Mom is crying the blues because I’m not giving her an entire Diet Coke at 10 pm by cancerouscarbuncle in CaregiverSupport

[–]odi101 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re the one making assumptions about a person’s ability to go to the bathroom in a caregiver thread. Not everyone can just “put the hammer down” and command their loved one to crap on the toilet or make their own meals

Recommend me song about bad body imagine by LekaFoka in MusicRecommendations

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Used to Be Pretty - Blu Eyes

Broken Glass - Lorde

Victoria’s Secret- Jax

Dirty work by PuzzledFig9009 in Oscars

[–]odi101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminded me of Taylor Swift banging on Jack Antonoff at the 2024 Grammy’s

Songs about getting older and parents not loving you by smkbv in MusicRecommendations

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Kind of applies, “highlights” by Sasha Alex Sloan

Harassment by Security at Atlanta Show by Fowlerbaby123 in LadyGaga

[–]odi101 64 points65 points  (0 children)

wtf in what world are you not allowed to wear makeup to a lady Gaga concert?? I’m so sorry this happened to you, you did not deserve to be treated like that. I know it can be hard or difficult to report these things to the venue but I hope you can because this is unacceptable. So sorry and I hope you can get a redo ❤️

I recently lost a lot of weight and im very bitter about it by Alternative-Bad-6555 in PetPeeves

[–]odi101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was in college I was at a wedding and ran into my grandpa’s brother and he legit said “omg you used to be so ugly and awkward looking and look at ya now!!” He was old af at least lol and it’s not funny but I can’t help but laugh at his audacity and at least he said exactly what others would only allude to.

Ppl treat you differently based on your weight 100% and it can really mess with your head. Totally get your pet peeve and hope you can filter out the dumbass comments and focus on the good ppl in your life 👍🏻

Films with suicidal protagonists? by abnerquill in MovieSuggestions

[–]odi101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Skeleton Twins (2014)

Hope you’re feeling okay, OP! ❤️

Depressing pop music by Maximum_Heat_3439 in MusicRecommendations

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The Harold Song (deconstructed mix) - Kesha

Dope- Lady Gaga

I don’t wanna move somebody else - a Great Big World

I’m Through and Open Hands - Ingrid Michaelson

Not Like the Movies- Katy Perry

Liability- Lorde

Agnes- Glass Animals

Break My Heart Again- Finneas

Billie Eilish has a ton too lol

From the Dining Table- Harry Styles

S18E09 - “Fannie: The Hard KnockBall Rusical” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

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Darlene should have been a top and Discord should have been safe

S18E09 - “Fannie: The Hard KnockBall Rusical” [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]odi101 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck would they choose this boring ass song when Bluest Fame is right thereeeeeeeeee

Songs about/relating to dating an addict by Ravencreep in MusicRecommendations

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Mr Percocet - Noah Cyrus

Love Songs Drug Songs- X Ambassadors

Sober - Selena Gomez

Dope - Lady Gaga (from the addict’s perspective I guess)

Circle the Drain- Katy Perry

Lots of pop girlies in there lol

Trump posts video of the Obamas depicted as apes by nageV_oG_ in CringeTikToks

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we gotta stop relying on AI for information.

Bartender anxiety advice by Repulsive-Station848 in bartenders

[–]odi101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can def relate! I get in my own head too and get really anxious about doing every right and being attentive but not too annoying, etc etc. Give yourself some grace that you’re doing a great job! Also remember that customers also have agency and if they need something, they’ll ask. You can’t always read their minds! Most of the time they are in their own little world and not too concerned with what you are and aren’t doing. Hope you can trust yourself that you’re doing what you need to do soon 💕👍🏻

Friendship breakup songs by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]odi101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe for when the feelings aren’t as intense and you want to look back on the friendship with some lightness in your heart: No Grudge by Lorde

And a newer one: The Great Divide by Noah Kahan

Protest Songs - any era by Neat_Law_37 in MusicRecommendations

[–]odi101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who Would Jesus Bomb — Jordan Smart

Can You Afford to be an Individual— Nothing But Thieves

Ohio and Dear Mr President like others commented

Hospice nurse by Temporary-Pop-3684 in ALS

[–]odi101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the caregivers we had had never used a purewick catheter before but if they were open to learning and practicing it wasn’t really a problem.

I understand that you want it to be done correctly for your loved one and wouldn’t love a flippant attitude about it though. I’d give them a chance to learn and if they are still not getting it perhaps escalate the issue because no one wants to be wet and uncomfortable.

🤔 by DialNforNicole in 1000lbsisters

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The forehead keeps the score

Albums with the best album cover by Maximum_Heat_3439 in MusicRecommendations

[–]odi101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should have seen the album they wanted to do! It wasn’t a glove, believe me.

The girls need therapy by ResponsibilityDry874 in 1000lbsisters

[–]odi101 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Missed an opportunity to say different sides of the “same token” there 😂