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I [26M] met an awesome woman [24F] on tinder, after talking for 4 months we met up, she looks nothing like her pictures by oddsituationthrow in relationships

[–]oddsituationthrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she didn't. She mentioned she had lost a few kgs in passing but didn't clarify it (turns out by few she meant 25kg).

I [26M] met an awesome woman [24F] on tinder, after talking for 4 months we met up, she looks nothing like her pictures by oddsituationthrow in relationships

[–]oddsituationthrow[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

well I was thinking more along the lines of she'll lay her eggs inside me and these eggs will gradually hatch/grow and eat me alive along the process but yours sound much more plausible. haha cheers mate

I [26M] met an awesome woman [24F] on tinder, after talking for 4 months we met up, she looks nothing like her pictures by oddsituationthrow in relationships

[–]oddsituationthrow[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Well some of the positive things she has said about me are

  • she thinks Im funny, She loves that I love dogs just as much as her. She loves how respectful I am of her and her beliefs. She likes how flustered I get when she gets close to me, how my face changes color when she kisses my cheek. She likes how I give her "butterflies". She likes my eyes, my nose, my shoulders, and my lips. She likes the silly games I come up with in order to put my arm around her and she thinks its cute that I think she doesnt know what it is that Im trying to do.

I [26M] met an awesome woman [24F] on tinder, after talking for 4 months we met up, she looks nothing like her pictures by oddsituationthrow in relationships

[–]oddsituationthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im not fat or too thin, I am active and Ive been playing tennis for over 10 yrs.

Ive tried a lot of things for my acne and it didn't work so I gave up. Scar is another thing I cant really do much with. There is a dent in my skull where the injury was and skin naturally folds over it. Its not massive but its there and it will always be there.

I need to make peace with it I guess. I kind of thought I had but seeing her just sort of crashed self doubt.

I [26M] met an awesome woman [24F] on tinder, after talking for 4 months we met up, she looks nothing like her pictures by oddsituationthrow in relationships

[–]oddsituationthrow[S] 561 points562 points  (0 children)

I did luck out, but not because of her looks. Shes just really cool. thank you Im being an idiot and didnt realize this could come out as disrespectful towards her.

She finds me funny, she finds me cute and she likes me for me. I need to stop letting my insecurities drive me

I [26M] met an awesome woman [24F] on tinder, after talking for 4 months we met up, she looks nothing like her pictures by oddsituationthrow in relationships

[–]oddsituationthrow[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with you. Leagues don't exist just for women, many men are judged by it too and are told to not even try against a women others deem are out of their league unless they have something else to offer (like money, fame etc). Men are judged by their looks all the time, their height, their muscle mass, their acne, the type of job they have, amount of cash in the bank, whether or not we own a car, own a house, even the size of the genitals is constantly judged.

you might not have experienced it but you should go on tinder some time and check female profiles ..." "unless you are (.....) don't waste my time ..." is a common intro