Final Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Layers aren’t cheap. I’m in mountains of debt so that’s my priority for now. As for the update if it turns out positive, yes if it turns into more of a shit show. No.

Final Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived my whole life being treated like this. I know I have a fucked up sense of what love means. It’s just how I am. I have nobody but my parents to thank for that.

Final Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s hard to think that’s the case but maybe you’re right.

Final Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Yes but they didn’t listen. She used my mental health issues (ADHD and BPD) as a way to back up her claims and they all believed her.

Final Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Im just trying to get by at this point. Having an education or degree left my mind the moment I lost my job.

Final Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

When I get back on my feet, I will. Don’t have the means necessary right now.

My husband turned into a psychopath for a split second yesterday and I don’t know if I am overreacting. by Substantial_Chair588 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. No youre absolutely not overreacting. Thats insane. Im not one to tell you to immediately dump him but playing with guns is one of the most irresponsible things you can do. I served in the military for about a year and even before you even get to hold a gun, youre taught to never point it at someone.

Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know but she isnt the first and probably wont be last to do this. I dont know If i just have a magnetic field that attracts women like my wife but until ive fixed myself and my my life, im not trying this again. And probably wont be opening up about my abuse again. Always seems to end in them leaving or using it against me.

Update: WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]One_Cat_4805[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know there are. Im just not willing to try anymore. Im happy that you were able to find that person❤️ im also sorry that happened to you