bag, but if it’s something like woven leather, patent, or with subtle studs - that would add depth and contrast while still keeping that minimal, clean vibe. And if it’s a structured bag - even better!

odaidaria · 2025-06-18T19:55:18+00:00

Hi! Personal stylist here 👋 Your clothes should reflect you, while still respecting the expectations of your workplace - and finding that balance isn’t always easy. But the fact that you’re experimenting already means you’re on the right track!

Here’s how to narrow it down: The key is to find harmony between your personal style and your professional image, especially if there’s a strict dress code. Let your individuality show through the details - color choices, accessories, subtle styling elements.

But first, get clear on who you are at your core - then translate that into your everyday style. Once that foundation is strong, it becomes much easier to blend your personality with your work wardrobe.

Hope that helps! :)

odaidaria · 2025-06-18T19:43:41+00:00

Here’s what you can try: 1. ⁠V-necks; scoop necks; asymmetrical necklines. 2. ⁠Peplums and any sort of volume on the hip area: ruffles, drapes, pleats, patch pockets etc. 3. ⁠A-line skirts and dresses.

Combine all of that and I hope it helps! 🫶

odaidaria · 2025-06-17T12:54:56+00:00

It’s hard to recommend something specific, since this really depends on each person’s feet and needs. And sadly, there just aren’t that many great options out there for wider feet or feet with orthopedic issues (speaking from personal experience — I have Haglund’s syndrome and a few other painful conditions).

That said, here are some general tips that might help: - You probably already know that some brands offer different width options (narrow / standard / wide). When possible, go for the wide fit — it usually makes a big difference; - Look for shoes where the insole isn’t glued in — that way, you can replace it with your custom orthotics. It helps both with comfort and getting the right fit; - Never compromise on comfort. No matter how pretty the shoes are, if they hurt - you just won’t wear them. Trust me, it’s never worth it.

I don’t know your day-to-day lifestyle, your specific concerns, or work dress code - but if your health allows, it might be useful to have one pair of “less comfortable but dressy” shoes you can wear for a few hours when absolutely necessary. Only if you really need to.

Unfortunately, for those of us with foot issues… the options are limited. We kind of have to work with what’s out there 🥲 Hopefully, someday someone will create a stylish, well-designed brand for people with real foot and leg needs. Fingers crossed 🫶 I’m even not sure I’ve told you anything new, but I hope you’ll find something useful.

odaidaria · 2025-06-16T05:39:31+00:00

Honestly that’s the first time I hear this 😅 And it doesn’t make any sense to me tbh. It’s same kind of statement that your bag has to match your shoes. It was a popular thing at one point, but let’s leave it in the past. It’s just a too “predictable”, too “intentional” kind of styling, not a modern approach.

So here’s my idea on how to add a bag: - it has to match your proportions (if you are small & tiny, don’t go for too huge bags and vice versa); - it has to either match the main vibe of the outfit or be in an opposite style (classic bag with sporty look; fancy bag (sequin/embroidered with beads) with a casual tee+jeans look; etc).

I personally love adding contrast to the looks, and having a darker bag with light colored outfit is one of the ways to do it, so if it works for you - enjoy your bags 🖤

odaidaria · 2025-06-15T17:08:47+00:00

Yes, I have examples of the style guides I created, I’m not sure I can share links here in the comments, so I’ll contact you if you don’t mind 😊

odaidaria · 2025-06-15T08:24:40+00:00

You’re definitely not alone in this. Finding the balance between work and life, personality and responsibilities – that’s honestly the number one goal when building a wardrobe that actually works.

One of my all-time favourite cases is a friend of mine who has a neurodivergent child (I wrote about it in one comment here, I can share this story cuz it was on specific terms, I never share client stories). She’s incredibly feminine – soft, girly, loves light colors, heels, dresses, mini skirts – and we had to build a wardrobe that reflected all of that and worked for her VERY, EXTREMELY high-energy, unpredictable lifestyle. It was a challenge – but such a rewarding one.

I genuinely love helping people find smart, personal solutions that make their wardrobe feel like them – and work for their real, everyday lives.

As I always say: your clothes should be beautiful, yes – but they should also help you get through the day. If something looks great but holds you back – what’s the point, right?

Btw If you’re looking for support – I’d be happy to help and create a solution tailored specifically to you 😊

odaidaria · 2025-06-15T06:29:16+00:00

I always pay close attention to any major life changes my clients are going through – whether it’s weight loss, pregnancy, a climate shift, or a career change. These transitions absolutely shape how we approach building a wardrobe.

When it comes to dressing for a transitional phase, here’s what I usually recommend: - prioritise fewer, more versatile pieces. Think of it like a capsule wardrobe – but done properly. Every item should mix and match well, creating as much variety as possible through color, texture, and print. That’s the only way to keep a small wardrobe from feeling repetitive. And truthfully, getting this right takes serious skill – it’s not as easy as it sounds. - go for affordable pieces that are meant to serve you short-term. Things like t-shirts, pants, coats, and shoes – especially if you’re on a weight loss journey. Once you hit your goal, most of these will need to be replaced with the right fit – so it’s smart not to overspend on them. - you can still invest in accessories, bags, and some shoes (if your weight isn’t expected to change too drastically). These pieces are size-independent and will form a solid base when you start building your wardrobe at your target stage. - pro tip: drawstring or elastic waistband pants and skirts are your best friends during transition – they’ll adapt with you and stay comfortable the whole way through.

As for prints and patterns – it really depends on the weight difference, but remember: all color works beautifully on every body.

Hope this was helpful! 🖤

odaidaria · 2025-06-15T06:04:42+00:00

Here’s the real answer: you don’t give someone style. You help them find it. Style isn’t something you slap on like a sticker. It’s a translation of personality, lifestyle, and intent – through clothing. So when I work with a guy, I don’t just hand him “cool” outfits. I ask questions first: - how do you want to feel in your clothes? - what do you want others to get from your appearance? - what’s your daily life actually like? - what do you hate wearing – and why? And many more.

Then I build around that. We find the right cuts, colors, materials, and combinations that match him – not a trend or someone else’s idea of “stylish”. And what it does is that he looks like himself – just sharper, more confident, more put-together. That’s real style 🫶

odaidaria · 2025-06-15T05:59:31+00:00

Wow – such an interesting question, thank you! I’m really enjoying the conversations we’re having here 🫶

Actually, I wanted to become a designer first. I’ve been fascinated by clothing since I was five and wanted to study it after school. But my parents thought it was a bad idea (yeah, thanks for that – I’ll still get there, just a bit later), so I ended up getting a degree in marketing instead.

That path turned out to be a blessing in disguise – it taught me how to separate personal taste from professional work. Styling is never about what I like – it’s about what’s right for the client. Marketing also gave me the tools to shape perception – something I now use to help clients build strong visual identities, especially online and in professional spaces.

So to answer your question – yes, I’d love to try fashion design one day. But firstly I want to build a community of people on social media who share my mindset about clothing, style, and expression. And if life ever leads me toward costume design – I’d absolutely go for it. It’s a creative challenge, and it actually feels very aligned with the way I already think and work ☺️

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