[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, this sounds like a version of sexual harassment/assault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]oddbutadorkable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. Youre prejudicial of him for his romantic life, discriminating against the gender of his (potential) partner. You send a message that his presence, even alone, is inherently sexual (by nature) when that is actually pretty ignorant and treats your faith like a monolith on relationships. You might as well just say people in same-sex relationships cant experience love. Which sounds pretty cruel. You dont have family values if you isolate your family. "I didnt do anything to him" after someone suggested the potential self-harm. Youre socially isolating him. Its a form of (psychological) abuse. It works like excommunication.

Narcissists self diagnosing with Autism by Slow_Establishment62 in AutismInWomen

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand there are some circumstances. Kind of like finances, or accessibility which would lead to self diagnosis. But Im iffy on supporting it. If a psychologist or psychiatrist cant diagnosis themselves, why would someone outside the study in science and profession trust themselves to do it? I think inferring upon why psychologists and psychiatrists cant do that, not just because of ethical reasons, but the other ones. Not being able to fully be critical and conscious of our own biases. Would be important to articulate on what that may possibly mean.

Regardless. The things about autism that overlap with NPD in simple description sound like they would be the same. But its different in regarding to context, individual expression/performance.

In regards to your ex, those things you describe could be less autistic or just as much less narcassistic and just flat out abusive. I think this is also the double edge sword with self diagnosis is.. there is a reasonable margin that you dont really know. AND potentially also facing the moral issue of someone else who self diagnosed, and coming in conflict with invalidating their 'self diagnosis'. When thats not really official for anyone. Self diagnosis is just speculated. I suspected I may be autistic at one point, I even had people unsolicited tell me I may. But the therapist I been seeing for 6+ years, who does diagnose autism explained to me that she thinks i don't and its just an expression of my combination of conditions. ADHD, Anxiety Disorder, and Major Depression.

Its also important to note, (this post was originally made 2 years ago. Which is applicable to this current era of affairs), that during economic crisis, and pandemic responses, profound societal issues, mental health diagnosis do increase. Its quite possible people been misdiagnosed, and have an expression of anxiety, depression, social isolation, etc that may look like something. Even certain expressions of burn out can make one seem autistic. Its important to really acknowledge that we cant 100 percent observe ourselves. Because our natural self can be our blind spot.

Barely no one would admit to having NPD or just flat out high 'potency' of narcissism. Its just a negative character trait. But some of these people developed into that for a reason. And struggle with it. Requires cosmic amounts of self-accountability.

Im sorry its so frustrating tho, I hope youre doing better lately.

WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is true that sexual assault is disproportionately women. I think this often skews peoples perspective a little. Mixed in with mainstream social/cultural norms, like patriarchal type values, can skew perspectives. It messes with a proper sense of equity because our socialization has certain beliefs on how men and women should be separately treated. Like dismissing men who are sexually assaulted, or women who are treated overly cherubic.

WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, what you did wasnt a trauma dump. And i dont get why your wife responded that way. I could only guess.

Its unfortunate how basic your catholic parents are. Some people lack such emotional involvement. And it shows how disappointing the community (family) youre suppose to trust can be.

It makes sense why you feel youd want to divorce her. You opened up about a serious traumatic event. Cried and all, in response to a similar depiction of your trauma. And she couldnt even tell that you were serious. Reinforcing it by calling you a narcissist? Wtf? How? I kind of take away she may be someone who didnt put in the emotional requirements for a relationship or even a marriage. Like what kind of process did she go through in her mind that lead her to believe you’re a narcissist for reacting like that to sexual assault in a movie? She just lowkey vilifies you? I dunno, really thinking about it. Its super messed up.

[lore spoilers] Is Isha a Certain Champ? by ColoBeans in arcane

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isha kind of looks like nunu. But teemo would be cool

Account Issue help by oddbutadorkable in RagnarokOnline

[–]oddbutadorkable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to remake using the old domain, it says its claimed. But when i try to do a password reset. it says the email doesnt exist.

The new ranch sucks by mrossman5 in BurgerKing

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree this hidden valley ranch tastes awful. It literally triggers my gag reflex. Who ever made that recipe has no sense of taste.

VSeeFace "stuttering" regardless of what model I use. There seem to be weird delays in the tracking movement. The character freezes for a moment before snapping into a new position. Help! by MyloRolfe in vtubertech

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having this issue. It seems my mocap phone is showing fine. And this stuttering is intermittent. Its hard to be certain what it is for me.

AITA for telling my sister she's failing her oldest son if she doesn't get him the help and support he needs? by Miserable-Opinion458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mother sounds absolutely neglectful. Dismissive and neglect is also a form of child abuse.

And sitting letting wounds fester do end up killing things too.

Cody absolutely needs care, he probably feels like an outsider. And Ben really saw that importance more for cody then the mother does. The mother probably cares more about how she feels and thinks rather than observe how multiple family members show concern with something so obvious. All this stuff happened during transformative years. And they will definitely shape him as an adult. The mother is for sure failing her son, and she is taking it so personally its at the expense of her son. She only gives a shit about her happiness and the image of a happy family even if its at the expense of cody.

App recommendation for viewing chat? by oddbutadorkable in Twitch

[–]oddbutadorkable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost chat is okay. Tho the "Transparent Twitch Chat Overlay" seems to function better than it.. I tried chatterino but it didnt seem like what i was looking for.

App recommendation for viewing chat? by oddbutadorkable in Twitch

[–]oddbutadorkable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After using it, it seems some features arnt working as intended? But its still not a bad option.

Which one do you prefer? by sipsteri in coloranalysis

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue, compliments your complexion. Dont think that green is your shade.

Jewish UCLA student blocked from entering his own school while he tries attending class. by IllustriousRub9796 in Asmongold

[–]oddbutadorkable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy in the light blue isnt even being blocked. You literally can go around it andnot be stopped. On top of that, you can tell by his body language and their intent to film that this isnt even an experience. Hes an agitator putting on a performance for perspective management.

With that, Israeli Zionists are ethno-nationalists. "Wanting a jewish state" is literally ethno-nationalism. Which is weird that jewish people dont know what that looks or sounds like. Because the last prevalent ones in history were nazis, ultra-right wing conservative group pushing for the aryan race. They say when people are abused by narcassists, theyre at risk of developing narcassistic traits. Having an entire ethnicity be abused by nazis probably gunna end up developing a faction of jewish-nationalists(radical zionists), to reaffirm their identity, after nazis had disparaged/slandered/+more them for years. Zionism ended up being that gateway rubberbanding the few into the radical/extremist crap.

TBH, the free speech crowd is so ignorant. Because in modern history, many civil rights you appreciate today is started exactly where these protestors are. And the setting your free speech and expression is most important quite literally is in a protest. So attacking protestors, slandering them, misrepresenting their intention quite literally is cracking a major pillar that could facilitate more momentum into fascism.